In love, there is a word called "emotional investment", when a person invests more in a relationship, the more he will fall into the relationship.
In fact, the principle of many things is the same, when you invest in a thing, the more you will care about this thing, even if you give up, it will be difficult to do.
Therefore, in the process of chasing girls, boys should learn to guide girls into your feelings, so that she will fall in love with you.
Of course, the boy's guiding behavior should be done enough to be "hidden", because if the boy's pursuit behavior is too deliberate, the girl will subconsciously avoid it, and the result will be more than worth the loss.
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If you want to do it covertly and let girls invest in your feelings, there are two key words to do well.
The first key word, input.
How do you get girls into your relationship? Then, in what way? In what ways can girls be guided to invest?
The second key word, concealment.
How to get girls involved in this relationship without a trace? Let her fall in love with you unconsciously.
Next, I will explain the specific operation skills of "guiding girls into a relationship" according to these two keywords.
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For girls, investing in a relationship refers more to: time and energy.
The goal that boys need to do is to make the girl's life full of your shadow, let her think of you in her heart, and think of you in her head, so that she is busy in your world.
The longer a girl is immersed in your world, the greater her investment in the relationship, the deeper her love for you will be.
There are many ways to "guide girls into a relationship", you can use my column "99 points of men", comprehensive learning, here we focus on "hidden" operating skills.
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How to covertly let girls invest in a relationship?
First of all, the boy needs to enter the girl's world first, and at the same time, he also needs to let her enter your world, which is the first step, don't walk, just think about learning to fly.
To put it bluntly, it is necessary for two people to understand each other enough to establish a good relationship, which is the basis for girls to invest in a relationship.
Because, only when a girl thinks that you are not bad, she will start to try the relationship.
Secondly, if you want to achieve "covert guidance", the key operational points are: find the emotional characteristics of the girl, and then, constantly dial her emotions, let her emotions change for you.
That is, you need to "disturb the girl's mind" and let her mind stay in your world.
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This principle is also easy to understand, I will give you an example: when you go to school, when your test scores are not satisfactory, and there is a classmate who has done well around you, he has been discussing with you the difficulty of this exam, discussing which classmate has scored how many points, will you find him very annoyed?
You feel that this classmate is very annoying, the reason is that you are very concerned about the results of this exam, at this time, all your thoughts are about this exam, as long as others mention this exam, it will disturb your mind.
In the same way, in the process of chasing girls, boys should find the emotional characteristics of girls, because her emotional characteristics affect most of her thoughts, and after boys find this point, they can easily affect the girls' thoughts.
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According to this thinking, I will give another example of chasing girls: girls are preparing to participate in graduate school, fully engaged in revision, then at this time, the most important thing for girls is to learn, and most of her thoughts will be on this aspect.
Then, you can start from the aspect of "helping girls learn" to influence girls' thoughts, for example, buy a pot of green plants for girls, so that when she sees green plants in addition to reading books, she will think of you; buy a rag doll for girls, saying that they are studying with her, after she is tired of reading, look at the doll you sent, you will remember what you said to her; tell some inspirational stories to girls, when she has no motivation to learn, let her remember the encouragement you once gave her.
Analysis: Girls are very concerned about the matter of examination and research, which is her emotional characteristics at this stage, after the boy finds this breakthrough, he will continue to add your shadow to her emotional characteristics, so that the girl's brain is full of you.
When a boy unconsciously breaks into the girl's world and stays in her world and makes her fall in love with you, it is only a matter of time.
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In fact, it is not difficult to chase girls, provided that boys learn to use the right methods and techniques.
Many boys always do not learn thoroughly when learning methods and skills, do not learn the principles of application, do not try to give an example, you know, there is no real internalized knowledge, it is in vain.
Believe that when you have the right approach, everything will be simple in an instant.
To learn the skills of chasing girls systematically and holistically, you can join my column "Men with 99 Points" to help you effectively improve your emotional intelligence.
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