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In his 18-year career, the famous "paternity appraiser" Deng Yajun has done more than 20,000 DNA paternity tests, of which more than 4,000 cases are non-parents.
The end of these 4,000 families can be imagined.
In these 18 years, Deng Yajun has seen too many strange things, there is a husband and wife love, in order to find excitement, go out to find a lover's woman, but has no intention of getting pregnant.
There are also wives who are infertile and the husband raises a child from the outside, but is actually the husband's own son.
Other women give birth to twins, but this twin has their own father and so on.
The complexity and ugliness of human nature are revealed in the face of the truth.
Deng Yajun finally made a summary, no matter how bizarre the process is, the people who are injured in the end are children.
Deng Yajun said the essence of the life of the two sexes, children are often paying for the emotional life of adults, and some even have to take their own life.
Zhang Mo is the eldest daughter of Zhang Yimou, and her life has undergone tremendous changes due to the feelings of Zhang Yimou and Gong Li.
First, Xiao Hua's dedication to Zhang Yimou is beyond your imagination.
Zhang Mo's mother was named Xiao Hua, who used to be a big girl.
Why is it said that it was once?
Because after meeting Zhang Yimou, this woman completely gave up her big miss shelf and willingly became the woman behind Zhang Yimou.
Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua can be said to be young plum bamboo horses, and when they were teenagers, the two were already very good and became friends who talked about everything.
At that time, Zhang Yimou was still just a black boy, the family had no money, and he did not like to study.
Therefore, during the college entrance examination, Zhang Yimou fell off the list and was arranged to go to the countryside to plant seedlings, while Xiao Hua was admitted to the university.
However, for the sake of Zhang Yimou, Xiao Hua gave up his opportunity to go to college, but came to the countryside with Zhang Yimou, and from then on, Xiao Hua decided that he would live for Zhang Yimou all his life.
After three years of planting seedlings, the two fell in love.
In particular, Xiao Hua's love for Zhang Yimou is particularly hot, and despite his father's opposition and the pursuit of the three men, he has to be with Zhang Yimou.
At that time, the two were assigned to two factories that were relatively far apart.
For Zhang Yimou, Xiao Hua would walk a long way every time, to wash Zhang Yimou's clothes, to cook for him, once Zhang Yimou was seriously ill and hospitalized, Xiao Hua put down his work and ran to the hospital to take care of Zhang Yimou until he was discharged.
And Zhang Yimou did not fail Xiao Hua.
Once, the two had a conflict, Xiao Hua did not pay attention to Zhang Yimou for a long time, he panicked, and specially wrote a letter of more than 40 pages to express his heart to Xiao Hua.
At that time, zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua's love was very beautiful.
In 1979, after overcoming difficulties and obstacles, the couple finally became a legal couple.
It was also this year, in order to pursue his dream, Zhang Yimou was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, and perhaps all the stories have written the ending from here.
Second, some of Zhang Yimou's private past of fame.
Xiao Hua loves Zhang Yimou so much, of course, he will support his career.
When Zhang Yimou went to Beijing to study, she took care of everything for Zhang Yimou and told him not to worry about the family, she would take care of everything.
For Zhang Yimou's film career, Xiao Hua's sacrifice exceeded the imagination of ordinary people.
After Zhang Yimou graduated from Beiying, he was assigned to the Guangzhou Film Studio, and the husband and wife began a life of separation between the two places, and when Zhang Yimou was chasing dreams outside, Xiao Hua took care of the whole family alone in Xi'an with a big belly.
On March 31, 1983, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua's eldest daughter was born.
At that time, Zhang Yimou was not around, and it was not until half a month later that he hurried back from Guangxi, and he was full of guilt, holding Xiao Hua's hand, saying that he would definitely not treat the mother and daughter badly.
Looking at her infant daughter, Zhang Yimou was full of joy and gave her a name called Zhang Mo.
The birth of his daughter has made the family more flavorful, and although Zhang Yimou is still busy, when he returns home, he will always kiss the mother and daughter affectionately.
Every time I go out, I bring some gifts to my mother and daughter.
Therefore, Zhang Mo's childhood did not lack fatherly love.
She was impressed by her father, and Zhang Yimou would often wrap her in his arms with one hand and a cigarette in the other, discussing the details of the movie with his friends.
Zhang Mo listened very boringly, and was often smoked away by the smoke spit out by his father.
This time should be the happiest time for Zhang Mo, she can enjoy herself in her father's arms, just like a princess with the whole world.
However, all of this later changed.
It all started in a novel called Red Sorghum.
When Zhang Yimou was a photographer, he had ideas about the director, but he was suffering from the lack of a good script, and once he mentioned it to Xiao Hua.
Let Xiao Hua pay more attention to Mo Yan's novel, before Zhang Yimou was very interested in Mo Yan's "Transparent Carrot".
In 1986, Xiao Hua discovered Mo Yan's novel "Red Sorghum" in "People's Literature", and at that time, she read the novel as if she had discovered a gold mine.
And excitedly returned home and handed "Red Sorghum" to Zhang Yimou.
After reading it, Zhang Yimou shouted in succession, good things, good things.
Since then, Zhang Yimou has been fascinated, reading "Red Sorghum" day and night, and he vowed to make it into a movie.
To this end, he deliberately went to Beijing by car to meet Mo Yan and got the copyright of "Red Sorghum".
And pulled Gu Changwei, Gong Li, Jiang Wen and others, with a lot of energy and time, made the "Red Sorghum" movie.
In 1988, the 38-year-old Zhang Yimou finally ushered in his harvest year, and his filming of "Red Sorghum" not only swept the domestic public Hundred Flowers, Golden Rooster Award and many other awards.
After also winning several international awards, Zhang Yimou finally became popular.
Looking at Zhang Yimou on the podium, Xiao Hua couldn't be happy, she had paid so much for him, but he did something sorry for her.
It was also this year that Zhang Mo found that his father, who had always been kind and lovely to her and her mother, had changed his appearance.
3. Gong Li's letter to Zhang Yimou.
On October 23, 1987, Xiao Hua took Zhang Yimou's dirty clothes to wash as usual.
In the process of sorting, she found a letter written by Gong Li to Zhang Yimou in a clothes pocket, and the content of the letter was probably like this:
Regarding the contents of the letter, Zhang Yimou explained it like this:
Zhang Yimou said it lightly, but in Xiao Hua's ear, it was like five thunderbolts.
She hadn't slept all night.
A few days later, Xiao Hua was taking a nap with Zhang Mo in his arms, and Zhang Yimou walked in angrily, rudely knocked Xiao Hua with his fingers, and asked her if she had contacted Gong Li's boyfriend Xiao Yang.
Xiao Hua was surprised, how could he do that?
In the face of Xiao Hua's denial, Zhang Yimou's anger was not weakened, but he insisted that she had contacted Xiao Yang, and Xiao Hua certainly did not want to suffer this injustice.
Zhang Mo looked at her strange father very scared, and she didn't understand what it meant at that time.
Although Zhang Yimou destroyed the beauty of the past, Xiao Hua's heart was also very painful, but at that time, she still expected Zhang Yimou to change her mind.
However, a few days later, Zhang Yimou's conversation with Gong Li's boyfriend Xiao Yang completely broke Xiao Hua's heart.
Xiao Yang questioned Zhang Yimou: I heard that your wife is very good to you, are you worthy of your wife like this?
Zhang Yimou's answer is very interesting: the combination of me and my wife is just a misunderstanding when planting seedlings in the countryside.
Zhang Yimou's understated sentence negated Xiao Hua's obsession for more than twenty years, and later Xiao Yang told Xiao Hua about the conversation between the two of them by telephone.
The moment Xiao Hua heard it, his heart was broken.
The two divorced after all, and Xiao Hua still did not have the heart to let the man in front of him wander the world.
This year, Zhang Mo was just 7 years old, the lack of fatherly love, so that her childhood added a bit of vicissitudes, Zhang Yimou did not do his promise, as before to treat his daughter.
It is said that in the days with Gong Li, the two had conflicts because of Zhang Mo.
So many years later, when Zhang Mo was interviewed, he publicly accused Gong Li, because her intervention made their father and daughter less contact.
It wasn't until 5 years later that the two met again, when Zhang Mo was full of complaints about his father and didn't even let his father touch his head.
It was also this meeting between father and daughter that made Zhang Yimou determined to make up for his daughter.
At this time, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li's relationship also came to an end because of a misunderstanding, and looking at his daughter, who had grown up a lot, he finally felt guilty.
In order to have more contact time with his daughter, Zhang Yimou also took Zhang Mo to the "Have Something to Say" crew to play.
After filming, he took his daughter to Sanya again, and seeing Zhang Mo's happy look, Zhang Yimou's heart was even more guilty, and he knew that his daughter's happiness was so simple.
Zhang Yimou finally had the appearance of a father.
When his daughter wanted to enter a High School in the United States, but did not get into it, he used his connections to send her daughter to a private school in the United States.
Zhang Yimou's efforts did not make his daughter's impression of him change too much.
In Zhang Mo's junior year, she met an American boy Tovey, a scheming white guy who began to boo and greet her when she knew that Zhang Mo was the daughter of the big director Zhang Yimou.
So much so that Zhang Mo thought that she had met love, thinking that the other party was an angel sent by heaven to save her.
Resolutely chose to marry him.
Zhang Yimou's hard persuasion also did not have a result, perhaps in Zhang Mo's eyes, this man who cheated in marriage was not qualified to intervene in his feelings at all.
But in fact, Zhang Yimou's view is correct, this man is not worth entrusting for life, and Zhang Mo's first relationship failed.
This incident was a very big blow to Zhang Mo.
Coupled with the failure of her parents' marriage, she once lost confidence in marriage, and later under the enlightenment of Zhang Yimou, she walked out of the shadow of marriage failure.
Later, Zhang Mo returned to China and met Meng Danqing, a foreigner who studied at Tsinghua University, who was very extraordinary in both knowledge and conversation.
Zhang Mo also finally reaped his own happiness.
This time, she completely stepped out of the shadow of that year.
In addition, after Graduating from Zhang Mo University, Zhang Yimou has always taken her with him and let her study with great interest.
Under the run-in of the crew, Zhang Yimou and Zhang Mo's father-daughter relationship was finally reconciled as before, and she was also proud of her father's achievements.
At the same time, she herself followed the path of her father and became a young director.
Today, Zhang Mo is 38 years old, shooting works such as "28-year-old minor" and "Sniper", and will definitely become an excellent director in the future.
After more than twenty years of going around, Zhang Mo finally returned to her father Zhang Yimou's side, but in the process, she suffered suffering and pain, and only she knew.
Overall, Zhang Mo's ending was quite satisfactory.
I hope that those who shout in their mouths to pursue their own happiness must consider their children when doing things, and cannot take the whole life of their children because of their own selfishness.
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