The big guys all say that there are many opportunities in this society waiting for you to grasp.
But you'll only find out if you're in it, and the truth is sometimes really desperate.
Especially for ordinary social animals like us, it is simply too cruel.
Today's young people are too hard!
The traps of consumerism, overdraft consumption, online loans, PUA, etc., may be the test that this society has given to us young people.
However, such a cruel reality, as early as ten years ago, Japan has already made a TV series that pays attention to the life of our low-level social animals.
At that time, we didn't seem to have heard of pua. What is naked loan?
"Dark Gold 岛" (Dark Gold Ushijima-kun) Is is a late-night broadcast produced in 2010, a manga of the same name, Masatoshi Yu yamaguchi, and Takayuki Yamada.
There are three seasons, nine episodes each, and after the second season, there is a special < Super Taix Jun> eight episodes. And there is also a < dark ugly island jun > movie between each season.
"Dark Gold Ugly Island Jun" tells the story of "cow cow finance" composed of president Ugly Sakura [Takayuki Yamada], thug Yuki Tsukiaki [played by Yabe Yumi], and thug Takada [played by Saimoto Kai] as the basic lineup of the "cow cow finance" lending studio to carry out a series of usury loans.
In the play, there are also all kinds of borrowers.
There are those who borrow money for comparison, those who borrow money for plastic surgery, those who borrow money for the girls who go to the custom shop, and those who borrow money for the sake of the cowherd boyfriend Rush No.1, but there are also those who pay for their dreams to borrow money.
In short, the problems faced by these people seem to be the same for the society we are in now.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > desire</h1>
Desire, these two words are terrible words, may be for some people to be your goal, but at the same time may lead you into the abyss.
And this transition comes entirely from your personal self-control and values.
If man is dominated by desire, he becomes a slave to desire, living by biological instincts, like a walking dead.
Once man is dominated by desire, he loses his rationality, and without reason he can do anything.
Why are there so many different kinds of lending software these days?
Or just grasp the consumption concept of young people now.
Whether it is to grab five or six thousand shoes on the outlet, or to go to a nightclub that consumes thousands of dollars a night, everyone has not hesitated in the slightest.
It seems to be very common among young people now, and it seems that everyone's economic level can fully support these consumptions.
But in fact, young people can't make ends meet, and they are always walking dead in "fake delicacy".
Many people spend money on packaging, like famous brands, through gorgeous packaging and expensive prices, people think that the things inside are worth a lot.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > redemption</h1>
Ugly Island Jun is hateful, and he does not refuse to come to borrow money, but he is cruel to those who do not repay money.
If the man owes money and does not want to commit suicide, he must first buy insurance.
If the woman owes money, she is introduced to the custom shop to work part-time.
Perhaps in his eyes these borrowers are just prey that cannot reasonably control their desires and are not good at thinking.
But these borrowers are hateful, greedy, stupid, and lazy.
The usury is just a magnifying glass, magnifying these shortcomings of theirs by a million times.
Then these shortcomings have reached the point where they are enough to destroy themselves.
Everyone is losing their way forward, with no money, no career, and more than more people who don't even understand what they should do until they die.
Mediocre and talentless people, poor all their lives, can only slowly wait for death.
Women use youth as a weapon to earn money, but women's weapons have a shelf life.
If you want to survive, you don't have to be taken away from yourself.
Although these loan sharks are hateful, there are also people who have successfully completed their self-redemption.
Three seasons of TV series, each season will have a person who finally completes the redemption.
It was like a faint ray of sunlight shooting through the thick smog.
It's not enough to illuminate the world, but it's dazzling enough.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03">PUA</h1>
There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with this passage if it comes from a normal relationship between a man and a woman.
But if it's in a PUA relationship, it's scary.
As long as you can control you from the spiritual level, your every move will be under his control.
There is also a lot of news about PUA in reality, and there are many people who have been deeply involved in it but do not know it.
In the name of love, moral kidnapping, constant compromise until you have changed beyond recognition and you are no longer you.
Obedient, it seems that everything is so rationalized, and what to do is justified.
But in fact, in a good relationship, both parties must be independent personalities, because different personalities attract each other to be able to be together, appreciate each other and cherish each other, rather than relying on a pathological surrender relationship to maintain.
There is no shortcut to love, and it is not fast to want.
You can expect a small probability event like an idol drama to happen, but you can't expect that to be the beginning of all stories.
Love is trust, love is mutual care, love is the fulfillment of each other.
Don't throw away all your hearts.
Loving yourself first and loving others later is the right way to start happiness.
In general, this drama is actually a human nature of ordinary people under the appearance of usury.
Human nature is neither ugly nor beautiful, it is just complex and there is no right or wrong.
This society is cruel, and if you want to satisfy your desires, you can only work hard to fight.
Whether you want to become a slave to desire or use desire as a driving force for progress is entirely up to you.
Although ugly island jun has always been a kind of loan collection situation in the play, but he also has a gold lord behind him, is he not equivalent to those who borrow usurious loans in his eyes?
Ugly Island wants to live, he can only find ways to develop the business, desperately to force people to pay back to maintain the operation of his company.
Who in this world can say that it is easy?
If you escape from the reality in front of you, the more you flee, the more you will fall into a painful situation.
We must have the courage to face the problem, and if we get through this dilemma, we should be able to solve the problem little by little.
Thank you to everyone you met, although it was late, rely on your own strength to move forward, in order to start a new life.
Life is extremely bitter, because it is trapped in endless desires.
Life is extremely hard, but we still have the desire to resist desire.