When we are indecisive and undecided, we tend to think that we are a rational and cautious decision-maker, and indecisive people are always hovering between trade-offs, unable to decide, but afraid

When we are indecisive and indecisive, we tend to think of ourselves as a rational and cautious decision-maker, and indecisive people are always hovering between trade-offs, unable to decide, but they understand the fearful end as "meticulous rational contrast". This will make it easy to lose what should be gained, and what should be given up consumes a lot of one's own energy.

——Excerpt from Murphy's Law