The first time I noticed Bai Jugang was in the program "Brother With Thorns and Thorns".
yes.
Before that, I had no idea who Bai Jugang was.
But the audience who watched this show couldn't help but notice Zhang Jin, Bai Jugang and Gao Hanyu.
Netizens prostrate the father-son relationship of these three people, and it has already taken the lead.
Yesterday, with the assistance of Cai Shaofen, it was on Weibo's hot search with the stem of "a family of four will be neat".
Just careful viewers will find that in the case of Gao Hanyu's "Jin Dad Cai Ma Terrier" on two hot searches in a row, Xiao Bai always called Zhang Jin as "Jin Brother" in the show, and when Cai Shaofen took the initiative to call him "Cub" during the performance, he only replied with a sentence of "Sister-in-law is good"!
Originally, some viewers were still looking forward to the "interaction between mother and son in the show", and they had to stop seeing this scene.
The show has not yet been broadcast, the brother has not yet formed a group, and the father and son of these three people are about to be broken?
But last night, under Gao Hanyu's Weibo, Xiao Bai also specifically confided his grievances to Cai Shaofen: "Brother Jin said that Fen's mother's favorite son is not himself, which must be because of the performance of the song Dance Street, he did not succeed."
And Zhang Jin also repeatedly explained in the program that "Xiao Bai was sleeping and repeatedly reminded him to apply plaster".
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What exactly drives Xiao Bai to make these contradictory behaviors?
If it is shy, but the word "Jin Dad" has been called before;
If it is ruthless, Xiao Bai has always stood by Zhang Jin's side and has never left (Xiao Bai is a person with musical dreams, so Lee Seung-hyun's team members have great temptation for him).
There is also a theory that the love between them has not yet reached the depth of father and son, which is the most likely.
How is it possible to temper a father-son relationship through a competitive variety show?!
Even the audience who bumped into these three fathers and sons will not think in their hearts that they are really in love with father and son, but at most think that "there is a friendship between these three people".
Everyone knows this, but the audience still likes to call them "father and son". This is a feeling, a sustenance for true feelings, and a blessing for the friendship between them.
Since this is something that everyone knows, compared to Gao Hanyu's "Jin Dad, Fen Ma" calling more and more smoothly, why does Xiao Bai's title return to the position of "Jin Brother, Fen Sister-in-law".
Xiao Bai's performance in the show is indeed excellent, and it has also won the love of many predecessors.
Hu Haiquan said that he "enjoyed the process of co-creation with Xiao Bai"; Lee Seung-hyun did not hesitate to bind him with the concept of "native family" in order to win him over; Zhang Jin said that his contributions to the team included but not limited to arranging music and writing lyrics.
And "Wukong" co-performed by him, Zhang Qi and Huo Zun has also been recognized by many audiences.
The strategy he showed in the song auction session was unanimously recognized by many brothers.
Looking back at everyone's praise for Xiao Bai in detail, we will find that "these people's recognition of Xiao Bai is because he has done many things beautifully."
Xiao Bai can arrange music, be good at instruments, and sing well, but he will not take the initiative to please people, especially in public.
Note: "Likable" is not the same as "good at flattery."
In life, each of us will do something "likable", not to get benefits from each other, but to make the people around us happy.
For example, Zhang Jin disliked Cai Shaofen's non-standard Mandarin, and her response was" "If I practice Mandarin to a standard, you will have a lot less fun!"
That's why I cooperate with you or deliberately make you ugly, but it's just to make you or everyone happy. As long as the people around me are happy, I will be willing to take the initiative to do a lot of things.
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Of course, this must also have a premise: these things cannot violate my limits.
Then the question must be, "How much do we have?"
You can think about it slowly, but the older people are, the more they understand that "actually, not so much".
When people are young, they always set themselves some standards for what seems to be nothing: this can't be done, that one doesn't want to do, how embarrassing it is to do that, etc., and even use this to self-hypnotize "I am a principled person".
When he really matures, he will find that "in addition to the illegal and moral things that cannot be done, his so-called bottom limit is actually only his own private space, career, family and a few friends of Liao Liao."
And the space above this is enough for a person to live freely for a lifetime.
This truth, there are not many people who really eat thoroughly, Cai Shaofen counts as one.
So we can see that Cai Shaofen in front of the camera always seems so relaxed, whether it is facing family, friends, reporters, hosts or viewers.
Sometimes, in order to make them happy, she will even take the initiative to throw out some terriers such as "what is the most vivid", "what son, I love you too much" and so on.
Everyone is happy, she is also happy, and then her audience popularity is getting better and better, and her career can blossom in many ways such as film and television, variety shows, and anchors;
Of course, if you touch her bottom line, she will also fight back on the spot. Just as an audience or a partner, if there is no unsolvable knot, few people will try to touch each other's bottom limit.
Xiao Bai's problem is that he has set some unnecessary limits for himself - he blocks all the things he does not want to do or feels embarrassed, but sometimes he feels that "it seems that it is not necessary to do this", so there is a comment of "replying to Cai Shaofen's family of four under Gao Hanyu's Weibo".
Xiao Bai has many advantages, if he can figure out on his own "what he really cares about, and what he is willing to do in order to make the people around him happy", in the future, the opportunities he can obtain and the space for development will increase a lot, and the whole person will become more and more relaxed and comfortable.
Life is actually very cruel, it may give back to the capable, accomplished people, but prefer those who are pleasing to the people.
Sometimes, with just a little bit of change, we ourselves may become the one who reaps the most happiness.