The man just came home from work, and his mother-in-law said come to dinner soon, and the whole family will wait for you. The man was about to pick vegetables, a look at all vegetables, he ate two bites and put the bowl in the kitchen, came out to see, the table people are all gone, it turned out that the whole family hid in the mother-in-law's room to drink rib soup, it was really sad.
Xiao Zhang is a son-in-law, his daughter-in-law Meng Meng family has three daughters, and Xiao Zhang family is in the mountains, so he came to be a son-in-law.
Mother-in-law is very fierce, she is not used to Xiao Zhang, all day long said that he eats and lives in vain, do not know how to repay.
Xiao Zhang has a job, he can completely move out to live, but Meng Meng disagrees, saying that he can't leave his parents and the size of the family alone.
For the sake of his daughter-in-law, Xiao Zhang gritted his teeth and endured.
That evening, as soon as he got home from work, the whole family sat neatly at the table to prepare for dinner, and when she saw him return, her mother-in-law said, "You hurry, and the whole family will have to wait for you for a meal." ”
Xiao Zhang quickly put down his bag and came to eat, he remembered that when he went out in the morning, there was no water and no electricity at home, and he asked: "There is electricity, Mom, your work efficiency is really fast." ”
Mother-in-law said: "You stop, this fee is not what I pay, I am old, it is inconvenient to move, this is all my family Meng Meng to pay, or Meng Meng understands things, unlike some people, only know to eat and drink, do not do anything all day, do not pay a little for the family." ”
Xiao Zhang knew that his daughter-in-law did not consult with him, so she went to pay for the whole family, although he was a little unhappy in his heart, but he still did not pay attention to it.
Meng Meng also knew that he had gone a little too far, and a pair of large eyes looked at him timidly, and he gave her a comforting look.
At this time, he heard the second sister saying: "Don't say these choking words, the rice is already hard enough to eat, or let people not eat?" ”
Xiao Zhang picked up a bowl of rice and was about to pick up the dish, looked up, a table of radish cabbage, there is no piece of meat, how to eat this, he barely clipped a chopstick cabbage, ate a few bites and took the bowl to the kitchen to wash, he whispered: There is no oil star, this bowl does not need to be washed.
When he came out after washing the dishes, the people who had just filled the table were all gone, and he wondered, how did these people go so quickly, where did they go? Not even the table was packed.
So he started to clean up, at this time, he heard a voice in his mother-in-law's house, so he went to the door to listen, and then he understood what was going on?
Mother-in-law has an opinion on Xiao Zhang, the whole family is vegetarian on the façade, in fact, stewed a large pot of rib soup to her house, when Xiao Zhang went to the kitchen, she quickly called the whole family to the house, and then closed the door.
Everyone felt strange, saying that they had not finished eating, and what were they doing calling us in?
The mother-in-law said: "Calling you to come, of course, is to drink rib soup, quick, one person and one bowl quickly drink." ”
So Meng Meng gave a bowl of chicken soup to one person, and everyone said that it was really fresh and delicious.
Meng Meng's father said: "Everyone is so hard every day, they should eat something good, otherwise they will have the strength to work." ”
At this time, the eldest sister spoke: "Mom, you called us all to your house to drink, just to prevent your brother-in-law, right?" ”
The mother-in-law said, "Yes, even if you are guarding against him, you will not give him a drink, and that kind of person will only enter and leave, and will not give him a drink." ”
Grandma also said, "Yeah, yeah, ignore him, you drink quickly." ”
The father said that it was not good to feel like this, and xiao Zhang should not be treated like this, and the mother said that if you are willing to drink, drink, don't talk.
She saw that Meng Meng did not drink, and asked her why she did not drink quickly?
Meng Meng said: "Xiao Zhang is my man, I drink rib soup here behind his back, I can't drink it, or I will give him a bowl, right?" ”
The mother-in-law said, "Well, then you bring him the pot and see if you dare to go out of this door." ”
At this time, Xiao Zhang felt very wronged, and he remembered what his parents said the last time they came to see him.
The last time his parents came to see him from the mountains, his mother-in-law said something very unpleasant, and when he left, his parents asked him if he was doing well at home.
He said he had a very good life and that everyone could take care of him.
The father said, "Son, don't comfort us, we are here, they all talk so badly, don't give a little face, I can imagine how they are in front of you on weekdays, because no matter what, in their eyes, you are an outsider." ”
At this time, Xiao Zhang truly felt that he was an outsider, an outsider isolated by his family.
At this time, Meng Meng came with a bowl of rib soup, saying that his mother-in-law had specially left him and asked him to drink quickly, Xiao Zhang said: "Mom will not do this, you don't have to say good things for her, take it, I will not drink." ”
Meng Meng said: "Are you angry that I paid the fee without permission, after all, they are all my family." ”
Xiao Zhang said that he could understand and was not angry, and Meng Meng said that you would come to drink rib soup if you were not angry.
Xiao Zhang said, "You should stop trampling on my only dignity, please save me a little face." ”
Meng Meng took Xiao Zhang's arm and said, "Honey, I know that you have always been very depressed, in fact, it is very simple to have a good relationship with your mother, that is, to take half of the family loan." ”
Xiao Zhang listened, shook off Meng Meng's hand and said: "Don't even think about it, believe it or not, we are taking on all the loans, your mother will still treat me as an outsider." ”
"It's Difficult to Be a Son-in-Law" tells that a man goes to be a son-in-law, and the whole family drinks rib soup on his back, which is too much.
The son-in-law is just like being a daughter-in-law, how to do the family will also feel that it is an outsider, if the wife supports herself, life may be a little better, if the wife is all towards the mother's family, then it will have to suffer a lot of grievances.
It is said that if you can treat your daughter-in-law as a daughter, treat your son-in-law as a son, treat your mother-in-law and mother-in-law as your mother-in-law, and really be able to do this with each other, then the world will become more harmonious and beautiful.
If you can't do it, try to separate as much as possible, so that the contradictions will be much less, there is no need to squeeze together, look at each other unfavorably, and live a comfortable life.
Between the family, there should be more understanding, more tolerance, more patience, so that the day will be harmonious and satisfactory.