My husband and I got married for 2 years, no children, went to the hospital for examination to learn that my husband had a weak sperm disease, it was difficult to get pregnant, and soon after we had a big fight over some trivial matters, I received it a few days later

My husband and I got married for 2 years, no children, went to the hospital to check to know that my husband had a weak spermatozoite, it was difficult to get pregnant, not long after because of some trivial matters we had a big fight, a few days later I received a divorce agreement, but on the day of the divorce, my husband actually gave me a card, just as compensation for me, did not care at the time, and then when I needed to use the money, I saw the balance on the card, I was really shocked.

My name is Fu Yao, 31 years old this year, my hometown is rural, my parents are also authentic farmers, there is almost no income, it is not easy to support us, because there is a younger brother and sister in addition to me, I am the oldest, my parents simply can not support my studies, so I was forced to only finish junior high school, I went out to work in the big city.

Because there is no diploma, no skills, so you can only go into the factory to work, although the salary is not high, you have to work overtime at night, but the good guys still eat and live, and they also have a basic guarantee. And I get almost all my salary back home every month, and I don't buy anything, I don't go out to play or anything, so I don't spend money at all.

Probably because the work is too tired, one day at work, accidentally scratched by the machine, after being seen by the group leader Wang Yang, I thought I would be scolded, but I did not expect that he not only helped me bandage, but also took me to the health center to disinfect, since I came out, no one has ever been so good to me, which also made me feel good about him.

Wang Yang is three years older than me, he usually treats his work very seriously, and he never scolds employees, which makes me feel good about him, and I often chat with him, and I find that our interests and hobbies are the same, there are the same topics, it can be said that it is very lucky. On the weekend holidays, I went to dinner with him, and when he sent me back to the dormitory, he suddenly said to me: Fu Yao, "I like you so much, be my girlfriend!" ”

I had never been in love since I was a child, and I was suddenly overwhelmed. But I remembered that I worked outside by myself, I didn't have any friends, and I liked Wang Yang a lot, so I agreed.

Wang Yang's family conditions are not very rich, but it is not only half better than our family, and he is still the only son of the family, so naturally there is no burden, and he has been held in the palm of his hand since he was a child. But he was sincere with me, very good to me and very careful.

In this way, after we were together for 1 year, he said that he wanted to marry me, and arranged to meet the parents of both parties, my parents' first impression of Wang Yang was very good, and my parents were very supportive of me and him. But my brother is still in school, and I'm a little hesitant to send my brothers to college before getting married.

Wang Yang also understood me, he said: "There is a house at home, we don't have to buy a house when we get married, we don't have to buy a car, we leave the money for my brother to study" gave me a bride price of 80,000, but I didn't want it in my heart. After getting married, we went back to the city to live.

Life after marriage is simple and happy, I am spiritual every day, we live together, work and commute, everything is so beautiful.

The only thing that was not satisfactory was that my stomach had not been angry, and I had not moved after 2 years of marriage. Helpless to take my husband to the hospital for examination, the doctor's answer made us completely shocked, the doctor said that my husband was pregnant with weak sperm, and the chance of pregnancy was almost impossible.

Wang Yang said to me: It was his reason that he was tired of me, and I knew that he had been hit, so I came forward to comfort him and said: In fact, it is very good to have no children! This way we can live in the world of two people with peace of mind, but it seems that my words of comfort have not helped.

Since this day, Wang Yang is like a changed person, we have never had a fight in the 2 years of marriage, but recently Wang Yang is always looking for various reasons at home to lose his temper, but I understand his pain, so I have been putting up with it.

Unexpectedly, this time because the home was not cleaned, he had a big fight with me, and I really couldn't stand it, so I argued with him, but he directly proposed to divorce me and slammed the door without giving me a chance to talk. A few days later, I actually received his divorce agreement, because he had not been home for several days, and I was angry, so I signed the agreement directly.

In the Civil Affairs Bureau, after a divorce. He stuffed a bank card into my bag and said the password was my birthday. Let me live a good life, I didn't think too much, took the card and left.

I left the sad city to start a new life, and soon after, my mother fell ill and needed money urgently, and I had to take the bank card given by my ex-husband to withdraw the money.

When I arrived at the ATM, I found that there were more than half a million yuan on the card. I looked at the balance quietly. There was an indescribable taste in my heart. I left him so that he could live a better life, but I didn't expect him to give me so much savings, and I began to regret it.

And at this time, the former mother-in-law also suddenly found me and told me that Wang Yang did this because he did not want to delay me, he felt that he deprived me of the dream of being a mother, but I had never thought of it this way, and finally understood his hard heart.

And in order to make me live a good life, he actually gave me all the money, I really can't accept it, everyone says I want to remarry him again?

@Xiao Li Emotional Expert said: Thank you for sharing...

I think it can be seen from your story that your ex-husband loves you very, very much, and probably life is always so unsatisfactory. He is an only child, he must have a harder choice than you in the face of divorce, he loves you, so he chooses to leave you.

So if you really don't want him and can remarry, you can discuss well, after all, it is really not easy for people to meet love in this life. Big deal about adopting a child. The grace of parenting is greater than anything!

There are no two identical leaves in the world, nor two exactly the same soul, you have your big world, I have my little life, he has his garden of happiness, the only thing that is the same is that everyone is working their own timeline, building, having a chance to meet, some are friends, some are relatives, some are lovers, no matter what it is, it is not easy in the vast sea of people, please cherish!

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