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"The greatest love in the world is the love of a mother, the love of a father"
In 2019 there was a great mom in Luzhou, Sichuan Province, who and her husband supported the whole family. At first glance, this is a normal thing, but what if the mother is only 80 centimeters tall? And the husband is also a disabled person?
This pair of families is also very famous in the local ten miles and eight townships, and it is really admirable to support the children's lives with their own hands.
Although it seems that it is not easy for their family, none of the neighbors around them laugh at them, but are more curious and concerned.
The Short Daughter-in-Law and the "Little Mother"
The child's mother, named Li Qinfen, is a well-known "little mother" in the village and the mother of these three children, but for the child, her mother is more like a partner when playing.
Li Qinfen's family is very poor, usually basically can not eat meat, and only when the children are on vacation, their family will eat a meal of meat.
Despite this, the children will still be very happy and eat very sweetly. In ordinary times, Li Qinfen is not only responsible for family life and housework, but also has to pick up the two twin sons on time.
He was not tall and was ridiculed
And Li Qinfen also has a time to be ridiculed, when she goes to pick up her children from school, she often encounters some young people who rush back from outside, these young people are very curious, and sometimes call Li Qinfen "short", which makes Li Qinfen feel uncomfortable inside.
Yes, knowing that it was his own weakness, others still reminded him that this practice was tantamount to killing people.
Although Li Qinfen was not feeling well in her heart, she still couldn't stop her from picking up and dropping off her children on time. And her eldest daughter is even more unwilling to let Li Qinfen go to school to pick her up, there is no way, Li Qinfen can only choose not to pick up her eldest daughter.
However, although the eldest daughter did not let her mother pick her up, they could still get along very well when they returned home. For the sake of her daughter's study, Li Qinfen often has to study in advance, even if she does not teach her daughter at any point.
I hope that my children will be able to learn more
In the eyes of Li Qinfen and her husband, it is good that the children can learn more, after all, neither of them has any culture, and can only pin their hopes on the children.
Of course, although Li Qinfen's family is poor, in the face of the stationery or materials needed by the children to learn, the husband and wife do not delay at all, and try to meet the children's learning needs as much as possible.
Suffering from a strange disease, the body is only 80 centimeters
Li Qinfen was originally the eldest of her siblings, but her height was the shortest one in the family.
Other people's children have begun to learn to walk when they are more than one year old, but Li Qinfen has not yet learned to walk when she is more than two years old.
Middle 1 is Li Qinfen
Li Qinfen was good before the age of four, but after the height of 4 years old to 80 centimeters, she did not continue to grow. This surprised Li Qinfen's family, and then took Li Qinfen to the hospital for examination.
The result given by the hospital is that this is either a congenital disease or because of a calcium deficiency.
Although Li Qinfen still has a younger brother and sister, she is taller than her, and the whole family has suffered from this strange disease on Li Qinfen herself.
Later, because the family's financial resources were not enough, Li Qinfen did not go to see a doctor again, because of physical reasons, Li Qinfen could only help her parents clean up the housework at home.
Perhaps Li Qinfen had accumulated a lot of good deeds in her previous life, and this situation did not take long to change.
Meet a thick and honest husband, but controversial
Through the matchmaking of the two old people, Li Qinfen married a man who was 14 years older than her, and Li Qinfen did not see her husband at that time, but the parents of both sides nodded in agreement.
And Li Qinfen's husband, although he has some physical disabilities and cannot do heavy work, is honest. And Li Qinfen saw this and chose to marry him, but this matter is not a small controversy in the villages of both sides.
After all, a disabled person with a strange disease, in the eyes of normal people, these two seem to be in the eyes of others should not be together, because both sides may have children may be a problem.
And this is the result that at their doorstep, some people pass by every day to see them. Of course, there are also many people in the village poking their backbones in the back and pointing at Li Qinfen.
However, this did not delay the daily life of the couple. Li Qinfen once said that although she and her husband lived a relatively poor life, they lived a very happy life.
Give birth to a daughter and start a new chapter
However, a few months later, they ushered in their first child, but the arrival of this child brought great pressure to the couple.
First of all, there is public opinion in the village, and there are many more feudal old people, who often speak to them behind their backs. After all, the view of some old people in the village is that both sides can survive, and the succession should not be thought about.
Because one of them is disabled and the other is suffering from a strange disease, the children they give birth to are not necessarily good.
However, Li Qinfen was not willing to swallow this breath and decided to break the village's saying.
What is exciting is that Li Qinfen really gave birth to a daughter, which makes them very happy, because they at least have a child to accompany.
However, before the two could be happy, a piece of bad news came out, because the daughter was born prematurely, causing the daughter to be plagued by diseases when she was a child.
At that time, the doctor also advised Li Qinfen not to recommend having this child, because of Li Qinfen's physical reasons, having a child may cause irreparable harm to herself.
However, Li Qinfen did not listen to the doctor's advice and still insisted on giving birth to the child.
The daughter was also under the meticulous care of the hospital, took a month of medication, and finally eradicated her daughter's disease. Despite this, Li Qinfen still firmly chose to have a second child.
Good luck and the twins were born again
Fortunately, the sky pays off. Li Qinfen successfully gave birth to a twin son.
In order to make a living, the two sides began to struggle hard
However, for the two of them, it was really half joy and half worry, after all, their lives were becoming more and more difficult, and for this, the government in their village helped.
Not only did they get a minimum guarantee, but they also helped them rebuild a house. But despite this, the couple still couldn't stay idle, and began to start some small business and raise some poultry.
When they are fine, they often choose to go to the town to sell paper or sell some gadgets to improve the quality of life of the children.
In fact, Li Qinfen also knows that these people who buy paper are to take care of their own business, customers never bargain, how much money is how much money, eager to give more.
After selling the paper, Li Qinfen began to be busy with housework again, because it would not be long before she had to pick up her children.
Li Qinfen's day was actually very fulfilling, in addition to picking up and dropping off the children every day, then going to the town to sell paper, and when she returned, she began to do housework again.
And the two of them are also working harder to earn money, or are trying to support the family.
In fact, such a life is the best, because they are living for themselves, but also paving the way for their children, do not care about other people's opinions, this is the real attitude to life.
Both sides gave everything for the sake of the children
In fact, their life is already very hard, usually there is no big fish and meat, occasionally on Sundays to choose to eat a meal with meat, usually, that is, fried cabbage, cook some sweet potato porridge.
Although she couldn't eat meat every day, her children also ate very sweetly, which made Li Qinfen feel very guilty.
And such a family seems to many people to be unable to maintain, but these two have exerted their love to the extreme, and they have supported the lives of three children with a handful of and a handful of urine.
The government is at the bottom of the pocket and lets them create their own happiness with their hands
Not only that, the local government and the Disabled Persons' Federation association will distribute daily necessities to them from time to time every year, and there is basically no shortage of rice and flour grain and oil, and the government will handle the minimum guarantee for them.
In addition, the local government will patiently explain the national policy to them, as long as they meet the conditions, the government will help them for no reason.
The local government has also commented on them: "The disabled are not disabled."
Just five words highlight the spirit of the couple who do not give up and do not abandon. With his own hands, he can take care of his family so well, and he is also one of the best in the local town for disabled people.
Although they are more or less physically disabled, in front of their children, all they have to do is to act as an example for their children to motivate their children to study hard.
The local government has also made it clear that in the future, the government will give some help to the children in terms of study or employment, so as to reduce the pressure on the lives of the couple as much as possible.
But the small body contains a huge maternal love
It is said that children are the best gifts from heaven to their parents, and these three children are more treasures for Li Qinfen to risk their lives.
Although Li Qinfen's height is only 80 centimeters, but the small body contains great maternal love, the couple with their own industrious hands to support a piece of the sky, to the three children to bring a warm family.
I believe that in the future they will have a happier and happier life.