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She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

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She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

Each child has his own perspective on the world and constructs a fairy tale that belongs to them exclusively. Some things may seem ridiculous and unreasonable to adults, but they may be very meaningful things in the eyes of children.

- "Phoebe Sleepwalks in Wonderland"

The story of the father and daughter has recently caused a stir on the Internet, as if it were a true version of the movie "A Beautiful Life".

3-year-old little Salva grew up in Syria, where bombs have been bombed for many years, she is very afraid of the sound of bombs, her father in order to avoid leaving a shadow on the psychology of little Salva, so he played a very special game with her.......

She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

Dad asked, "Is it an airplane, or a bomb?"

She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

When he heard the explosion, little Salva subconsciously felt afraid (pupil dilation)

She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

Little Sal laughed at the thought of hearing the "bang" sound with his father.

Little Sal said, "It's a bomb, yes, we laugh when it comes." ”

After that, the father in the video was interviewed by the media, and he said this: Because Little Sal is very afraid of hearing the sound of bombs, he found that the sound of firecrackers brought joy to Little Sal in Little Sal's game, and found the fairy tale world constructed by the child, so he connected the explosion of the bomb with the sound of firecrackers, hoping to give him an ordinary childhood like other children, leaving not fear and danger in his childhood.

She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

After seeing this video, are you like us, both touched and heartbroken, a 3-year-old child to use the imagination to eliminate the fear of facing the bomb, which may be something that ordinary adults can't face.

Although the children around us rarely face cruel wars like the 3-year-old little Salva, the pain cannot be compared, and in different time and space backgrounds, every child is facing their own difficulties and challenges in the process of growing up.

However, how to give children a sense of security, how to repair children's psychological trauma, how to use scientific psychological technology to create a good childhood for children, may be that many parents want to learn but do not know how to do it.

She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

We are thinking that if as adults and teachers who often contact children, we can have a little more professional knowledge about children's psychology, or psychological helpers have professional evaluation skills, then there is a higher possibility to understand children's world more, and even cure children's psychological pain.

Every child deserves to be understood and treated gently. If you also want to know more about child psychotherapy, then learning child psychoanalysis with international child psychologists will be a good choice.

The following is the curriculum, I hope that through professional learning planning, you can let the adults who guard the children's side, more intelligent to accompany them.

She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee

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She laughed when she heard the bomb, but I kind of wanted to cry... | 3-year-old Syrian refugee