In 2002, Sun Honglei returned home and proposed to the elderly Ding Jiali to break up. Ding Jiali disagreed, she paid a lot for this relationship, but did not expect Sun Honglei to say: "You are so much older than me, do you think we are compatible?" ”
Ding Jiali is very successful in her career, but emotionally, she is a complete loser.
In the final analysis, it has a lot to do with her life and the biased ideas that arise as a result.
Ding Jiali was born in a patriarchal family, when Ding Jiali was born, she fell ill and her whole body festered, and her family thought she could not live, so they sent her to someone.
Fortunately, the mother who raised Ding Jiali was also raised by Ding Jiali's grandmother. Because of the same experience, her adoptive mother pampered her very much.
In this family that is not related by blood, Ding Jiali enjoys the love and care from her adoptive parents.
In 1980, Ding Jiali was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Without the discipline of her parents, Ding Jiali felt so free and soon made her first boyfriend.
Campus love, no other factors doped, very pure, the two are in love when Ding Jiali is pregnant.
She thought that her boyfriend would marry her, who knows, knowing that Ding Jiali was pregnant, her boyfriend was like a changed person, leaving her alone.
Disheartened, Ding Jiali ran to the hospital alone to give birth.
The failure of the first relationship made Ding Jiali suffer a great blow.
Ding Jiali's career development is very good, but the love life can really be described as miserable, always encounter scum, before marrying her first husband, she once had a fetus for the scumbag, was abandoned, Ding Jiali once talked about this abortion experience, she said:
"You can't imagine the pain, it's like making a big cut in the palm of your hand and taking the tongs to shave your flesh."
Discouraged, she focused on her work, and later met her first husband, thinking that she had found her own emotional home, but did not want to file for divorce when her daughter was full moon. This made Ding Jiali deeply devastated.
So Ding Jiali, who was disappointed in her feelings, once again put all her energy into her career, and after two years, in 1990, she was with a university lecturer.
She entered into marriage with her second husband, but what people did not expect was that the previous scene was reinterpreted, and when her son was full moon, Ding Jiali's second husband proposed divorce to her.
After divorcing her second husband, Ding Jiali put all her energy on her career, "Divorce", "Love Fool", "Camel Xiangzi" and so on, Ding Jiali has won the film queen 6 times, two best supporting actresses, two Chinese drama plum blossom awards, and her career is extremely successful.
In 1999, Ding Jiali and Sun Honglei became acquainted with the rehearsal drama "Madame Curie".
At that time, Sun Honglei was still a nameless person who ran a dragon suit, and Ding Jiali was already a well-known first-class actor of the National Drama Theatre.
It can be said that she has won the Golden Rooster, Huabiao and the "Chinese Drama Plum Blossom Award".
For Ding Jiali, an old senior, Sun Honglei admired her from the heart and admired her.
And Ding Jiali also took care of Sun Honglei, and gradually, Sun Honglei also developed different feelings for Ding Jiali.
In the face of Sun Honglei's pursuit, Ding Jiali was very hesitant, she said: I am 11 years older than you, and I have been married twice, and I have a son and a daughter, and we are not well matched together.
Sun Honglei persistently said: I only love you as a person, and it is not a matter of not having him.
But Ding Jialisi thought about it and still rejected him. She didn't want to be hurt again.
After being rejected by Ding Jiali, Sun Honglei was not discouraged, and he proved his sincerity with practical actions.
Once, Ding Jiali was sick and hospitalized, and Sun Honglei was very anxious, boiling soup at home every day, mentioning that the hospital took care of her.
Over time, Ding Jiali was touched, since the divorce, no man has ever been so good to her, she fell.
The two began a sweet cohabitation life, during which Ding Jiali also had two births, and the two reached the point of talking about marriage.
Knowing that her daughter and Sun Honglei were in love, Ding Jiali's adoptive parents were unwilling.
They are very unoptimistic about this relationship and have been persuading their daughter to leave Sun Honglei.
The reason given by the parents is that the age difference between the two is too big to grow up.
This remark made Sun Honglei very angry. Ding Jiali comforted him and said: You can rest assured, no one can tear apart our feelings.
Later, Sun Honglei successfully entered Zhao Baogang's crew and starred in his famous work "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind".
But after becoming famous, Sun Honglei saw the prosperity of time and was fascinated by his eyes, he felt that Ding Jiali was too old, he was still young, and the good times were still behind, so he broke up.
When he returned home and saw Ding Jiali who had removed her makeup, he couldn't stand it for a day, and directly proposed to Ding Jiali to break up. Ding Jiali, who could give everything for her and regard him as a heaven, said that she would not agree to anything.
Sun Honglei said something that completely made her despair: "Are you worthy of me?" Just these few words, but enough for Ding Jiali to remember for a lifetime, she knows that if she continues to entangle, she will only lose both sides, so she left disappointed.
Although Sun Honglei and Ding Jiali broke up, but Ding Jiali's value in his life is immeasurable, maybe without Ding Jiali we would not know Sun Honglei now, let alone talk about his old past.
I hope that all the true feelings will not be disappointed, and all the efforts can be rewarded.
