"The sun shines on the sea, and I belong to the sea. From here, he ended his life and took away the most beautiful scenery in the world. ——Liu Xuezhou
Sun Zhuo's incident attracted everyone's attention, and finally Sun Zhuo also returned to his biological parents, and the family enjoyed a family reunion, which made many people feel relieved and happy for Sun Zhuo's family.
As a populous country, such things are still happening, and many children have embarked on the road of searching for relatives for various reasons, but the results obtained are not satisfactory, and even make people feel sad.
"Born to be light, but also pure", Liu Xuezhou's suicide note was exposed, and his parents alluded to white-eyed wolves!
Liu Xuezhou was a child bought by his adoptive parents for 27,000 yuan, but unfortunately, his adoptive parents left him forever when he was 4 years old, so Liu Xuezhou has been living with his grandmother, which makes the family with bad economic conditions even worse.
Liu Xuezhou has always been very sensible, and he also knows that it is not easy for the old man to support himself, so he studies very hard, he works while going to school, in the eyes of teachers and classmates, he has always been a student with excellent character and learning, and has also obtained many excellent results.
He also knew that his family's financial situation was not good, so he embarked on the road of finding relatives, through the help of well-wishers, found his biological parents, so when his school was on vacation, he sought the help of his birth mother because of the accommodation problem, but he was directly blocked by the birth mother.
His biological parents finally remarried each other because of emotional reasons, but they were not as friendly as they seemed on the surface, and when he needed help, no family member provided him with help, and he was also implyed by his biological parents to the white-eyed wolf, especially the practice of the birth mother blackening himself, which made him completely chill.
In fact, Liu Xuezhou has always known that his biological parents were very indifferent to themselves at the beginning, and from the matter of renting a house, it can be seen that they do not want to help themselves because of economic reasons, but because they are a burden in their hearts, and they do not want themselves at all.
This was a very big blow to a 15-year-old child, so in the early morning of one day, Liu Xuezhou posted a message on Weibo, beginning with "when it comes, it is light, and it is also quiet.".
Released a long document, this document about his birth from birth was abandoned, bullied at an early age, transferred countless times, until under the intervention of the police, the birth parents had to recognize themselves, but they were abandoned again, and finally they were also subjected to Internet violence, these various unfair encounters, he said that he just wanted a home, wanted to experience the love of his parents, but was said by his birth mother that he was deliberately selling misery!
He also stated that when he was talking to his birth mother, he learned that he was a child who was sold by his birth parents, and the birth mother also said that if you want to blame it, you would blame the adoptive parents, otherwise you would be in a family with good conditions, and the truth of the facts actually made him a little landless, and also crushed his last straw.
Netizens in seeing Liu Xuezhou's information, suspected that he had a light life, in Sanya, Hainan, someone found him, and sent him to the hospital, but in exchange for the news of his unfortunate death, which made many people dare not believe, especially when everyone saw this suicide note, it was even more tearful.
What impact will parents' educational concepts have on students?
Think more about it for your students
This is a problem that many parents will ignore, in order to help students grow better, we must stand more in the student's point of view, can try to meet the requirements of students, which will improve students' autonomy, but also more confident, students will not appear inferiority and other bad psychology will also, students will grow up more healthily.
Parents should learn to listen
When parents communicate with students, they should learn to listen and preach less, which is conducive to promoting effective communication with each other, and this is also a kind of respect for students, parents know more about the real ideas in the hearts of students, parents give correct guidance, help students have independent consciousness of thought, so that students can grow rapidly.
Care more about students
The relationship between students and parents is the most intimate, the feelings are also the most real, parents as the student's first ideological mentor, play a great role, has a very profound influence, family education subtly affects the relationship between parents and children, parents' cultural accomplishment and quality and moral concepts, laying the foundation for the growth of students.
The author would like to say: the road to find relatives has attracted everyone's attention, if the ending is good, then everyone will be happy together, but not all people are so lucky, they should be more cared for by everyone, and as parents, parenting refers to the responsibilities that every parent must fulfill in their lifetime, which shows that Liu Xuezhou's parents are unqualified.
Family education is a very profound discipline, it is not easy for parents to educate a student well, and parents must also do their due responsibilities, know the students' ideas well, as long as there is no error of principle, they must do their best to help students, give students unlimited love, so that students will also repay their parents with the best achievements.
Today's topic: Do you think Liu Xuezhou's parents are worthy of being parents?