In love? The kind to break up!
Human beings have been the masters of this world for many years. Because compared with other low-intelligence animals, in addition to the instinct to eat and drink Lasa, people also have seven passions and six desires, love and hate, and complex and insoluble emotional entanglements.
From ancient times to the present, two people who were originally strangers, under various circumstances, met, knew each other, and loved each other, which is a wonderful thing! If you love each other all the way and stay with each other all the way to the end, you are really under the care of Heaven and envy the world.
Helplessly, the moon has clouds and sunshine, people have sorrows and joys, and this matter is difficult to complete.
As the saying goes: how deep love is, how deep the hate is.
Our love is inseparable, love is desperate, why goodbye is just a stranger, the night is silent, my heart is so cold, that despair hurts more than breaking up.
——Zhuang Xinyan, "Goodbye is Just a Stranger"
Once you have come to the end of the fate, even if the breakup has long been the consensus of two people, in the dark and silent night, remembering the inseparable inseparability of the past, you should also feel the pain of being stabbed in the heart, right?
If one party is broken up, it depends on the individual's endurance, and some people may hide and quietly lick the wounds, and use a long time to heal the inner wounds. Some people will be angry and do all kinds of irrational things, and the news is mostly obsessed with men and women who are bitterly entangled and want to die.
In fact, a relationship has fallen apart, and two people in the relationship should have feelings. As long as you don't deceive yourself, love yourself well, eat well, and choose the season of the final breakup, the pain caused by the breakup can be artificially alleviated.
What season is right for breakups? It is this spring when the wind is warm, the stars and the moon are gentle, and the flowers bloom one after another.
Why summer, autumn, and winter are not suitable for breaking up, and listen to me one by one.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > summer, even if there is no shortage of flowers, there are green leaves into the shade, but more is the scorching sun, sweating at every turn, food and sleep are not good. </h1>
Because of the high temperature, people's emotions are also prone to ups and downs, but when they encounter a little unhappiness, they may want to hit people in minutes.
In this environment, if you are suddenly broken up, a heart "bang" on the ground cracked into countless petals, no one can calmly accept, at ease, after all, compared to the material arrangement, the sudden lack of emotion can make people feel pain.
The pain of being broken up, certainly not willing, want to save, want to ask out the ugly Yin. But the Si people have gone, all the unwillingness can only be more and more intense sadness, coupled with the upset of the hot weather, fighting for revenge and forcing each other with knives.
Therefore, the one who wants to break up, please don't be impatient, wait and say.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > autumn, which was originally "a cool autumn". It is no longer like the fiery boredom of Xia, but the word "hurt autumn" is not a joke. People in autumn are always more emotional and easy to fall into a burst of sadness. </h1>
Autumn is always accompanied by sorrow.
Why? Look at the most ordinary scenery in autumn, all the leaves are falling, everything is withering, and the eyes are full of depression. Man is a product of nature, and circumstances can affect man. In such an environment, happy things seem to be more rare than usual, even if there is wine, it is probably more sad to pour sorrow through wine.
Originally worried, another breakup, you say who can be at ease? The power of sadness is no less than the power of irritability, especially some men, who are hurt by women, who have spent all the money but are gone, and may do something uncool in a daze.
Women are even more prone to inexplicably sad lords in the fall (I am). Such a state of mind, and then using a breakup to provoke her, is undoubtedly self-inflicted trouble and self-pestering.
So, the one who wants to break up, continue to be quiet, and wait.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > winter, the cold wind is cold, the snow is drifting, and everything in heaven and earth is dead. Constant temperature human beings can not be like some animals, can use "hibernation" to resist the blow of low temperature, although shrinking hands and feet, but in order to make a living, there are still a few more sets of autumn clothes and autumn pants, brave to move forward. </h1>
Autumn clothes and autumn pants are worn too much, originally tired and panicked, the winter grain may not be fully prepared, really not only tired, but also tired.
And the two parties with partners, in this silent and cold season, should have embraced each other to warm up, and looked forward to the arrival of spring and warm flowers.
In the cold winter, suddenly one party wants to abandon itself and leave behind the memories of facing the sweet time of the past alone, how beautiful it was once, and how miserable it is now. Who can be willing?
As a result, you may cry bitterly, you may be cold to the bottom, you may be miserable, you may be desperate to grasp the party that is going to turn around. In the end, it is nothing more than that winter is already too cold, and the heart is more looking forward to warm love to save the confusion of loneliness.
To be human, you must eventually learn to be merciful. In order not to deal a fatal blow to the person who is broken up, the one who wants to break up, or wait.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Don't ask me exactly when I'm going to wait, it was already said at the beginning, Spring! </h1>
Why?
Since spring has come to the earth, everything has recovered, peach red willow green, warblers flying swallows crying. The human world is full of laughter and laughter, and the brow in the heart is not tender and sweet.
Lukewarm and hot weather! Even if you want to break up, I have nothing to fear, as the saying goes: two-legged toads are hard to find, two-legged people are many! The old one does not go to the new and does not come, maybe the tomorrow after the breakup will have the blessing of sexual encounter.
The famous artist Zhao Zhongxiang once said in the famous dubbing: Spring has arrived, everything is revived, and nature has reached the season of mating. With the advent of the wet season, on the dry earth, there was a heavy rain, and everything began to stir...
You see, let the whole nature to the season of foolishness, why worry about finding a new lover?
So, break up and break up! Who is afraid of whom? It is better to lose someone who no longer loves himself than to struggle alone in a world of feelings that see no hope.
Therefore, the one who wants to break up, in the spring, don't hesitate any longer, send her (him) the most beautiful flower, and tell her (him):