After giving Ms. Zhang an electrocardiogram today, I cried inexplicably.
In the morning, a female patient with a broken rib was treated, and when she was preparing to take an electrocardiogram, she found that she had been crying. The mother-in-law next to her interjected that the daughter-in-law and son were angry, because the man was playing cards with several friends outside, and the two of them quarreled when they came home. The diagnosis was a fracture of the ribs. When I connected the instrument, I needed to lift the patient's clothes to expose the chest, the bra was very tight, and I couldn't push it up, and my mother-in-law helped her untie it. Ms. Zhang's swollen breasts have been flowing milk, and the mother-in-law quickly took the paper to wipe it, saying that the daughter-in-law had just been out of confinement for 10 days, and the baby had not eaten since the mother was angry. At the mention of the child, Zhang Woman cried even harder. In order to draw a good electrocardiogram, I suppressed my emotions while comforting Ms. Zhang until the results of the report were successfully released. Ms. Zhang still can't control her emotions and has been crying. Originally, I thought she had broken one rib, but after watching the film, she actually broke two front chest ribs. After explaining the precautions to the patient, Ms. Zhang was led by her mother-in-law to go for other examinations. After Ms. Zhang left, I finally couldn't control my emotions, and tears flowed out. Why is it so cruel? This is a nursing mother, even if there are thousands of mistakes, why can't you bear to do it?
Afraid that my colleagues would see the joke, I tried very hard to calm my emotions. This patient was hospitalized after a typical domestic violence that resulted in a fractured rib. It's really cruel enough, and it has not yet produced the puerperium period (refers to the gradual return of the mother to the pre-pregnancy state, which takes about 6 to 8 weeks). Most women are generally weaker after childbirth and do not have any strength. What kind of man is this kind of man who treats herself like this? He is not worthy of being a husband, nor is he worthy of being a father. At this time, how much harm does domestic violence do to women? Ever thought about it? Hurting his wife so much, he had touched the criminal law. Article 234 of the Criminal Law of the Mainland stipulates that whoever intentionally injures the body of another person shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention or public surveillance.
When I got up this morning, I was still discussing with my husband about Shaanxi executives beating their wives, and I was only detained for 5 days. I angrily told my husband that whoever dared to move one of my fingers would move his 10 fingers. My husband was still unconvinced and scratched me with his stinky feet. Indeed, when women face domestic violence, they are really helpless. We have seen many examples of domestic violence, but also those who have been injured by knives. How can I protect myself from domestic violence? Not every abuser is lucky enough to escape. But there is one thing that must not be resigned to it, and must not be a lamb to be slaughtered. Let's not theorize with drunken (drinking) men and avoid it when the situation is not good. We have many ways to ask for help, such as trusted relatives and friends; some domestic abusers, not to endure to make him wake up, but the law, if necessary, choose to call the police. Women should be independent in thought, independent in personality, and most importantly economically. When none of this can be done, we must also maintain a clear brain and protect ourselves. Of course, we hope to popularize the law in the community and at the grassroots level, play a deterrent effect on those scumbags, beat their wives and break the law, and if they are injured, they will be sentenced. It is best to concentrate on a law popularization class before marriage, know the law, understand the law, so as not to break the law later and not know.
In the afternoon, I heard the wah-wah of a baby in the ward, and I knew that Ms. Zhang's baby was coming. Because I am also a woman, with my expertise I told her that many patients with breast disease do not protect their breasts during lactation. The baby is guarded by the mother-in-law after eating. My mother-in-law wanted to say more words of thanks, and I rationally told her: "You fight, I am not talking to you from the perspective of medical staff." The mother-in-law kept saying that she did not educate her son well. Raising or not teaching, the fault of the father, are all people in their 30s, or the fault of the father? Obviously, it can't be said, scum is scum.
If Ms. Zhang's family knew that her daughter had been hurt so much, what would be the reaction? It's just that Ms. Zhang's pain this time, I hope it is the last time, otherwise, we must be fierce and take up legal weapons to protect ourselves.
Due to the different roles, I have professional ethics, so I can only warn and appeal here. We oppose domestic violence and protect vulnerable mothers. As a domestic abuser, you must not go against the grain, patience is not the way, you must be brave to use the law to protect yourself. I am what I am, a different kind of firework.