You and I are small people, and to lose is to lose
A bowl of tea in the rivers and lakes, after drinking and then struggling, going out on your own, all over the world are home. Many people care about other people's opinions, but they don't know how naïve these views are, a drop in the ocean, just some stumbling blocks, he can't help you grow, but it is your burden, your obstacle.
You are always so persistent, like to fight for a "win or lose"
A lifetime is nothing more than the pursuit of a win or loss, you do not want to lose, it is nothing more than your own values are not affirmed and not recognized. You feel that you lack a sense of belonging, lack of love, lack of being cared for in this world, this is the "weak" nature that many of us have, after all, what we pursue in life and all our lives is nothing more than wanting to win, wanting to live better than others, and wanting others to think that we are living well.
You don't accept defeat, in fact, you don't want to accept reality
I have seen such a passage on the Internet. Your ten years of hard reading is better than the efforts of generations of people, in your eyes, other people's fine clothes, other people's brand-name bags, Apple mobile phones, other people's villas, other people's cars, are the result of the efforts of generations of people. You and I are ordinary people, only read books for a few years. What you and I compare with the efforts of generations of people is not my self-deprecation, nor is it sarcasm and irony, but a naked reality, and some things are born without it.
There are two things we have to do well throughout our lives
One is that we have to find the right lover, but we have to find the right career. Because when the sun rises, you have to devote yourself to your career, and when the sun goes down, you have to hug your lover. I don't want much, happiness is good, there is you, the so-called sense of value, the sense of belonging, including the affirmation of others to you, those are all illusory, is the bubble, he is dispensable, can not bring you anything, can only bring temporary vanity, temporary glory, and you want the whole world.
Our tiredness is only known to ourselves, in fact, what overwhelms us is never the lack of economic foundation and the hardships of life, but everyone takes you as a dependency, but you have no one to rely on, because your parents are old, they need you to take care of them, the children are still young, they need you to raise, and the wife needs your companionship and encouragement, so you can't fall, because your efforts to these years have been wasted.
Maturity is not early or late, the important thing is that you can stick to it. Learning to move forward in the collapse is what a man should look like, the courage he should have, life is not easy, and he must know how to cherish it.
The text is short and warms up with you.