Why are more and more people reluctant to celebrate the Spring Festival?
Although the Spring Festival is a major festival in our traditional sense, when relatives are reunited, there is inevitably too much embarrassment and helplessness.
Awkward one – single forced marriage.
Recently, a 30-year-old programmer boy in Beijing successfully avoided the 7-day shift in advance of the holiday, thinking that he could start a beautiful holiday life, but he did not expect to be arranged by his parents to have 7 blind dates! per! sky! One! field! The guys also feel devastated!
For today's young people, falling in love and getting married has become a very difficult thing. There are more than 10 million more men than women in China, and the rarity is precious, and the demands of women are gradually increasing, resulting in many men being forced to remain single.
Wanting to get married and not meeting the right person has become an unspeakable secret of being single. And this pain is going to be uncovered in a group of people, who wants to endure it?
Embarrassment two - persuade the wine
Relatives get together, and drinking is inevitable. If you don't drink, others will think that you are out of breath and come home to look down on people; but if you drink, cup after cup, you can't push it off, and finally get drunk like mud, very uncomfortable!
Embarrassment three – being treated differently
Since ancient times, human beings have the problem of bullying the soft and fearing the hard, climbing high and low, and flattering. If you mix well, everyone will come to flatter you; but if you mix well, you must accept the indifference of others.
The Spring Festival is a reunion and a place of execution, and reunion with parents is warm; reuniting with relatives is like going to the execution ground, and people whose careers and families are frustrated will be stripped to death.
Therefore, I hope that people who see this headline can look at the people around them with a peaceful mind. If you're having a good time, know that those who aren't as good as you need your encouragement; if you're having a bad time, say a few words to anyone you can talk to, leave early if you can't say, minimize the damage, and then tell yourself that you'll get better and better in the new year!
Tian Jie believes that the years will not be indebted to everyone who works hard! Even if you are single for a lifetime, it doesn't matter, even if you are mediocre for a lifetime, it is no big deal. Be yourself, do your job well, and be worthy of your conscience.
