Talk about how I was cheated of money by overseas scammers before online dating.
First of all, an irrelevant small matter, I met a sister before, she told me that she was rich, but because of the college relationship in Zhejiang, I believed her, and I always regarded her as a bully sister, and she often cared about me.
But another sister always wanted to tell me that the sister who was rich deceived me, because the one in Zhejiang was Sanben College, not the big cai I thought.
Why did she always want to tell me, because I later learned that Zhejiang College was a matter of three colleges, and she always wanted to knock on the side to tell me that I could understand it, but I deliberately pretended not to understand.
And the last time we went out to dinner, the sister directly broke it, which embarrassed another rich sister 😅.
After that, the contact was directly cut off.
Actually, I knew she was lying to me, but I always pretended not to know, because I thought she was very good to me, and it was only a small thing for her to cheat on me academically.
I am a very realistic person, and the gentleness and practicality she gave me really made me get a lot.
I'm willing to go on like this.
Back to the point, the guy who lied to me in online dating.
In fact, in the later stages, I vaguely sensed that he was lying to me, but he kept coaxing and accompanying me, so that I could feel his response to me all the time.
In real life, I am more withdrawn for mental and physical reasons.
The point he poked me the most was that I was connected to the wheat, and we were connected for several days, even when we slept, and I could hear him snoring.
As soon as I woke up in the morning, I called his name, and he was able to respond to me.
So secure.
There are other places that poke me in.
For example, he would tell me later, he said he would love to have a cat, and he also sent me a lot of cute cat pictures, although I was afraid of small animals, but he said that he could keep it in a cage.
Also teach me to cook.
Anyway, it is unconditionally coaxing me, obeying me, even if I am sometimes a little unreasonable, I can be satisfied, too poking me.
And he told me that his parents were divorced, that his stepfather and mother were not good to him, and that he had suffered a lot since he was a child, so he didn't want to study anymore, he just wanted to work hard, save money, and then marry and have children.
A manhood image born poor, but not complaining, not succumbing to fate, just wanting to live a down-to-earth life.
I eat this set too much.
Rich second generation or something, I don't feel anything at all, but it is this kind of persona, I am good.
I had a lot to say, but I couldn't remember after lunch.
I remember he said he was working in a glove factory, three or four thousand a month, and I was very upset with him, and he said he was going to send money to his parents, my God.
I always wanted to call him to work in Shanghai, but he was always reluctant, saying that he wanted to save enough money to come to me again.
Actually, there was a suspicious point here, but I didn't notice it at the time.
That is, I am not the kind of girl who has to ask boys to spend money on me, even when he comes to Shanghai, I can provide him with some material help and find a better job for him, I can't figure it out at that time, since he loves me so much, why he doesn't want to come over, and then figured it out.
Anyway, it is to spend money for him, for example, he said that he worked the night shift from the factory, he was hungry, but he was reluctant to buy a supper to eat, I asked, a bowl of powder was only six yuan, I was very distressed about him, I was eager to buy a hundred copies for him to eat on the spot.
Probably from a bowl of powder to start to spend money on him, from powder, to milk tea, to hot pot, and a variety of supplies that he can't afford to consume temporarily, such as his birthday I gave him apple watch and so on.
At the end, he told me that he borrowed a little money and said that he wanted to open a shop and start a business, and of course I wanted to support him.
The result was that he got the money to delete me.
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I thought he might be cheating, so I used some means to find someone else I thought I might know, and then I found out that he had two other girlfriends.
One of the girlfriends lied to her anyway that she was delivering food, telling a story that was a little different.
There was also a girl, his person is set in the middle class of Shanghai, the photos sent to her girl, such as hotels, domestic and foreign tourism, etc. were stolen from me, and there were many things I told him, and he also changed the law to tell the girl. (I'm speechless). 😓
The two sisters, one in college, a senior, and one already working. (I can't remember exactly, or so it is)
I was a little clingy to him, and he often complained to the two girls that he had an annoying sister. (Sadness, it's his own desire to be with me)
He also told me that he had two annoying colleagues, presumably those two sisters as prototypes.
Anyway, it deceived the three of us about 60,000 or 70,000, and the two sisters called the police.
I didn't want to call the police at first, but my uncle noticed I had a problem.
At that time, there were some pastry shops or Starbucks milk tea shops near my house, and there were several shopping malls, and I would pick up some things almost every day when I went out to hang out.
But my uncle first found that I had no appetite, that I didn't play games anymore, that I was more emotionally sensitive, and that most importantly I didn't buy anything.
Of course, he didn't ask me, he knocked on the side and asked me why I didn't drink Star Ice, because I was almost two cups of Star Ice Cream a day before, and I said I didn't have any money.
I regretted it when I finished it, and he asked me where the money went.
I honestly confessed that the online relationship was spent on another boy, and Lent him to start a business.
My uncle asked me about the boy, and I said that at the end I cried, and I said that the boy took the money and deleted me.
Then my uncle dragged me to the police, I was unwilling, I was dragged.
Because I was afraid he would actually be caught in jail.
In fact, for me, money is a small thing, but he has been with me, saying that he loves me, and he is in love with other people, saying that he is actually accompanying other girls at work, and he can't accept it.
In fact, I may also vaguely feel that he is lying to me later, but I like him to accompany me, in fact, I also understand that I may be paying for this companionship, and I am willing.
Heck, but why didn't you even give me the money to accompany me?
