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The secrets of life can be seen in the habits and ways of speaking

author:Three rivers minibus

Some people speak very slowly, very logically, and some people speak very impatiently, very messy, a person's way of speaking and personality, and mood have a direct connection, the same way of speaking can also expose a person's inner world, a person lies and tell the truth when the performance is different, therefore, in interpersonal communication, we can completely understand the other person's mood, personality and hidden secrets through the way others speak.

The secrets of life can be seen in the habits and ways of speaking

Liu Hong received a call from his college classmate Wang Mou asking him to go to Guizhou to start a business together, Liu Hong was worried about Manzhi, so he agreed to the request, when he came to Guizhou, only to find that he was engaged in pyramid schemes, he called his sister at home, invited his sister to help her, when his sister answered the phone, Liu Hong spoke very quietly, and a little bit of spit, the sister immediately understood what was going on, immediately hung up the phone, looking for the local public security organs to rescue Liu Hong, under the joint efforts of all parties, Liu Hong finally returned home.

People's mouth may be able to deceive people, but people's hearts can not be deceived, when you hear the words against your wishes, there will be emotional tension, language confusion, therefore, when a person's way of speaking has a significant change, then his heart must be hidden secrets, therefore, learn to speculate through the other party's way of speaking, will make you navigate in interpersonal communication, so how to from a person's habit of speaking, guess the other party's mind?

1, people who speak fast are impatient, generally have a bad temper, and they should be more careful when interacting with them, while people who speak slowly appear to be stable and mature, and it is relatively easy to communicate

2, a person who speaks slowly, the speed of speech suddenly becomes faster, then it shows that the other party may be hiding some secrets in his heart, or he is lying, and a person who speaks fast slows down the speed of speech, indicating that there are different opinions, or what dissatisfaction you have

3, under normal circumstances, a person suddenly becomes very slow to speak, indicating that the other party is in a bad mood, very sad, if it suddenly becomes very fast, it is likely to indicate that the other party is very happy and anxious to share something beautiful with you.

Friends, do you agree?