The frequency is different, and it is destined not to be a road person
In The Eleven Kinds of Loneliness, author Richard Yates tells eleven stories of loneliness.
Among them, there is a couple, a few days before the wedding, the girl suddenly realizes that there is a lot of strangeness between herself and her fiancé.
The girl who has no way out is full of loneliness and powerlessness, but she can only desperately hide herself.
Finally, Richard Yates writes:
"I think loneliness is the person you're facing, and his emotions and your own emotions are not on the same frequency."
Two people with different frequencies, like the radio, the channel is misaligned and can never hear each other's voices.
Even if they get along day and night, they are not the same person after all.
In the movie "Blue Sea and Blue Sky", Jacques is a diver, and Joanna falls in love with him the first time she sees him.
But for Jacques, he seemed to come from another world, like an Alice living on land.
Every time he dives into the bottom of the sea, he doesn't care about any world record at all, he just wants to stay there forever.
Even the photos of loved ones in Jacques's wallet are of a dolphin.
In this relationship, Joanna's world is Jacques, and Jacques's world is a lonely sea.
They hugged each other, but they were lonely with each other.
At the end of the film, Jacques still chooses to plunge into the deep sea, disappearing into the blue with a dolphin.
And Joanna cried out in pain:
"It's dark and cold there, nothing! Look at me, I'm real! ”
It wasn't until the last moment that Joanna finally accepted the irreversible fate of "Jacques doesn't belong to her".
Many times, love and not can't, are destined.
Just like the lyrics in Jay Chou's "Coral Sea": "Seabirds and fish fall in love, it is just an accident." ”
In the tragedy of feelings, it is not whose fault it is that the frequency is different, but it is a pity that one belongs to the blue sky and the other belongs to the sea, and together they will only consume each other
But true friendship and love don't make you feel tired.
Therefore, for the rest of your life, instead of consuming each other, it is better to find a lover and best friend with the same frequency.
