At the wedding of more than 200 people, Xia Yu took Yuan Quan by the hand, bowed deeply to his father, and said: Dad, thank you for giving me life, and I wish you a higher level in the painting world. After speaking, he turned around and asked his daughter-in-law to put the jasper bracelet engraved with the word "Fu" on the hands of her aunt and parents, and relatives praised it one after another.
At the wedding in 2009, Xia Yu was personable, Yuan Quan took a pink wedding dress, and the two smiled happily, accepting the blessings of relatives and friends.
His father, Xia Zhaochen, sat in the elder's seat, he had not seen his son for a long time, but the jasper bracelet that should have been given to his parents was worn on the hands of his sister-in-law, and his heart was really not a taste.
When Xia Yu was 3 years old, his parents divorced because of their emotional disagreement, and he was sentenced to his father.
Mother started a new life.
His father was obsessed with the art of painting, and after several twists and turns, he wanted to take advantage of his youth and development, and it wasn't long before he brought Xia Yu to his sister's house.
He didn't want to be tripped up by a child in the footsteps of a wandering painter.
After briefly explaining Xia Yu a few words, he resolutely embarked on the path of Japanese cultivation.
Young Xia Yu watched his father pull his luggage away and asked: Where did his father go?
The dark and thin Xia Yu felt like a child that no one wanted, and he often hid in the corner, timidly looking at this and looking at that, not daring to say a word.
The aunt wrapped her arms around Xia Yu, and was distressed, choking and saying:
"Little rain, this is your home from now on!"
The aunt also has a daughter, 3 years older than Xia Yu, the couple is very fond of Xia Yu, what does the daughter have, Xia Yu is also a lot.
Xia Chaochen was scattered in nature, had no stable income, and the living expenses were given less and less every day, so his aunt took her own salary to subsidize Xia Yu, and even took care of more than her daughter.
Xia Yu often asked her aunt: When will Dad come back?
Looking at the tearful summer rain, the aunt had no choice but to lie to him:
"Your dad came back in two months."
Xia Yu never saw his father.
When he was 7 years old, Xia Yu tearfully wrote a letter to his father:
"Dad, I dreamed of you again yesterday, I grew taller and fatter, do you remember me?" Come back soon! I miss you! ”
He folded the letter into a paper boat and excitedly told his aunt that Dad would definitely receive my letter.
The aunt quietly wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes.
In the past 10 years, Xia Yu has only seen 10 faces of his father.
As Xia Yu grew up day by day, his father's shadow became more and more blurred in his heart, and his feelings for his aunt and uncle grew day by day, and he felt that they were more like his parents.
At the age of 15, Xia Yu was taken to his grandparents, and his father settled in Japan, and they saw each other less and less each day.
Later, Xia Yu met the sympathetic Yuan Quan, and her friends advised that children who grew up in single-parent families are not easy to get along with, and you must keep a distance from him.
Yuan Quan didn't care, she could see that Xia Yu was a kind person by nature.
Xia Yu treated his aunt and uncle very well, once, his uncle had a gallstone attack, Xia Yu drove all night, took him to Beijing for surgery, and took good care of him.
He talked and laughed with his aunt, but he didn't talk to his biological father.
So, at their wedding, there was the opening scene.
In March 2010, "Xia Haha" was born. As a grandfather, Xia Chaochen gave his granddaughter an expensive bracelet and wanted to repair the father-son relationship, but Xia Yu resolutely refused to accept it.
Yuan Quan, who grew up in a happy family, after several matchmaking, the relationship between father and son slowly eased.
Children who grow up in single-parent families are like birds with broken wings, and they are ultimately hurt.
Some young parents, for their own lives, disregard their children's mental health, are depressed at home all day, or constantly quarrel, and there is no warmth at home.
Children growing up in single-parent families are not only full of abandonment in their own hearts, but also have a deep inferiority complex if they do not have the love of others.
What do you think about your parents' divorce?
