The so-called "tiger poison does not eat children", although the tiger is evil, it still does not eat its own cubs. But some people are more evil than tigers. They treat their children as "cash cows" and never let go until the moment they are squeezed dry. The so-called blood kinship is only a vassal of money. This scene caused the tragic first half of Taiwan's "genius child star" Ji Baoru. In the years when she was controlled by others, she was blamed, rejected, abandoned, and subjected to endless torture.
Grandma did not hurt her father and did not love, and her tragic childhood was pitiful
In 1975, Ji Baoru, 13 years old, weighed 1 meter 49. Although this height is much shorter than the standard height of 156.3cm for girls of the same age, it is still within the reasonable range of 142.2-168cm. It can be seen that at this time, Ji Baoru is still a normally developed girl, at least in terms of body size, she does not have any defects. However, as she grew older, even though the various organs of her body were constantly changing, her size remained unchanged. Her weight has always been 1 meter 49 when she was 13 years old.
Sweet and lovely Ji Baoru
What is shocking is that this body size is not caused by innate development, but is the result of acquired artificiality. Ji Baoru remembered clearly. One night in 1975, she was taken by Grandma (Grandma) to a small clinic nearby. After Grandma and the doctor bit their ears for a while, 13-year-old Ji Baoru was forced to a chair by the nurse, and the doctor next to her took a syringe and stuck it in her knee. Ji Baoru cried out in pain and cried out to the grandmother next to him for help. Grandma was indifferent. Afterwards, she curiously asked Grandma why she did not have an injection when she was not sick. Grandma said something, and at that time, Ji Baoru seemed to understand the words, "Your height can't be any higher." ”
Ji Baoru, who has smart eyes
Why did Grandma do this to her? In fact, in Grandma's eyes, Ji Baoru is just a "cash cow" in his own hands. In order to make the "cash cow" continue to live, Grandma will do whatever it takes to change her natural growth patterns. How fierce and poisonous Grandma's heart was, it was verified from the moment Ji Baoru landed on the ground.
At that time, the mother was pregnant with twins. This was quite taboo in Taiwanese folk at that time. Two children cannot grow up together. Therefore, one of them is destined to be given away. And under the patriarchal atmosphere, the one sent away must be a baby girl. Unfortunately, Ji Baoru was the baby girl. In this way, she was sent to her grandmother's house by her father and grandmother. At her grandmother's house, she had not let her grandmother help her since she learned to walk, she had not let her grandmother feed her since she could eat, and since she could do housework, she had taken care of the housework of her grandmother's house. The lack of love allowed her to learn to be independent early.
Stubborn Ji Baoru
One day, a slender woman with a water snake waist and a cheongsam quietly came to her grandmother's house and left a sum of money. Before leaving, there were tears in his eyes, and his hands trembled and touched Ji Baoru's head, and then hurried away. Ji Baoru asked her grandmother curiously, "Who is that beautiful aunt?" Grandma found a reason to do things and prevaricated. It turned out that the woman was Ji Baoru's mother. A woman who secretly made a man's little wife. Because of her mother's identity, Ji Baoru was labeled an illegitimate daughter as soon as she was born. It is difficult for illegitimate daughters to survive in broad daylight. In the human world, she is not even as good as a "chicken rib".
Ji Baoru, who was contemplating
Talent is tragically exploited by relatives, and talented child stars are forced to become cash cows
After living in the dark for five whole years, suddenly a bright light shone through the darkness. Her talents were inadvertently unearthed. It was 1967, and 5-year-old Ji Baoru went to audition for the first time. The producer asked her, "What would you do if your mom didn't have it?" She was asked to express her inner feelings within ten seconds. When the producer finished speaking for only a second, he saw Ji Baoru's tears fall down like a floodgate. Since then, the director has specially tailored such a scene for her. In "Little Red Lady", she is a child who lacks love, and in "Wine", she is Miss Qianjin, whose parents are not in harmony.
Ji Baoru in the film and television drama
Her expression and tears came and went so freely and just right. She has lacked father and motherly love since she was a child, and she is deeply touched in her heart, and she can vent her emotions through acting in this kind of drama. Art comes from life and is higher than life. The talent of art and the experience of life allow Ji Baoru to perform scenes that others think are difficult to perform with ease. In life, she is in the dark, and in art, her light is difficult for children of the same age to reach. At the time, she was hailed by the media as a "gifted child star." There are many children who can be called "child stars", but there are very few who can be called "geniuses". There was one in the Hong Kong performing arts industry where movies were popular at that time. At the age of 5, he starred in "Poison Husband", and at the age of 6, he was praised as a "genius child star" for the movie "Rainy Night". She was Feng Baobao, who was popular in the Hong Kong performing arts industry.
Feng Baby
When Ji Baoru appeared, many people found the shadow of Feng Baobao from her body. Therefore, at that time, there was such a sentence as "there is a Feng baby in Hong Kong, and there is a Ji Baoru in Taiwan." Both are "gifted child stars", but their fates are very different. Feng Baobao came from a family of drama, and was obsessed with acting since childhood, and got a family heirloom. Ji Baoru did not voluntarily. She doesn't like to shoot, but God let her eat this meal. When she became red and made money, she could no longer be with her grandmother. Her grandmother led her back to the strange home. Grandma forced her to keep taking on the drama and keep acting. She was a child, but there was no time to play. The TV station became her home. Every second of her was controlled in Grandma's hands. In Grandma's eyes, Ji Baoru is a cash machine in units of time.
Smart and charming Baby Feng
Time to sleep shrinks and time to go to school is completely deprived. Grandma was still not at ease, because Ji Baoru was developing and maturing day by day. She can't change the progress bar of time, but can only change Ji Baoru. Grandma had evil thoughts and took Ji Baoru to the clinic with a fierce heart, injecting drugs that inhibited growth. Grandma controlled Ji Baoru's height and strangled her chest with a shroud. Time is passing, and people will always change. Ji Baoru's "genius child star" label will eventually be torn off by the years. Grandma is afraid that Ji Baoru will lose the value of use.
In the film and television drama, Ji Baoru was strangled to the chest
At the age of 13, ji Baoru became a watershed in acting and singing. Since then, she has transformed into a singer. Grandma's squeezing is also more intense. As Ji Baoru sang "Ten Thousand Miles to Find Mother", "White Dove", and "Sunset Mountain Outside the Mountain", she was on fire again! Since then, Grandma did not let Ji Baoru's voice sit idle for a moment. Because every word ji baoru sang in his mouth could be exchanged for money. Grandma only recognized the money, and only hoped that Ji Baoru could keep singing all the time. Recording songs in the studio during the day and singing in nightclubs at night, Ji Baoru seems to have become a singing machine. She sang a lot of songs and exchanged a lot of money, but she didn't see a penny, she didn't get it. Grandma's pockets were bulging all the time.
Ji Baoru, who is walking towards the music scene
Leaving home to get married and have children, he was tortured by fate
She sang for four years and was suppressed by Grandma for four years. Finally, at the age of 17, she couldn't stand it anymore. That night, Grandma fell ill and she sang alone in a nightclub. A staff member named Yu Long took the initiative to talk to her. The two knew each other but did not know each other. After singing, Yu Long took the initiative to invite her to eat a late-night snack. It was the first time in her 17-year life that she had been invited. She did not want to go home to see Grandma, so she agreed to Yu Long's invitation. Since then, the relationship between the two has become closer and closer. The more she annoyed Grandma's face, the more willing she was to get closer to Yu Long. Three months later, she became pregnant. At the time, she was not yet 18 years old. When Grandma and her father found out, they ordered her to have an abortion while beating her fiercely. This time, she did not bow her head, took 200 yuan at home and chose to elope with Yu Long.
Yu Long
On Ji Baoru's 18th birthday, the two registered their marriage. No proposal, no ring, no wedding dress, 18-year-old she was promoted from a little girl to a woman. Previously, her fate was in the hands of her family, and now she wanted to be herself. However, she never escaped the torment of fate.
The child was born prematurely at eight months and suffered from "congenital gastroschiasis". When she opened her eyes, she saw a child lying in an incubator. There are holes in the stomach and exposed intestines, which is unbearable to see. Subsequently, rumors spread around her, believing that this was retribution for her elopement. At that moment, her heart was on the verge of life and death. She can only use her husband Yu Long as the last support of her life. She then had children with her husband. But in the end, the husband's heart did not guard the home.
Ji Baoru with husband and children
The husband copied the love technique of the year, so that a sixteen or seventeen-year-old girl willingly called him "dry daddy". When Ji Baoru learned about the relationship between "Dry Daddy" and "Dry Daughter", she hit the corner of the table with her head in front of her husband. It is difficult to reunite the broken mirror, and Ji Baoru's relationship with her husband can no longer return to the past. It was also this year that the turmoil in the stock market made everything she and her husband had struggled with in an instant. The feelings are over, the money is gone, the family is separated, and it is difficult to continue to live. One night in 1990, Ji Baoru picked up his suitcase and left the house. However, leaving still did not free her from the torment of fate.
Reminisce about the past
She opened a KTV based on her connections, but Yu Long repeatedly came to the door. She had no intention of getting entangled with this man any longer, so she repeatedly turned him away. Just when she thought she had completely broken off her relationship with this man, a sudden bad news made her feel guilty. One day in 1992, a fire broke out at a KTV in Taipei. Sixteen people died in the sea of fire, including Yu Long. When Ji Baoru heard that the nightmare was time-consuming, he still couldn't help but rush to the scene. There, she was verbally abused by her mother-in-law. It turned out that since the divorce, Yu Long was depressed and appeared in the KTV all day to drink and dispel his sorrows. The wine has been drunk, the sorrow has not disappeared, but the life is gone. Ji Baoru was full of guilt, thinking that if she had not repeatedly refused, perhaps Yu Long would not have died. Later, she recalled in an interview: "If I had chosen to forgive, maybe the result would have been different." ”
The past is hard to look back on
Next, she has to support two children alone. However, the children were unconscious. Some are restless and restless, often running away from home in a frenzy, and some are addicted to drugs and drug trafficking, and they have not changed their teachings. Ji Baoru had no choice but to personally call the police and send his son to prison. Such a life made her feel dark. She bought alcohol to indulge, borrowed wine to pretend to be crazy, fought with outsiders, and quarreled with her family. She chose to live a chaotic day and count the days. And so, she suffered for 12 years. It wasn't until 2004 that she found light in the dark.
Ji Baoru's two children
Forget the pains of life and welcome happiness
One day, Ji Baoru went to see a friend. When the two meet, friends see her depressed. So, the friend gently took Ji Baoru's hand, told her to close her eyes, and then began to pray. Incredibly, tears appeared in Ji Baoru's eyes, his heart felt very hot, and his body seemed to be tightly embraced by a pair of hands. At that moment, she felt warmth and tranquility, as if she had forgotten the pain, torment and betrayal of the first half of her life. Friends told her, "Love is always around you, it's just that your hatred pushes it farther and farther away." Let go of the previous worries and reach out to love again. ”
Ji Bao was enlightened
Since then, Ji Baoru has forgiven her grandmother who tortured her, forgiven her parents who abandoned her, and patiently educated her children. The first half of her life has passed, and she wants to start a new second half of her life. She joined the Life Society, participated in public welfare undertakings, and helped the elderly and children with physical and mental disabilities. The god of luck who never cared for her came to her!
Ji Baoru, who plays Grandma in "Pearl Life"
In 2015, her autobiographical TV series "Pearl Life" was released. In it, she played the most hated grandma of the year. When she took this step, it also meant that she really let go. She said with emotion, "The process of regaining self-worth little by little is like a broken life, being picked up piece by piece." "Forget the pain of life, and happiness will come to you."