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A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

author:Xi Yue talks about ancient and modern
A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Zhu Mengxun and his mother

In One Piece, Seignol wears baby clothes in order to wake up his wife who has become a vegetative person, and although the wife is not awake, she smiles.

Because of his wife's smile, Seignol always wore baby clothes, not caring about the eyes of the world, only his wife. He is in anime for his own love.

In real life, there is a 61-year-old man who is also wearing women's clothing, and when he faces the strange eyes of pedestrians, does he think about changing back to men's clothes immediately?

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Seignol

On the streets of Guilin, Guangxi, a man dressed in a tight cheongsam stood next to his lying mother playing a flute and selling art.

The pedestrians on the road made mocking noises from time to time, but he didn't care, still playing his flute.

His name was Zhu Mengxun, and according to him, he had been wearing women's clothes for more than 20 years, and he didn't care about the eyes and words of these passers-by anymore.

But what is the reason behind this women's clothing? What kind of story does he have?

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Zhu Mengxun

Zhu Mengxun was born in 1959 in a rural area in Guilin, Guangxi.

He has an older brother and a younger sister.

Although the life of a family of five is poor, it is still quite happy.

But the sudden change broke the family's peaceful life.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Ju Mengxun's father died of illness.

The top pillar of the family is gone, only Yin Peijun, as a mother, carries it.

Yin Peijun single-handedly raised the three of them.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

The three brothers and sisters who lost their fathers at a young age also understood things early.

Sister Zhu Lili is very cute and smart, and is Yin Peijun's favorite little daughter.

He fell in love with a woman when his brother was in his 20s.

However, because of family conditions, the woman's parents did not agree.

The elder brother went to Hunan and became a door-to-door son-in-law, but once he left, he never came back.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Try on clothes

The mother is old, the sister is still in school, and the burden of the family's life is on Zhu Mengxun's body.

In 1987, 18-year-old Zhu Lili unfortunately suffered from leukemia, and Zhu Mengxun was also 27 years old at this time.

Leukemia is difficult to cure at the moment, let alone more than 30 years ago.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Zhu Lili also told her brother Zhu Mengxun that she did not want to be cured, and she did not want her brother to throw money at herself all the time, but she could not see hope.

But Zhu Mengxun replied: "Don't worry about money, brother can make money, don't think too much, just feel free to treat the disease." ”

Zhu Lili knew her family situation, and she didn't want her brother to live too tired.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Yin Peijun

In order to treat his sister, Zhu Mengxun would go to work every day in addition to work, and he would go to do some odd jobs on holidays, and all the money he earned was smashed into the hospital, and he also owed a debt to the next ass.

After a year of this, Zhu Lili was still ineffective in rescuing and declared dead.

Zhu Mengxun is full of guilt for his sister, if he has the ability, he can earn more money, and his sister can use the best medicine.

But time doesn't stop for anyone, it's merciless to everyone.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Hospital wards

After his sister's funeral, Ju Mengxun returned to work because he still had his mother to raise.

Since her sister left, Yin Peijun has become confused and often talks nonsense.

Once, in the middle of the night, she woke up by shouting Zhu Lili's name, and then went to her daughter's room and kept shouting her daughter's name.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Zhu Mengxun knew that his mother loved his sister in his heart, and he also knew that this incident had hit her mother very hard.

Once he couldn't resist saying in front of his mother that his sister had left.

But the mother did not understand the meaning of "leaving", but seriously asked: "When will my daughter come back?" ”

Zhu Mengxun had to go back to the room, and he could only sigh silently on the bed, and the tears at the end of his eyes were full of thoughts and sadness.

During the day, the mother would go out for a walk, and when she saw people, she would say that her daughter had gone to the big city and could make a lot of money, that she was so well-behaved and so smart, and that there would be good people who liked her.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Yin Peijun's mental state became worse and worse, and his memory was sometimes confused.

Zhu Mengxun felt that he would take his mother to the hospital for examination.

However, the words given by the doctor were: "Heart disease must also be treated by heart medicine, and the bell must also be tied to the ringer." ”

But my sister is no longer there, so do you want to find a girl to pretend to be your sister?

Although Zhu Mengxun thought so, he did not take action.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

pharmacy

As the days passed, the 31-year-old Zhu Mengxun also met a girl, and the girl did not dislike Zhu Mengxun's family conditions, and the two married smoothly.

With the addition of another person, this home finally made people feel a little warm.

It wasn't long before my wife became pregnant.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

bride price

Zhu Mengxun seemed to see the hope of life, he worked hard, and in his heart he also looked forward to the arrival of the little life.

But God still gave him a heavy hammer.

He had the idea of taking his own life.

What the hell is going on with this "hammer"?

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Cart

It turned out that on the day of his wife's childbirth, he suddenly had a difficult birth and hemorrhage, and neither mother nor son was saved.

That day, Zhu Mengxun knelt in front of the operating bed, holding his head and crying.

When he thought life was a little hopeful, there was always an episode going on.

He lost his father at a young age, and lost his wife and son in middle age.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

dystocia

He held a funeral for his wife.

At night he lay in bed, his eyes fixed on the ceiling.

Zhu Mengxun's face was blown dry with tear marks.

He had in his hand a handful of medicines that had made him fall asleep, and when he was ready to eat them all, his mother opened the door directly.

Zhu Mengxun quickly hid the medicine first, and Yin Peijun asked him: "Son, what about my daughter-in-law and my grandson?" I just looked for them, but I didn't find them, I want lili to help me find them, but lili is not there, I came to you. ”

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

medicine

Zhu Mengxun was obviously in his 30s, and he had already passed the age of pain in front of his mother, but that night, he cried like a child in front of his mother.

When Zhu Mengxun had cried enough, he smiled at his mother again and said, "Mom, Xiao Cui has gone out with the child and Li Li." ”

This home has never been complete, and it has always been only him and his mother.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Cry

Zhu Mengxun began to devote himself to work again, and every day he was so tired that he could not say anything, so that he could have a good night's sleep.

Time passed day by day, and Yin Peijun was already 70 years old.

Although Zhu Mengxun has been hiding lies from his mother, her mother cannot eat because of this lie and is losing weight day by day.

The mental state also began to gradually decline.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

When Zhu Mengxun was watching TV, he suddenly saw the program of "Colorful Clothes Entertainment", which also reminded him of the doctor's words: "You must tie the bell to the ringer." ”

He suddenly had an idea, he went to the neighbor's house to borrow a wig, and found a piece of his sister's old clothes that he could wear.

Yin Peijun was lying on the bed reading a book, and Zhu Mengxun tentatively walked to his mother's room.

The mother heard the voice and raised her head, Zhu Mengxun felt that the mother did not recognize herself, tentatively walked to the side of the bed, and squeezed her throat thinly.

He said, "Mom, my daughter is back..."

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Yin Peijun revealed a long-lost smile: "It's Li Li, my good daughter, it can be considered to be home, and my mother misses you." ”

Zhu Mengxun's eyes were already full of tears, and he finally saw his mother smile, and the words he said because of the suppressed crying were also dumb: "I miss you too." ”

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Subsequently, Zhu Mengxun began to wear women's clothes often to coax his mother to be happy.

After Zhu Mengxun changed back into men's clothes, his mother would ask him: "Did you see Li Li?" These days Li Li comes home, you have something to do. ”

Listening to his mother's complaints, Zhu Mengxun could only say: "Work is too busy, there is time to see you." ”

But the further down the road, the less the mother will be able to accept her "daughter's" going out.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

That day, Zhu Mengxun dressed in women's clothes and told his mother, "Mom, I have to go back to work, and I will see you in two days." ”

Yin Peijun's tears immediately turned red, and the tears fell like beads: "Girl, my mother can't bear you." ”

Zhu Mengxun couldn't see his mother's sadness and said, "Okay, I know, I'm not leaving, I'm not going to work." ”

It is also since then that Zhu Mengxun has not taken off women's clothes for more than 20 years, just to make his mother happy.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

The villagers knew about their family's situation, so they took over the cheongsam and skirts that they could not wear at home.

Zhu Mengxun was also very grateful to everyone and put this piece of clothing like a baby.

He told the villagers: "In my mother's eyes, I am two people, both sons and daughters. ”

As long as my mother is happy, I can do anything.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Ladies

Nine years ago, my mother accidentally broke her leg and was unable to stand on her own and was unable to take care of herself.

Zhu Mengxun could only quit his job and began to take care of his mother intently.

The two also moved to an urban village in Guilin.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Village

The mother and son can only eat low to survive the day, and the brother who is far away in Hunan will also send 250 yuan a month.

Once on the way home, Zhu Mengxun saw someone playing the violin, and people passing by would throw some money into it.

After he returned home, he also began to think about what he would do, he thought that he had learned the flute in elementary school, but the time had passed so long ago, he had long forgotten how to blow,

But he felt that he could earn a little bit, so he went to buy a flute and a score, and prepared to teach himself at home.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Play the flute

The first thing he learned was "Meng Jiang Girl", which was his mother's favorite song.

On the day he learned, his mother sang too.

It just so happened that there was no one around her, so she decided to take her mother out with her.

But the means of transport are again difficult.

The neighbors knew their difficulties, and they had just changed into a new tricycle, so they gave the old one to their mother and son.

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Zhu Mengxun looked at the tricycle and decided to give it the whole shed first, in case the weather was bad, he could not let his mother be rained and frozen.

In this way, Zhu Mengxun began to sell women's clothing.

At first, passers-by felt that he had some mental problems, and seeing him wearing women's clothes would also insult him.

Will Zhu Mengxun give up women's clothing because of this face problem?

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

Retrofitting a tricycle

He wouldn't, and Zhu Mengxun never took this sneer seriously: "I don't know them, and my mother is very happy that I have become what I am." ”

The video of "men dressing up as women on the streets of Guilin, Guangxi" was also posted on the Internet, and the reporter immediately went to interview them.

The story behind this was also published.

Subsequently, Zhu Mengxun also told reporters: "When my mother dies, I will take off my women's clothes and become a man again." ”

A 61-year-old man in Guangxi, dressed as a woman for 24 years and sold art with his mother: When my mother dies, I will become a man again

In ancient times, there was Lao Laizi who wore colorful clothes to please his parents, and now there is Zhu Mengxun who wears women's clothes to make his mother happy.

Just as the CCTV network evaluated Zhu Mengxun: Although Zhu Mengxun is wearing women's clothing, what supports him is responsibility, responsibility and filial piety. He is a full-fledged "pure grandfather".

We hope that every elderly person will have children by his side in his old age.

We also hope that every family will be able to complete.