As soon as everyone is born, they are sent by fate to a different starting point, and the track ahead is prepared for themselves.
But this is not necessarily the path of life that you must take. True life shines with the light of the soul, vitality, thoughts, and more of its own joys and sorrows.
The movie "Golden Treasure" tells us the story of a stubborn girl Tai Ping who strives to change her fate.
But the story is a little different.
It is not Cinderella who becomes a white swan, nor is it an ordinary girl who is inspired to fight back and succeed in reaching the peak of life.
It is the story of a girl who pretends to be a boy and lives for more than ten years, and finally gets rid of her father's vanity and selfishness, respects her own heart, and returns to the story of a girl.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 The father's vanity and patriarchality force her to become the "son" of the family</h1>
Tai Ping once shouted: Why am I like this? Am I not human? Why can't I hold my beloved's hand and have a baby?
Tai Ping is a girl who loves beauty like any other normal girl, likes beautiful clothes, likes shiny hair bands, and likes to grow long hair.
However, these can only become secrets in her heart that she does not dare to open, because a voice has always told her that she is a boy.
The voice came from her father, Cai Qing.
He was a wrestling champion in the Mongolian steppe for many consecutive years, receiving countless honors and applause on the field, enjoying people's admiration and envy.
But because he had only three daughters and no sons, he was ridiculed and ridiculed by his opponents.
When the fourth daughter fell to the ground, he spilled his anger and reluctance on his wife and the newborn child.
The wife did not give birth to a son for him, and the life of the fourth daughter was in his hands, and thereafter the youngest daughter would forever pretend to be his son to satisfy the vanity of his son, in line with his feudal idea that he must have a son, to get rid of the shame of being ridiculed.
In this way, under the guidance of his father, Tai Ping became an authentic Mongolian man in the eyes of others: taming horses, smoking dry tobacco, drinking spirits, and speaking in a man's tone, looking like a Mongolian man.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 Do your best to protect the voice of your heart from being obliterated: I am a female petite</h1>
Tai Ping said: Dad is happy, I am happy.
Watching her father laugh, she could laugh too.
Dad kissed her forehead, and she cooperated affectionately; when others talked about her father Cai Qing's son, she naturally responded with the tone of a wife.
In order to prevent her mother from being beaten by her father, she also told herself over and over again: I am a boy.
All this satisfies her father, but goes against her heart.
The cave in the distant mountains was the place where Tai Ping secretly returned to himself.
There, she wore a lady's robe, a hairpin, a wig combed into long braids, plain makeup, and a touch of red lips showing the shyness and charm of a girl.
Tai Ping looked at himself in the mirror and immersed himself in a moment of freedom and dreams.
Entering the cave, she is a delicate and charming girl; out of the cave, she is the proud son of her father.
Tai Ping's heart was torn, but she never forgot the fact that she was a girl.
This is The secret that Taiping does not know, and it is also the germ of Taiping's dream and life.
She succumbed to the power of her father, to the love of her children for her parents, to the idea and environment of son preference, she lived as her father wanted her to be, inheriting her father's glory, but her sober understanding of her own heart has never disappeared.
Tai Ping's later changes also stem from this persistence.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 Let go of the shackles and decide to change, love and affection will become a boost to transformation</h1>
Father Cai asks the son of his old rival Hang Kai to fall in love with Tai Ping, and Tai Ping also likes this seemingly bohemian man who has a deep affection for her.
Hang Kai said that for the sake of Tai Ping, he was willing to give up everything and run away from home with her. He also told Tai Ping that his own life was his own decision, not someone else's. He would wait for her in the cave three days later.
In order for her mother not to be abused by her father, and also for her father's face, she wants to recognize the appointment and let Hang Kai forget the fact that she is a woman.
When the secret of the cave is discovered by his father, after some insults and whipping, Tai Ping awakens, comes to his father, takes off his shirt, and tells him that she is his daughter.
In a fit of rage, her father threw her into the dark cellar and viciously told her that being a woman is the only way to do this.
In the cellar, she remembered those happy times with Hang Kai, and strengthened her decision to live again as a woman.
She came forward to visit her mother, exposing the fact that she had become dumb and unable to speak: not because she had fallen off her horse, but because of her father's beating.
She also told her mother that she had love, the normal feelings between men and women. She wept bitterly and begged her mother to let her escape from the cellar and pursue her own life.
Her mother released her, and she went to the cave to join Hangkai and start the new life she longed for.
Tai Ping is unfortunate because he has such a father.
Tai Ping is also lucky, she has always loved and defended her mother, and also met Hang Kai, who has a deep affection for her.
Whether it is Hang Kai's love or his mother's love, for the change of Taiping's fate, it is a guide and a boost, but in the end, these precipitated loves are transformed into the driving force for Taiping's change, relying on Taiping's decision and determination.
When Tai Ping made up her mind to be a girl again, Hang Kai's love and mother's affection gave her courage and help.
In the end, his father was also touched by Taiping's behavior, and Pan Ran repented, realized the unfairness he had forced on Taiping for many years, felt the pain in Taiping's heart, and wanted Taiping to forgive himself.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >04 People live a lifetime, and the key to getting rid of the shackles of life lies in themselves</h1>
The depth of the damage to people reflected in the film is jaw-dropping.
This is the shackle that his father brings to Tai Ping, who has to hide his identity as a girl and live as a boy.
If you think about it, everyone probably has their own shackles in the world, or they don't have a healthy body, or they are too poor, or they lack the company of family affection, or they don't meet a good person...
Many people, in the change of years, have long forgotten the bloody dreams they once had, adapted to the shackles imposed by the outside world, and their hearts are annihilated in the life of going with the flow, without their own thinking and consciousness.
Day by day, the soul has stagnated and has become a proper destiny.
In the play, Tai Ping's mother is also a victim of the idea of son preference. Because she did not give birth to a son for her husband, she could only endure her husband's humiliating curses and beatings, and watched her daughter become a victim, although she was very distressed, she did not dare to disobey her husband.
She has worked hard all her life, her face has vicissitudes beyond her age, and she has lived a humiliating and humble life.
It was her powerless fate.
But there are also some people, like Taiping.
Even if the world destroys itself again, there is still a world in the heart, and with its own likes, it will run freely, and when the time is right, when the opportunity arrives, you will be able to nirvana and rebirth and change your destiny.
People must understand what kind of person they want to be, and they cannot arbitrarily give up their original intentions, because hope is given by themselves.
Hope is gone, and life is gone.
If you don't forget it, there will be an echo.
If you do not forget your original intention, life will take care of you. It's just that when care comes, you have to know how to do your best and be brave enough to make changes.
May you go through all kinds of difficulties and dangers to finally reach your wish.
May you stick to the hope in your heart that you will eventually be able to control your life.
May you walk through thousands of mountains and rivers, all of which are the scenery you want.