CCTV host Huang Wei is an excellent host familiar to the majority of the audience.
The "Sunset Red" she presided over was well received by the masses, and she herself was also a model of respecting and loving the elderly in her daily life.
But in life, she served her bedridden father for more than ten years, giving him dignity and love.
After the death of her father, she took on the responsibility of caring for her mother and gave her the best company.
She is a good daughter and a person with great love.
01, the goddess of heaven is very good
Huang Wei was born in 1964.
Her parents were classmates from Beiwai, her father Huang Dejia was a famous diplomat, and her mother, Chen Caiju, was also an excellent woman.
When Huang Wei was a child, her father worked abroad for many years, and her mother took on the responsibility of taking care of her and her sister.
Chen Caiju was alone with two children, and her energy was a little stretched.
But in order to support her husband's work, Chen Caiju always told her husband that everything was fine at home.
And Huang Wei is also very sensible, she gave her mother advice, let her mother lock herself at home, and then she can go to work with confidence.
Every spring, Huang Dejia can go home, and he always brings a lot of small gifts to his children.
But for children, seeing their father is the thing that makes them happiest.
Huang Wei's study is excellent, and she has a talent for literature and art.
Rehearsal sketches in school, dramas are indispensable to her.
In the blink of an eye, Huang Wei is about to graduate from high school, and her parents are interested in letting her apply for her alma mater, Beiwai.
But just when Beiguang went to the school for early enrollment, the school recommended Huang Wei.
Huang Wei stood out through various examinations and was successfully admitted to Beiguang.
After entering Beiguang, Huang Wei studied hard and graduated with the first grade in the class.
Then, she also took the CCTV announcer exam with her classmates. She became the only girl to be admitted with solid basic skills, clear words, dignified typhoon and elegant temperament.
After entering CCTV, she has hosted programs such as "Walking with You".
At the age of 30, Huang Wei got married and had children.
At the age of 32, she began to host "Sunset Red" again, because of the profound hosting skills and natural style, Huang Wei soon gained popularity.
In 1998, she played Deng Yingchao's predecessor in the movie "Mrs. Li Zhifan".
Parents look at their daughters, their careers are smooth, their families are happy, and their hearts are very happy.
02, the father's illness is all gray
Huang Wei's father has always had high blood pressure, and in October 1998 he fell due to a stroke caused by high blood pressure.
When Huang Wei received a call from her mother and rushed to the hospital, her father was already lying on the bed and fell into a coma.
Huang Wei and her mother stayed in the hospital, anxiously waiting for her father to wake up.
Four days later, Huang Dejia woke up, but before Huang Wei and her mother could be happy, the doctor told them that Huang Dejia's right body could not move, and in the future, he might have to lie in bed and spend his days.
This news, for Huang Wei's mother and daughter, is tantamount to thunder on a sunny day.
But Huang Wei also secretly made up her mind to take good care of her father, and every time she walked into the ward, she had to dry her tears and pretend to be normal.
But Huang Dejia could not accept this blow, as a high-caliber student in the north, he served as a diplomat for half a lifetime.
He was confident and brave, energetic and talented, and many people fell for his charm.
But now I have become a person who can't take care of himself and can't even speak clearly.
Lying in bed, he was very sad, and when he had not improved after nearly half a year of treatment, he was discouraged.
In May 1999, Huang Wei helped him wash the bedpan.
He said vaguely to Huang Wei, "I don't want to live." ”
Hearing her father's words, Huang Wei's tears flowed out at once.
Huang Wei and her mother have been by his father's side to enlighten him, but Huang Dejia has stopped talking since then.
Huang Dejia, who was depressed, suffered from deep depression.
By June 1999, he began to try to force himself to eat, but never to defecate.
He wanted to die in this way.
5 days passed, his stomach was like a stone, but he still refused to defecate.
After 10 days, he did not hold back and pulled the stool on the bed.
At that moment, Huang Dejia cried and shouted, "Why can't you even die?" ”
When Huang Wei and her mother cleaned up their father's stool, both of them vomited bitterly and came out.
Huang Wei's work is very busy, she did not think about asking for a nurse, but she knew that the nurse could not replace her company.
In order to take care of her father, she rushed to the hospital every day after work.
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Time passed day by day, Huang Dejia's health improved, but the depression became more and more severe.
He doesn't talk to people, he doesn't communicate with people, he completely shuts himself off.
In order to make a difference in her father, she began to ask him questions every day to make him feel that he had done something old.
He also performed magic tricks for his father every week, so that his father could feel the vitality of life.
Thanks to Huang Wei's efforts, In February 2000, Huang Dejia's body finally met the discharge criteria.
They took their father home.
After returning home, she made a special diet and exercise plan for her father, wiped her body and fed medicine, chatted with her, and did everything in place.
Seeing that her daughter had to serve herself like this while going to work, Huang Dejia was distressed.
He decided he had to work hard himself.
He began to slowly try to eat on his own and dress himself.
Although at the beginning, he used chopsticks to pick vegetables, and the dishes fell everywhere, and the clothes could not be put on at all, but he did not give up.
After a year of hard workouts, Huang Dejia's right hand function was miraculously restored.
Dressing, eating, washing his face, these daily actions, he can do it himself.
By April 2004, Huang Dejia's condition was getting better and better, and Huang Wei looked at her father who was looking out the window and realized that his father had not gone downstairs for a long time.
So she and her sister, as well as her mother and niece, worked together to carry her father from upstairs to the garden downstairs.
Huang Dejia looked at the blue sky and white clouds and confidently told Huang Wei that he would definitely stand up.
This was also Huang Wei's happiest day.
But unfortunately, Huang Dejia died in October 2008.
Before he died, he took Huang Wei's hand and said that there were no regrets.
It is said that there is no filial piety in front of the long-term sick bed, but Huang Wei has proved with her own actions that there is filial piety in front of the long-term sick bed.
Her uncomplaining and unrepentant dedication to her father over the past 11 years has touched many people.
04, accompany the mother out of the trough
But what Huang Wei did not expect was that after the death of her father, her mother's state also declined rapidly.
Seeing that her mother was depressed, Huang Wei proposed to let her mother live with her for a while to ease her mood.
But was rejected by his mother.
One day, Huang Wei went to her mother's house as usual after work, but found her mother listlessly taking out a passbook.
Chen Caiju told Huang Wei that the passbook was the pension he had saved, and the password was Huang Wei's birthday.
Huang Wei realized that her mother's state was not very good.
Worried, she took her mother to the 301 Hospital.
The doctor told her that the old couple had been accompanied for decades, and one party suddenly left, and the other party's psychology must be traumatic.
In order to let her mother get out of the psychological trauma as soon as possible, Huang Wei replaced all the furniture and soft decorations at home with new ones, and bought a lot of plants for her mother to take care of every day.
Under the care of Huang Wei, Chen Caiju's mood was greatly relieved.
But in the fall of 2010, after attending an old friend's funeral, Chen Caiju's mood began to decline again.
Huang Wei then used the strength of the whole family to save her mother, she arranged for her husband to learn Russian with her mother in the morning, and her daughter went to her grandmother to sing after school, basically not allowing Chen Caiju to have a lonely time.
As soon as she had time, she took her mother on a trip.
It took her mother to travel around the motherland for more than half a year.
After returning from a trip, in order to make her mother's mood feel sustenance, she proposed to write a memoir together.
Chen Caiju was very supportive of her daughter's suggestion, and since 2012, Huang Ju has accompanied her mother to start sorting out her memoirs.
Seven months later, Chen Caiju's memoirs were written, and Huang Wei bound the memoirs into a book and gave them to her mother as a gift.
After so long of conditioning and precipitation, Chen Caiju's mood slowly calmed down.
She finally came out of the pain of widowhood.
In 2014, Chen Caiju also organized a group with the elderly sisters in a community, exercising and chatting together.
The day passed quickly from the afternoon to the evening.
Because of the good exercise during the day, Chen Caiju's insomnia at night was also cured.
Huang Wei saw that her mother actively participated in group activities, and she encouraged her mother to work in a younger and more fashionable elderly model team.
With the encouragement of Huang Wei, Chen Caiju's spirit and appearance became younger and younger.
If there is a major holiday, she can also wear red armbands and volunteer to go to the streets to help guide traffic
Seeing that her mother had lived so fully, Huang Wei knew that her mother had come out.
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As the host of the elderly program, Huang Wei's care for the elderly is not limited to her parents.
Watching the fathers who once built the country grow older, she felt obligated to do more.
In addition, she regularly visits the elderly in nursing homes.
She visits an average of 25 homes for the elderly every year, visiting more than 3,000 elderly people, most of whom are elderly people with five guarantees and disabilities.
In June 2015, she also funded with her mother to organize more than 200 elderly people to travel to Beidaihe.
When many old people saw the sea, they were filled with tears of excitement.
Under her influence, her husband and daughter also often go to the nursing home, and in Chinese New Year's Eve 2017, she took the whole family to the nursing home to party with the elderly.
She took the elderly to play games, watched shows, and made dumplings like her own daughters.
She knew that many homes for the elderly in remote mountainous areas were in poor condition, so she bought fitness equipment and daily necessities at her own expense to visit.
She would ask very carefully what was missing.
For example, whether it is a sheet or a mat, what style of clothing is convenient for the elderly to wear, and which kind of diaper to wear.
At most, she had been buying daily necessities and visiting nursing homes in remote mountainous areas at her own expense for 5 consecutive months.
In 2020, she specially created a "Senior Singing • National Senior Chorus Competition" for the elderly.
She knows deeply that the spiritual needs of the elderly are no less than those of the young, and what she wants to do is to make the elderly feel needed.
Huang Wei has love for her parents and has been an example of caring for her paralyzed father for 11 years.
Always have respect for the elderly, always give selfless help, and do not expect to return for decades.
By 2022, Huang Wei will be 58 years old, but she is still running on the road of respecting and loving the elderly, so that the host is the real positive energy and the great love.
I hope Huang Wei is getting better and better.