Can women really not reject old lovers? People are not divided, the old love still loves Mo Wenwei married, the husband is her first love boyfriend, people say "good horses do not eat back grass", but Mo Wen

Can women really not reject old lovers? People are not separated, and the old love is still loved

Karen Mok is married, her husband is her first love boyfriend, people say that "a good horse does not eat back grass", but Mo Wenwei chose this back "grass", and this "grass" is still the father of three children. Japan's private detective agency offers a "find a first love" service, and 90% of its customers are women. Is it true that as the Internet says, men can't refuse new love, and women can't refuse old love? In fact, it is not a generalization.

Three years ago, Zhixin was 25 years old and suffered the saddest thing in her life. The boyfriend who has been in love for four years decides to return to his hometown to work because his mother is not in good health, and Zhixin's mother is reluctant to let her only daughter leave her, and the two people who love each other are separated.

For three years, they contacted each other intermittently, and her boyfriend could not bear to delay Zhixin and advised her to solve her life's major events as soon as possible. Zhixin also understands that women's youth can't wait, and she has met several men one after another, but she can't pay her heart, and she has always hoped that the person who accompanies her for life is her boyfriend. When the female eldest married, when she was 28 years old, Zhixin still did not wait for her boyfriend to return, so she agreed to a man's marriage proposal. Just when they were busy preparing for the wedding, the boyfriend appeared in front of Zhixin. The boyfriend's mother died, and the first thing to do after keeping filial piety for her mother was to return to Zhixin's side, even if Zhixin had married someone else, it was good to look at her himself.

Boyfriend appeared in front of Zhixin at this time, Zhixin was confused, one was a fiancé, one was an ex-boyfriend, on the one hand was responsibility, on the other hand was true love, how should he choose? Zhixin shut herself in her home, turned off her mobile phone, and eliminated all contact with the outside world. Two days later, Zhixin couldn't control her desire to see her ex-boyfriend, wanted to embrace his impulses, and sent the engagement ring in an envelope to her fiancé, announcing that the marriage that had not yet begun was over.

Whether it is Karen Mok or Zhixin, the reason why they can rekindle the fire of love with their old love is because when they first ended their relationship, it was not because of the breakdown of feelings, but because of some objective factors, it can be said that they are separated, but the feelings are not separated. Although it has been a long time, some have loved others, some have never loved others, as long as they meet again, and there is no one around who makes them fall in love, it is easy to re-in love with the old love.

But this is just one of the reasons why a woman can't refuse old love, the proportion is very small, and more still contains the following factors.

First, you can satisfy your curiosity and vanity. When we inadvertently remembered our ex-boyfriend and dialed his phone, he actually answered, and the tone could not hide the surprise. This shows that he still remembers himself, and perhaps has a place for himself deep down, which is a very proud thing for most women.

But we should also think on the other hand, maybe at this moment the other party is in an empty window, we may just be his tool to relieve loneliness, or maybe the other party will say after putting down the phone: "This woman is really annoying." "So, you can be friends after a breakup, but don't try to prove your charm through your ex- boyfriend."

Secondly, when a woman's current relationship development is frustrated, she always can't help but think of her ex-boyfriend and long to be comforted by her ex-boyfriend at this moment. Especially when the current boyfriend is still very concerned about himself, the inner troubles can be immediately eliminated. But that doesn't mean she'll dump her current boyfriend with her ex, because what women are looking for at the moment is nothing more than a little psychological comfort.

In fact, this is a very stupid approach, if the other party has no feelings for themselves, then such a practice will undoubtedly cause misunderstandings on the other side, and they cannot give each other any commitments, so they will bring harm to each other; if the other party already has a girlfriend, we often complain to each other, what will the other party's girlfriend think? Maybe we think we're doing the right thing, but "I don't kill Bo Ren, but Bo Ren died because of me", once their feelings are in trouble, are we inseparable? If you are not happy now, find a way to make yourself happy, rather than looking for comfort from elsewhere, and then continue to be unhappy now.

Finally, maybe it's the unbearable lonely single life, hoping to get a brief warmth from old love. Indeed, loneliness is sometimes like a moth that erodes the soul, biting people to pieces. But we should understand that in the days without love, celibacy is the best for you. Instead of spending time with old loves, it is better to dress yourself up and find a new love.

Women can't forget when they face old love, precisely because love does not account for a large proportion. Therefore, before choosing old love, you must clearly understand whether you are because of love or mixed with many other factors, otherwise too much sticking to the past will destroy your current life psychologically or even substantively.