Everything in the world has positive and negative aspects, all things, there is no unified yardstick to measure its yes or no, one thing from different angles, will see different landscapes, will have different feelings. As Rodin said, "Look at things differently, and life will show another kind of beauty." It is not a lack of beauty in life, but a lack of discovery. ”
Our world and life are ever-changing, in real life, we often encounter such and such questions, but when you question or even imitate, confused, do you try to understand from another angle? When you encounter setbacks or even anxiety, do you try to look at it from a different perspective? When you are in trouble or even pessimistic and disappointed, have you tried to solve it from a different perspective?
I saw a story like this online not long ago:
Essen plays saxophone in a nightclub and doesn't make a lot of money, but he's always happy and optimistic about everything. He used to say, "When the sun sets, it will rise, and when the sun rises, it will set, and this is life." ”
Rosen loves cars, but it's impossible to buy a car with his income. When he was with his friends, he always said, "How nice it would be to have a car!" "The eyes are full of infinite yearning. Someone teased him: "You go buy lottery tickets, if you win the lottery, you will have a car!" ”
So he bought a lottery ticket for two dollars. Probably because heaven favored him, Rosen really won a jackpot with a sports lottery ticket for two dollars.
Rosen finally got his wish, he bought a car with a bonus, drove around all day, went to fewer nightclubs, was often seen whistling on the forest vagina, and the car was always spotless.
One day, however, Rosen parked his car downstairs, and when he went downstairs half an hour later, he found that the car had been stolen.
Friends learned the news, thinking that he loved the car so much, tens of thousands of dollars to buy the car in the blink of an eye, they were worried that he could not stand this blow, so they met to comfort him: "Rosen, the car is lost, you must not be too sad!" ”
Rosen laughed and said, "Hey, why should I be sad? ”
Friends looked at each other questioningly.
"If any of you accidentally lose two bucks, will you be sad?" Rosen went on.
"Of course not!" Some people say.
"Yeah, I lost two dollars!" Rosen laughed.
If we think about the benefits of everything so much, and look at the problem from another angle, you will optimistically look at the various setbacks and tribulations that occur on the road of life, because there are often unsatisfactory things in life, and if you are always worried about some unsatisfactory things, then you will never get happiness. So when you're in a bad situation, you might as well look at things differently.
The image | comes from the Internet