The pictures in this article are selected from the pictures related to Wang Xiaofei and Big S, as well as the stills of the TV series "Thirty Only".
What does it feel like to have an inattentive husband? These days, the white eyes of big S are estimated to be turned into the sky.
The cause is that Wang Xiaofei, who has just ended the isolation, has been on the hot search for two consecutive days, and they are still the kind of "asking for trouble".
First of all, when he and his friends drank together and blushed and had a thick neck, he opened a live broadcast and chatted with netizens. Prescient netizens advised him not to live broadcast if he drank too much, so as not to say the wrong thing and apologize.
Who knew that instead of listening, he also played Lianmai PK, and the result was randomly matched to a good-looking anchor sister. At first, it was also a very happy conversation, but Wang Xiaofei's friend suddenly said that he knew the female anchor.
It can be seen that Wang Xiaofei and the female anchor are quite surprised. Especially in the case that the female anchor repeatedly said that it was impossible, Wang Xiaofei's two friends directly shouted the real name of the female anchor directly to the camera.
In addition to greeting across the screen, "Don't you know me?" He also revealed that he had drunk wine together in Chengdu, and even used the strength of the wine to let the female anchor stop playing and disappear, and "teased" her with a greasy old man's tone.
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The female anchor was frightened and asked how to know her. Wang Xiaofei also suddenly became a melon-eating crowd, surrounded by two friends and a female anchor.
Subsequently, the embarrassing female anchor stared at the unclear explanation and went offline directly. Sensitive netizens began to question the cattiness of this, and when the female anchor subsequently broadcast separately, they ran to the comment area of various insults.
It is reasonable to say that this matter has little to do with Wang Xiaofei. However, the straight man who drank a lot of wine broke out a strong sense of justice and the desire to complain, returned to the hotel and opened a live broadcast, advising netizens not to scold the female anchor, saying that people are very good a girl, and it is innocent to be connected by him.
The funny thing is that because he was lying on the bed covered with a quilt, he was automatically determined by the platform that "men, women and children are not suitable" and was forced to go offline. Then even on the line, the alcohol was used to scold the platform and burst out of the foul mouth.
Sure enough, the next day when the tiger woke up and became a cat, he began to apologize, saying that it was a bit of a release to isolate for too long, and he did not know the girl who was connected.
Netizens are not too big to see the hilarity, they all say that it is okay brother-in-law, you explain it to your sister.
In fact, this is not the first time Wang Xiaofei has drunk and done things. Either you get drunk and argue with the taxi driver, or you drink too much and get photographed getting too close to a girl, in short, every time you get drunk, you will be a moth.
Everyone joked, it was really bitter big S, a sister who loved to drink and go crazy, and a husband who loved to drink and make trouble.
This was already in the past. Partially, Ms. Zhang Lan was very upset with her son, and she shook her arms and exclaimed: What happened to Lian Mai? Didn't do anything wrong, why apologize.
With this support, Wang Xiaofei felt "wronged the baby" again, and once again explained that visiting relatives back and forth between the two places, suffering a lot of sins, especially missing her daughter.
Just this time the painting snake added enough words, it seems a bit down-to-earth, directly intimidated "think why don't you think your daughter doesn't video with Yue'er, but instead goes to drink with friends to open a live broadcast?" ”
Wang Xiaofei deleted this Weibo in seconds, so it was on the hot search again.
This man really can't help but boast, last month he was still sending diamond rings to Big S, celebrating the tenth anniversary of marriage, being praised by everyone and spoiling his wife, only a few days after he came back, he was questioned about the problem of ideological character.
They all say that they are not afraid of God's opponents, and they are afraid of pig teammates. Wang Xiaofei is struggling to find a good man image, and she is crumbling because of the quality of the social circle.
But people are divided into groups, and I am afraid that they are not so innocent. Today's private reply comes from a girl who senses that her husband is on the road to change, hoping that Seth can help her.
Hello Thurs:
I've been a little worried lately.
The husband is an outgoing and cheerful person, the fox friends outside, ah no, there are a lot of wine and meat friends. At first, I thought he had friends, and I was free, and I didn't have to tie two people together all day long, and I was bored with each other.
Rest assured, too. Because every time he went, with whom, and what he did, he explained it to me clearly. On the one hand, he just likes to share with me and belongs to the dog husband; on the other hand, I think it is also a form of reward for my "free-range" him.
But then, I felt something was wrong. For example, he seemed to tell me last time that which friend was speculating in the fund, and he had the heart to jump off the building. I was also glad that I had resisted the temptation before, although I had been instigated many times, and fortunately I did not play with fire with others.
This time, I said that even the one I knew, who was who, actually hid from my wife to find a little girlfriend from a foreign country, and went on a date every three to five days on a business trip. And the girlfriend over there didn't know the fact that he was married.
I listened with disdain, he spoke with all his strength, and I felt that it was time to educate him.
Several times in a row, as soon as he said that he was going to a party for dinner, I cut him off, sometimes saying that he was uncomfortable, sometimes saying that his parents were uncomfortable, anyway, he tried not to let him go to "fool around".
Last weekend, he couldn't resist accusing me of being a changed person and starting to interfere with his freedom. I wanted to just sit down and tear it up, the one who is close to Zhu is red and the ink is black, and he is friends with people with bad character, and he certainly can't get out of the mud without staining. In the long run, can I still expect everyone to be drunk with his concentration?
He also knew the reason, and he was also moved, but he did not agree to break off his friendship with these garbage friends, saying that he was going to be laughed out of his teeth, drowned by the spit star, isolated by the entire circle of friends, and could no longer be a person to go out and mix.
Is it such an exaggeration? I heard that Thurs is also a boy, what do you think?
Seth replied:
Girl, see the letter is good~
There is no statistics on how many men will have conflicts between friends and partners, but according to visual measurements, there are indeed many.
Wang Lihong, who is now an uncle, had a song called "Have You Ever Loved" in the famous album in 1999, which has an impressive lyric:
"If you love someone, you won't make him miss his friends."
At that time, I had just been in high school and had not had time to fall in love early, and after listening to the shock, did I have no friends when I fell in love!?
Later, although I knew that Teacher Wang's meaning was not so absolute, I gradually realized the subtlety of it.
After all, a person has limited time outside of work, and both social and family life need to be allocated.
For example, there should be many people who have experienced the scene of sitting at the wine table and being called by their daughter-in-law, thanks to the mobile Internet, and even some people need to be forced to connect to the video, almost let the people present be rewarded one by one.
Although I always think from a woman's point of view, it is really nothing to have the right time with friends, in fact, there may not be any particularly valuable words on the wine table, but for many men, it is their way of releasing emotions, and women shopping for afternoon tea is no different.
Of course, for friend communication, there are two preconditions for consensus:
The first is "moderation" and the second is "not aimed at evading family responsibilities".
The reason for the vast majority of such conflicts is that some men have poor self-control, either staying home every day or using the excuse of being with friends to throw all the trivialities of the family to the other half.
And the situation you face may be worse, because his friends can indeed become hidden dangers.
It is as if many cautious people will value each other's family when considering the marriage partner, not material conditions, but parents as human beings.
Because they will inevitably have a huge impact on the child's cognition when they grow up, and determine the foundation of a person's personality.
The more they get along, the more they hear, the more they affect each other's values and experiences.
And look at the content of the letter, your husband's circle of friends seems to have gathered all the rotten people's cards, which can be called the king of scumbags.
Negativity, gambling, affairs, and the desire to make quick money, to be honest, these add up to a time bomb.
So, there's nothing to say, and it's time to choose one or the other.
For a man like your husband, it's important not to bend over backwards, and his sophistry is to turn discussing the rotten friend into discussing your freedom to interfere with him.
Harm, freedom, the word is like a note that "a man is a teenager until death", and it is also a useful excuse.
You tell him it's no problem, the real freedom is not even marriage, that's not just freedom, it's your freedom.
Many men complain that their partner forced himself to choose between her and her friends, but in fact, he did not blame himself.
Well, finally recommend an old movie to you, 2005's Alicia Vega's "Strange Girl Out", which shows the understanding of friendship from a cruel point of view.
After all, distinguishing between a truly valuable relationship is an important subject in life, both men and women.
Let's talk
Would you mind the other half of those "fox friends"?
Thurs, a woman with a scented soul signed author. Ten years of advertising man, the poisonous chicken soup maker walking in the emotional world, understanding feminism from the perspective of a man, good at gentle reasoning, a straight man who does not hate, the portfolio "Concave and Convex Relativity".
Lola, a woman with a scented soul signed author. This pair of eyes see through too much, and the red-haired poisonous tongue little lady who does not provoke people to provoke.