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Before getting married, she was a sketch actor who was just red, young, beautiful, a regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala, and her future was infinitely good.
In the first year of marriage, she became a mother and a housewife.
She pushed away all her work, put her acting dreams aside, and dedicated all her energy to her daughter who was crying.
In the seventh year after marriage, she became pregnant with her second baby.
But at this time, her husband Sun Nan was getting farther and farther away from their small family, and lost himself in the red dust outside the house.
In the eighth year of marriage, she was already a mother of two children, and she had become a completely yellow-faced woman, irritable, irritable, and untrimmed.
She knows that maybe she is no longer attractive to her partner.
That day, Sun Nan no longer hid it, he lowered his head and did not dare to look directly into her eyes, his voice was a little trembling but full of determination: "Buy, I am in love with her, let's let each other go." ”
In the first year after the divorce, the red sister was still immersed in pain and could not extricate herself.
The ex-husband made up another knife at this time and filed a lawsuit for custody in court when she was most sad and frustrated.
Overwhelmed, she once wanted to end her life, and at the critical moment she remembered a pair of children in the family and decided to start again.
In 1970, Mai Hongmei was born in Pingdingshan, Henan.
Her parents are engaged in the industry of literature and art, and they are also particularly fond of this beautiful daughter, and have enrolled her in dance classes and singing classes.
Growing up in thousands of pets, buying a red sister also lived up to expectations, and became a flower of the flat top mountain, and her personality was also lively and cheerful.
What the parents of the red sister did not expect was that a few years later, the daughter they held in the palm of their hand was stripped alive in the marriage.
At the age of 14, she put on a green dress and became an amateur singer and dancer, often performing in the camp with the team.
Once, her unit went to the countryside to offer condolence performances, and the actress who played the sketch could not take the stage because of her physical discomfort.
The leader was anxious, and a beautiful face appeared in his mind: Yes! Buy red sister this little girl is usually very eccentric, let her top it.
She did not disappoint the leader, although she did not rehearse, but her adaptability was first-class, and she interpreted a sketch vividly.
It was this accident that made the red girl mistakenly enter the comedy industry, and since then she has been exposed to sketch performances.
In 1993, at the age of 23, she appeared on a CCTV party and performed the skit "Little Nanny" on it, which won a round of applause from the audience.
Two years later, she walked to the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and performed "Something You Talk" with Guo Donglin.
With a solid foundation, plain and simple performance style, she stepped into the audience's field of vision step by step.
In those years, she was a regular visitor to CCTV.
If she hadn't known Sun Nan early and left the stage early, she might still be a well-known comedian to this day.
Unfortunately, many times the steps taken cannot be retracted.
Sun Nan is only one year older than Mai Hongmei, also born in a literary and artistic family, in the expectation of his parents, he embarked on the road of acting, and the two people's hard work process is in the same time period.
In 1990, Sun Nan released the first album of his life, thus stepping into the show business circle and becoming a professional singer.
In the following years, he turned to Hong Kong and Taiwan for development, but unfortunately the effect was not satisfactory, and he had to return to the mainland.
In 1996, after releasing the single "Red Flag Fluttering", he began the road of counterattack, and his career became smooth.
When he met the red girl, it was the time when he was proud of the spring breeze.
In 2000, the two met backstage on a show, and she was sitting at the makeup table.
Shortly before that, she used the hard money she had worked hard for many years to buy a house for her family, which was the day of housewarming.
Her mother said joy on the other end of the phone, she listened while responding in her hometown dialect, and she was completely unaware of Sun Nan's quiet entry into the dressing room.
She hung up the phone, and the voice coming from behind her frightened her.
"I can hear you're very happy."
Turning around, the buyer of the red sister found that the person who came was actually Sun Nan, who was extremely popular, and there was some discomfort in her voice: "Yes, can you understand our words over there?" ”
"No, but you're happy to hear it."
The words did not fall, and the face of the buy red sister was a burst of red.
After recording the show, everyone gathered together, and the two people happened to be sitting together.
Between the cups and cups, they chatted idly one after another, and their love also rose with drunkenness.
It was already dawn the next day after the party, and the two of them embarked on their respective journeys after a brief farewell.
But beyond the expectation of the red sister, in the waiting room, she saw the familiar face again.
At that time, she was flipping through a magazine, and suddenly the light in front of her dimmed, and as soon as she looked up, she saw Sun Nan's huge head.
Surprised, the man got down on one knee, took the bouquet hidden behind him to the front, and said, "Buy, buy, marry me?" ”
She thought it was ridiculous, the two of them didn't seem to have even been there for twenty-four hours, right?
Sun Nan continued: "I noticed you 5 years ago, then I decided that you are my wife in this life, I read your information, I know that you are Hui, so I have not eaten pork in all these years, and I am ready to marry you home." ”
It still sounded incomprehensible, but she fell into a sweet love affair.
Perhaps, at that time, Sun Nan was indeed in love with her.
But his eagerness is undoubtedly a sweet trap for buying red sisters.
It didn't take long for the two to enter the siege.
The first trap is to give up a career for the family.
In the same year of marriage, buying Red Sister gave birth to the first child to buy Baoyao, but at that time, Sun Nan's career was like day in the day, and he didn't stay home all day.
Always can not put the child next to the parents to let it grow freely, buy red sister had to push off all the notices, wholeheartedly accompany the daughter to grow up.
From this point on, the two men drifted apart.
Sun Nan sang on stage with surging emotions and full of energy; Mai Hongmei was imprisoned under the eaves by housework, surrounded by chai rice oil and salt and diapers.
Over time, they communicated less and less, and unprovoked quarrels became more and more frequent.
In 2007, she became pregnant with a second child, and the arrival of the little life did not make up for the gap between them, but on the contrary, the contradiction was manifested.
You know, raising a baby alone at home is not a pleasant thing, such as morning sickness and other physical discomfort she can only cope with alone, while at the same time free a hand to tutor her daughter's homework.
On that side, Sun Nan's career is becoming more and more prosperous, and the concert announcement is rotating continuously, which is also a lack of skill.
Whenever Sun Nan returned home, he lay on his head, and the red sister who bought him to help could only be exchanged for an impatient mutter.
She struggled to find a reason, a person who loved herself so much before marriage, how could she change her appearance after marriage, and maintain a detached appearance in the tedious housework?
And Sun Nan was also confused, how did a girl who was so understanding before marriage become dull and grumpy after having a child?
Not at all charming!
Faced with such disagreements, the two men chose different paths.
One continues to be with the parents for a short time, washing and cooking to take care of the children; the other chooses to go to the world of flowers and flowers to relieve their bitterness.
At that time, Sun Nan was obsessed with playing golf and ran to the golf course when he had time.
That green patch of grass is not only the scenery that Sun Nan looks up at, but also a scenery above the head of the red sister.
In the process of playing, Sun Nan got to know Pan Wei, the host of the golf game.
Pan Wei had two marriages and had a daughter with her first husband.
But it is clear that marriage and childbirth are just a thing of the past in her eyes compared to buying a red sister; although she has a child, she has not sacrificed everything for the family, and she still lives a dashing life, with a confident and cheerful personality.
Her words and deeds can always sweep away the bitterness in Sun Nan's heart, and her every move can always stir up the ripples in Sun Nan's heart.
Comparing the two compartments, Sun Nan couldn't wait to escape from the marriage, and when he returned home, he filed for divorce.
Buy red sister puzzled, one by one asked why.
He didn't explain, he just said that he couldn't go on, and it was better to leave early.
After all, husband and wife, he Sun Nan can't say that he planted a grassland on her head, right?
At first, she did not agree to buy red sisters, and she reflected on herself for the first time: Did she lose her charm in the trivialities of homework?
So, she made a comeback decision and joined Southeast TV as the host of a variety show.
In September of that year, she appeared in the TV series again.
Can regaining the identity of a career woman save the heart of the prodigal son?
Obviously not, his heart had flown away.
Shortly after buying Hongmei to give birth to her youngest son, Sun Nan once again filed for divorce, and in order to be able to get a free body, he used 30 million cash and five properties as chips, which was evident in his determination.
And this time, the disappointed buy red sister did not choose to stay.
In 2009, after the two people completed the divorce procedures, Sun Nan rushed to the marriage room with Xin Huan.
On this side, buying Red Sister chose to digest emotions at work, that is, this move allowed Sun Nan to seize the handle.
In 2010, Sun Nan sent a letter of complaint to Buy Hong mei on the grounds that "the other party was busy with work and had no time to take care of her children" and asked for the custody to be withdrawn.
When he threw off a seed, he withdrew and let it grow freely, and when the seed was taken care of as a small sapling, he said that he would dig it up and decorate his home.
Sun Nan's move undoubtedly pushed the already exhausted buy red sister into the abyss.
Later, she confessed in the media that she thought about leaving everything behind when it was the most difficult time, and she was a hundred.
At that time, she walked alone to the seashore, looking at the surging waves, she thought: The sea, the sea, can you take away my sorrows? If you can't take it with you, then take me with you.
But when the cold sea touched her feet, she suddenly woke up, and what came to her mind was a pair of childish faces.
"No, no, what can they do if I'm gone?"
A couple on the shore noticed her strange appearance and stepped forward to ask if they needed help.
In the face of the kindness of strangers, the psychological defense line of buying a red sister collapsed in an instant.
The girl stroked her hair and comforted her, "If you want to cry, we will cry with you. ”
Afterwards, they insisted on sending the red girl back to the hotel.
A few days later, buy red sister login social account, saw a "beach sister" ID message: you can rest assured, oh, the day of the event is only known to me.
With the warmth of a stranger, she patted the dust on her body, determined to start over.
In 2011, she stepped on the stage of the long-lost Spring Festival Gala, partnered guo Donglin again, and returned to her pre-wedding favorite sketch performance.
Although it is difficult to return to the mainstream vision, it also appears in some film and television works from time to time.
She can be seen in works such as "Divorce Lawyer" and "The Good Life".
Her relationship with her ex-husband is neither good nor bad.
The two people who once tore their faces were naturally unable to let go of all their love and hatred, but because of the character cultivation of a pair of children, they always had to pretend to be harmonious.
However, the ex-husband brother still produced a moth.
In 2019, a news item of "Sun Nan sent her daughter to a female Durban" was on the hot search.
The reason for the matter is this: Xuzhou opened a so-called "Chinese studies class", and it is rumored that Sun Pan and his wife moved their families to Xuzhou and enrolled their children in this Chinese studies school.
Pan Wei also said in an interview that since attending this school, the children have not cried, not made trouble, and have not demolished their homes, and have sat together and enjoyed themselves.
However, careful netizens found that Pan Wei's remarks were more pretentious than facts.
Some netizens broke the news that the means used by this school are similar to the chuan sales, and their friends seem to have changed into a person after they entered, as if they had been brainwashed, shouting that they would withdraw from the regular middle school.
Some netizens pulled out that this school is not formal, and the diplomas issued have not been recognized by the state.
The biggest controversy is the educational philosophy of Sun Pan and his wife.
Everyone found that the so-called traditional culture transmitted by this school is female red and filial piety.
At first glance, it sounds fine, but chewing carefully, I always feel that I want to teach girls to marry and have children as the purpose of life.
Is it difficult for Sun Nan to harm the purchase of red sisters is not enough, but also to Huo Huo's two daughters?
Putting good poetry and ancient books without teaching these miscellaneous chaff professors to the next generation is like picking out some broken copper and rotten iron in a pile of gold and silver jewelry.
During that time, Sun Nan and Pan Wei became the targets of everyone, and they were ridiculed from the outside to the inside.
As a party, Buy Baoyao stood up and said that he had learned a lot in this school, and the words were full of support for his stepmother and stepmother.
However, some good netizens dug out that she did not say so 4 years ago.
In 2015, Buy Baoyao, who had not yet taken the college entrance examination, said that he planned to take the chinese opera examination and become an actor.
At that time, when he learned that he was going to that school, he also expressed his resistance.
"I'm going to heaven in the mouths of my parents, the earth in the eyes of my students."
In this regard, buying red sister does not seem to have a position.
The feud between Buy Hongmei and Sun Nan seems to have been diluted by time, but the career and living conditions of the two people have also begun to flip.
In recent years, the 52-year-old Sun Nan has frequently appeared on variety shows, the most controversial of which is his show with Jin Wulin.
In recent years, Sun Nan's appearance has also undergone great changes, and the facial muscles without the blessing of filters have become loose and collapsed.
At the same time, careers seem to be on the decline.
On the other hand, the buyer of the red sister, who had been decadent for several years for this marriage, seems to be ready to start again, and more and more scripts have been received in the past two years.
13 years have passed, and presumably now she has also come out of a failed marriage, and she looks much more comfortable than Sun Nan in appearance.
She is 51 years old this year, but after restarting her career, she is more radiant, more feminine and moving than when she was younger, and her posture is not reduced.