At the end of the year, the red carpet of the entertainment circle with fragrant sideburns is piled up, which is much more lively than usual.
COSMO fashion festival, Mao Xiaotong incarnated as a cold "black swan", a smile, charming and moving.
The annual blockbuster drama "Thirty Only" that is permanently searched for is undoubtedly Mao Xiaotong's "god assist" of the brilliant star road.
Mao Xiaotong partnered with the powerful "star second generation" Yang Jiu, playing the "well-behaved girl" Zhong Xiaoqin in the play.
In the play, the "Island Over Heavenly Celery" CP, how miserable the front is, how sweet the back is!
Outside the play, Mao Xiaotong's true fate can also be regarded as bittersweet.
Who would have thought that behind this sweet-smiling girl was the first half of her life of fragmented sadness.
During the epidemic period, Lehua's paste coffee Xiao Ai Dou Huang Zhibo was arrested on suspicion of "mask fraud", and the melon eating masses lamented the death of the original family.
And was thrown in the trash at birth, and after becoming famous, he was extorted by his father for 50 million yuan, and Mao Xiaotong, a veritable entertainment circle "beautiful and tragic", can bravely face and grow against the wind.
It can be seen that the problem of the original family should not become a lame excuse for self-abandonment, but the starting point of the road of counterattack.
First, the fate of many bad, encounter the best scum daddy; love road bumpy, angry dumping of cheating scumbags
Mao Xiaotong has a sweet face that has not been beaten by life, but he has an unusually bitter and tragic childhood.
Before she was born, suffering was in this world.
The mother who met someone unladylike was still selling lanterns when she was pregnant, and she was working hard, resulting in her daughter being born prematurely.
Just picked up a life and came to earth.
Baby Mao Xiaotong was thrown into the trash by the patriarchal "legally illiterate" scum daddy.
Thanks to her mother's timely discovery, she was spared.
It is said that "tiger poison does not eat children", but men without a bottom line are evil and "inferior to animals".
If men are not instrumental, they are prone to bad habits.
He drank and gambled all day, causing the family to jump and the mother who couldn't bear it chose to divorce.
This responsible man evaporated from this world.
Leaving the mother and daughter to rely on each other for their lives, it is difficult to make a living.
Mao Xiaotong, who was originally surnamed "Li", also changed back to his mother's surname.
In order to make money, my mother first opened a restaurant and clothing store, and later worked as a beauty salon and a dance hall.
Knowing that it is not easy to make a living, she was more well-behaved than her peers when she was a child.
Even the injection that other children are most afraid of, Mao Xiaotong gritted his teeth and never cried.
Mental activity is calmly almost cruel: "I can bear this pain".
Day after day, hard armor draped over the little girl.
When Mao Xiaotong was 14 years old, her mother was gas poisoned.
In times of crisis, she responded calmly instead of crying in panic.
After calling 120, waiting for the ambulance, the little girl rescued her loved ones from the brink of death alone.
In addition to many misfortunes and disasters, fortunately, Heaven gave Mao Xiaotong a face of pink makeup and a clear and exquisite heart.
The beauty embryo of the aura, taking the road of art is the water to the water, the clouds straight up.
At the age of 4, he entered the Tianjin Little Angel Orchestra to learn the electronic keyboard and served as a leader on a TV show.
At the age of 8, he entered the Tianjin Cradle Children's Art School Choir to learn vocal music and piano.
At the age of 12, he passed the fifth level of piano.
At the age of 13, he was admitted to Beijing professional colleges to study international standard dance (Latin dance, modern dance), during which he won many awards.
At the age of 17, he was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama and won the Academic Year Professional Excellence Scholarship.
Until 2010, 22-year-old Mao Xiaotong officially debuted with the sweet and lovely role of "Liu'er" in the costume suspense action drama "Goddess Catch", and began to break into the entertainment circle.
But with 1.4 billion people in China and so many handsome men and women, it is not easy to be a household name "star".
In addition to making unimaginable efforts for ordinary people, it also requires a little luck of natural selection.
From his early twenties to his thirties, Mao Xiaotong suffered countless hardships.
Once unknown, tied to icicles until the crew finished, she had no complaints.
Later, after experiencing the hot drama baptism of "The Biography of Zhen Huan", "Divine Eagle Hero", "Tianlong Eight Parts", "Splendid Wei Yang" and "A Slight Smile is Very Charming", she finally survived the popularity.
Just like the "fourth theory" advocated by Huang Bo, Mao Xiaotong is in the best period at this moment.
Although it did not catch fire, it was because of its strength and appearance, there was no shortage of drama.
However, the "time bomb" that had disappeared for a long time suddenly appeared, and a stone stirred up thousands of waves, using "moral kidnapping" to draw Mao Xiaotong into the whirlpool of public opinion.
This man, who has a history of drug abuse and has been in prison, said that he was a father, but he was actually absent for decades.
Seeing that the ex-wife and daughter have a good life, jealousy is bursting, and on the show, by blood relations, they will open their mouths to 50 million alimony.
He said that his daughter Mao Xiaotong took over more than 40 plays, made a lot of money, was worth more than 100 million, and he did not want too much money, and he was greedy enough to swallow elephants, and he designated to open a Hummer to live in a villa.
This "father- and mother-in-law" accused his daughter of turning herself away, not supporting him, and not giving gifts, which made him feel cold.
Finally, he also put on an attitude of burning jade and breaking the net of fish.
"If you don't give money, go to hell together!"
The dirty water that was spilled on Mao Xiaotong's body during that time was all this shameless man's mouth.
The most distressing thing about Mao Xiaotong is not only the misfortune of childhood, but also the love of the non-human.
The boyfriend who was born in the draft and looked quite "Han Fan", was also a "time management master" behind his back.
In 2017, Mao Xiaotong wanted to surprise her boyfriend, but accidentally bumped into him and an actress.
In love for 3 years, there is no reluctance. Mao Xiaotong broke up decisively, and then spent several hours moving overnight.
The scumbag's career was ruined, and there is no hope of turning around so far.
When I cried and sold misery in the show, I don't know if I regret that I was once ghostly and missed such a good girl?
Second, "timely stop loss" is a symbol of women's wisdom and courage
In 2001, the "Sweet Sister" Drew Barrymore's "Driving with Boys" was similar to the situation of Mao Xiaotong's mother and daughter.
It is also based on a true story, which can be called a textbook-level model of women's "stop loss".
The whole meaning of the existence of the near Zhu is to pull the people around them into the quagmire.
Beverly, who married and had children, parted ways with her drug-addicted husband Ray, and her hopeless life began to turn around.
She worked tirelessly and eventually went to college and realized her dream of being a writer.
The young son also grew up to be a heroic and polite quality youth.
Compared to the harm of divorce to the child, exposing him to a distorted environment is the most stupid cruelty.
Mao Xiaotong's mother faced an alcoholic, gambling drug-related ex-husband, and it was difficult to be independent.
Mao Xiaotong has been in love for many years, and when he learned that the scumbag cheated and left decisively, it is also a kind of "stop loss".
Her mother's uncontrolled words and deeds gave her the most correct three views.
"Don't underestimate a woman's courage in dealing with problems," she said.
She did it!
Today,30 Mao Xiaotong, before and after the screen, are dashing women who dare to love and hate.
What can't kill you will make you stronger.
She believes that a sense of security should be given to herself, and modern women should have their own careers, lives and friends.
Therefore, actor Mao Xiaotong will write such a paragraph to Zhong Xiaoqin of "Thirty Only":
The so-called "thirty and standing" does not require us to achieve any great cause, but to have a strong heart and be our own safe haven.
She believes that "in love, you must first enrich yourself and become a better person, in order to meet better people."
Of course, if you are unlucky enough to meet a bad person, you must know how to stop the loss in time.
Women are naturally soft-hearted, and it is not easy to kill and decide in the love field.
Not to mention that the operation itself is "anti-human".
Psychology professors Yacos and Bramer once did an experiment.
They first asked the subjects to buy tickets for a ski trip to Michigan for $100.
A few days later, they told subjects that the Wisconsin ski trip was more fun and that the fare was cheaper, at just $50.
So the subjects bought tickets for a ski trip to Wisconsin.
In the end, they told the subjects that the time of the two ski trips was heavy, and only one could be chosen.
Most people choose the more expensive one instead of the more fun one.
"I chose $100 for this one, and I only lost $50. If you choose $50, you will lose $100. ”
This is the "loss-averse" theory: when people face gains and losses, losses make them even more unbearable.
And people who can't accept losses often don't know how to stop losses in time.
The Western proverb "Don't cry over spilled milk" is hidden behind the wisdom of "stop loss".
"If you shed tears when you miss the sun, then you have to miss the stars."
The poet Tagore's "stop loss" is more beautiful.
Too many people are more badly damaged by not being able to stop losses in time.
It's like a gambler who bets on the table, no matter how much he loses, he won't leave the market because he is not willing to concede defeat.
Yakos said: "90% of the misfortunes in our lives are caused by unwillingness. ”
Nobel laureate in economics Kahneman said: "We are inherently more sensitive to 'losses' and we become risky in order to avoid losses or recover losses." ”
Life always has to go through all kinds of failures. Going in the wrong direction, loving the wrong person, and choosing the wrong path are all things that often happen. Halfway through, love until half a life, only to find that everything is wrong, and it is a mistake that cannot be solved.
It's all "sunk costs"!
Originally an economic concept, it was later extended to other fields.
"Sunk costs" can be understood as those expenses that have been incurred and cannot be recovered, such as money, time, energy, feelings, etc. that have been paid are sunk costs.
When I met the scumbag, "stop loss" is used to save lives at key moments, and it is the great wisdom of life.
If the beautiful painter "Rose Machine Gun" praised by Huang Zitao knew this, he might not have been pua to commit suicide by the tattooist.
What a shame!
epilogue:
As a veritable "beautiful and strong" in the entertainment industry, Mao Xiaotong was able to counterattack successfully, thanks to the fact that she is not "silly white sweet".
The most important thing is that the mother who knows how to "stop the loss in time" has passed on the precious qualities of "decisiveness and bravery" to her daughter.
Both mother and daughter are soft and sweet on the outside, and firm and strong on the inside.
Eventually, a relatively healthy psychological model is formed, "involving the bottom line problem, no matter how much love is not compromised."
In the face of harm, it is wise to quickly move away.
Sometimes it doesn't make much sense to maintain the superficial integrity of a marriage, it's important to provide adequate love and security.
Some people may worry that divorce will cause harm to children, but people's common sentiment is that "the lesser of two evils."
Imagine what positive impact a husband and father with all five poisons can have on the family?
Time bombs hurry up and throw farther away!
When he was young, he was thrown into the trash by his scumbag father, became famous and was extorted 50 million yuan, and also met a cheating scumbag, Mao Xiaotong has never been cowardly.
True love, one is enough.
The real wound breaks up once.
No wonder no matter how miserable her original family was, she couldn't ruin her star path.
Have you learned this ancestral "stop loss" magic skill?