I am 68 years old, the old house was divided into 1.5 million demolition funds, I gave my son 1 million, left 500,000 pension money for myself, did not give my daughter a penny, daughter-in-law said: Parents, this money is not

I am 68 years old, the old house was divided into 1.5 million demolition funds, I gave my son 1 million, left 500,000 pension money for myself, did not give my daughter a penny, the daughter-in-law said: Parents, this money can not be divided like this, the words behind the daughter-in-law made me and my wife cry.

I have a son and a daughter, the daughter is the eldest, the son is the smallest, we are on the outskirts of the city, the conditions were really poor, I earned money to support the family, both to take care of the sick wife and to provide for the two children to study.

The daughter has been very good at studying, and the son is not bad at studying. My daughter has always been more sensible, and she sees me as a very hard person, both farming and taking care of her mother. Just give us and my wife and I said: Mom and Dad, I don't want to study, I want to go out and work, so that Dad will not be so hard, I and Dad two people work hard to earn money, help Mom's illness, for my brother to study.

My wife and I listened to my daughter's words and felt very sad.

But there is really no way, because the two children can only have one person to study, after the daughter goes out, she really works very hard, and every month she saves money and uses the money to send it home, so that I can give my wife a good doctor, for my brother to study well, and let my brother go to college.

To tell the truth, my son is also more contentious, knows the situation at home, and finally was admitted to the university of 985, and my son also remembers his sister's goodness.

My daughter met her husband at work, and my son-in-law and we were not in the same place. Seeing that my daughter is going to marry far away, my wife and I are so sad in our hearts, this child has suffered a lot with us since she was a child, and when she grows up, she will marry to a foreign country. We have fewer and fewer opportunities to see her in the future, and it is sad to think about it.

But the son-in-law is very good, very responsible and kind, good to my daughter, although the family conditions are not particularly good, but better than my family conditions, we also met the family of two, people are also very real, think about as long as the daughter is happy, we are not good to block.

After marriage, she and her son-in-law did some small business in the local area, or a good business, and gave birth to a son, and the in-laws were also quite good to her, and we were relieved.

After my son graduated from college, he also worked in the provincial city, and he also had a salary of about 10,000 yuan per month, and my wife and I felt really pleased.

When my son wanted to get married, there was a difference of 60,000 yuan to buy a house, and we didn't have any money at that time, because we didn't have any money in our hands over the years, and my daughter knew about it and called my son.

The son is honestly said that there is still a difference of 60,000, the result of the daughter and son-in-law to lend money to the son to buy a house, the son said that he will work hard, through three years of hard work will return the money to the sister, but I know that the son pressure is also quite large, because the daughter-in-law's salary is not very high, the two people do not have too much savings, we can not help too much, the pressure is still quite large.

These three years have passed, and the son has only returned 30,000 yuan to his sister, but the daughter and son-in-law have never said a word.

Last year, I didn't expect our side to do planning, our family's house was actually demolished, and recently we got 1.5 million compensation.

My wife and I are both so happy, and I have never seen so much money in my life.

Both people know in their hearts that they owe their daughters a lot of money over the years, and how they have to give their daughters money, but they don't dare to worry about their sons and daughters-in-law's opinions, because on our side, the family property is for the son, so we are also worried.

I thought about giving my son 1 million, and the remaining 500,000 we took it ourselves. Just tell the son that this is the pension money for the two of us, we will give our daughter 300,000 from this 500,000 miles, and keep 200,000 for ourselves, and the son and daughter-in-law do not know this money, and there will be no contradiction.

This holiday, I let my son and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law come back, made a table of dishes, and after eating a good meal, the family sat there and chatted and said how to divide the money.

I said to give my son 1 million, the remaining 500,000 we will retire, and the daughter who marries out will not be able to get this compensation.

The daughter and son-in-law said; such a share is also reasonable, and we will not ask for this money.

But the daughter-in-law said: How can parents share this money like this?

My wife and I were very nervous when we heard it, could it be that she wanted to take all the money? That's a bit too much.

The daughter-in-law then said, "How can you not give your sister a penny?" Over the years, my sister has paid so much for this family, how to say that I have to give her money, give us 1 million inside, we divide my sister half, our family 500,000, and the other 500,000 to keep you two pensions. This is okay, at least we have to be fair to our sister, when we bought the house, my sister didn't say a word, we were 60,000 yuan short, my sister and brother-in-law made up for us.

I also heard Xiaojun say that the money for schooling in these years was all helped by his sister, and we can't forget my sister and brother-in-law.

After listening to my daughter-in-law's words, my wife and I burst into tears.

In fact, this is the result we want most, it turns out that my wife and I think too much, and blame our son and daughter-in-law?

I would like to say:

You have a good daughter and a good son, and a good son-in-law and a good daughter-in-law!

You are a blessed old man, you have suffered so much for your children all your life, you have suffered so much, but your sons and daughters have all remembered them in their hearts, and you know gratitude in your old age.

Harmony in the family is more important than anything else, which is the blessing of your second elder and the blessing of your children.