Last week, on my mother-in-law's birthday, I wrapped her a red envelope of 10,000 yuan. I was drunk at dinner at noon. When I woke up and went to the toilet, I heard the conversation between the mother-in-law and his wife. I was blown, and bold ideas popped out of my mind. I don't know that right?
My name is Wu Hao. I am 33 years old and I come from the countryside. After graduating from university, he entered the clothing company. I work hard every day. A few years later, with an annual salary of 500,000 yuan, he became the company's precinct manager. My wife's name is Xu Li. She is 32 years old. Her parents worked at the unit. From an early age, he achieved excellent academic results and went to high school and attended a good university. After graduation, he entered a large enterprise, and a few years later, he also raised his salary and promoted.
We just started working, we met at a friend's wedding, at that time, I was the best man, she was the bridesmaid, we were deeply attracted to each other, we were connected to each other. After that, I often chatted and dated, and gradually became girlfriends with my boyfriend. After more than 2 years of love, our relationship is very good. We didn't quarrel. We felt that it wasn't when we were younger that we were ready to get married. I also have a sister below me. Both of my parents went out to work. Together, they only have $8,000 a month. My parents took out all their savings to buy a wedding house for us. Xu Li is an only child, and the mother-in-law of the old man gave us decoration and household items.
We worked hard, every day we came out early and returned late, and my wife and I were promoted and raised 2 years ago. At this time, the wife was pregnant, her parents were retired, and there was a pension of 10,000 in January. They can conveniently take care of their wives, and can help take care of the baby in the future, but they have been living with the elderly, and the living habits are different, the elderly are going to bed early and getting up early, and we are late to sleep and get up late because of work reasons. When the mother-in-law got up in the morning, she cleaned the room and made breakfast. The old man got up early and liked to watch TV and it was very loud, I didn't have a good rest, I didn't have the energy to go to work every day, and my colleagues were concerned about whether I was too hard.
After that, I couldn't sleep well every day. The body can't stand it, and the wife is also very distressed. The birth of the baby brought a happy atmosphere to the family, and I was very busy at work. I work late every day, go home to see the baby sleeping soundly, and I fall asleep when I am tired. I want to sleep a little longer in the morning. The old man got up again in the morning to turn on the TV very loud, want to sleep can not sleep, and complained to his wife a few words, did not expect the mother-in-law to hear our conversation, think to take care of the baby, did not take care of me.
Last week on my mother-in-law's birthday, we had a hearty banquet at home at noon. I wrapped her a red envelope of 10,000 yuan. We sang birthday songs and ate a couple of birthday cakes. Then, I had a drink with my husband. I had been drinking badly and soon got drunk and went back to my room to sleep. In the confusion of the room, I heard a conversation between my wife and her parents.
Mother-in-law and wife said. "When the baby was in elementary school, my father and I moved away, went back to their hometown in the city, and rented a house. Wu Hao should not be disturbed by me and my father for a long time, we have also affected your husband and wife life, dad's ears are not good, so the TV must be turned on very loudly, affecting his rest, on weekends he wants to sleep more will not sleep. He would be happy if I moved away. My husband said, "I think that if you move away with your mother, you and your husband and wife will live on their own, a small family, and a more harmonious family." "
I was sad to hear that when I came back to the room. I have great respect for them, what am I doing to make them unhappy to move away, the old man is the TV on loud, so long, I am also used to it. In fact, I wasn't upset that they were staying with us, but I appreciated that they could help with the baby. Now that they are going to move away, I am very reluctant to do anything wrong, so that the old man is not happy, so that he wants to move away?
In the evening, my wife told me about it. After calming down, I seriously considered it. Actually, my husband was right. Living together, our two generations are bound to have a variety of habits and lifestyles that lead to contradictions. After discussing with my wife, I plan to buy a house in our community. This one was handy for us. Because they can take care of the baby, we discussed buying another apartment in the community for the elderly.
When she was given the keys to her new home, her mother-in-law was very touched. I smiled at them and said, "Mom and Dad, thank you for taking care of us for the past four years. ”
Do you think I have the right to buy a house for my father-in-law and my mother-in-law?
@Wild Rose Emotion
I would like to say that you are a son-in-law who knows how to be grateful. Although your father-in-law and mother-in-law help to take care of the children, it also affects your sleep, and you do not complain, but are very grateful for their efforts. In order to get along more harmoniously, you buy them a house in your neighborhood. The elderly have their own houses to live in, you also have your own living space, and they can also help Mu take care of the children. In the same way, they will also feel that the son-in-law is very good and treat it more sincerely. True heart for heart. You are all good families, know how to understand and tolerate, home and everything, a little more understanding, a little more tolerance, this is the foundation of family harmony!!
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