Heroes not only refer to people who defend their families, make great contributions to the country, and maintain the stable development of society, but also have heroes among civilians. Usually, these civilian heroes are not obvious, but as soon as someone needs help, they will not hesitate to rush up.
When more and more people in society turn a blind eye to the hero's efforts and help, they ignore it. The interaction between people in society will become more and more indifferent and distant.
People have always admired heroes and have a sense of gratitude to those who have helped them. But there are people who really look at their own savior with great fascination.
In 2012, Deng Jinjie, a young man in Hunan, disregarded his personal safety and rescued a family who fell into the water, but he was unable to climb ashore again due to lack of strength. But instead of expressing gratitude to the hero who saved them, the rescued people uttered infuriating words such as "What's the matter with me?"
What exactly makes them say this? Will they feel guilty after doing all this?
Dog young Deng Jinjie
Deng Jinjie was born in Tangquan Village, Chayuan Town, Loudi County, Hunan Province. Since childhood, Deng Jinjie has been very kind, and he will do his best to help others for help.
At that time, the educational environment in the village was not very good, and Deng Jinjie was not a reading material, so Deng Jinjie dropped out of school after finishing junior high school. After dropping out of school, Deng Jinjie first went to learn to cook, and then worked on a construction site.
By chance, Deng Jinjie came into contact with the wolfhound, and this contact seemed to awaken the sleeping soul in his body, and it was out of control from then on.
According to Deng Jinjie's sister, Deng Qiuqiong, Deng Jinjie regarded dogs as their destiny. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, he established his life goals.
For his beloved dog, Deng Jinjie rented a private house of more than 200 square meters for dogs.
Deng Jinjie's dogs are basically valuable dog breeds, such as Satsuma, Bianmu, Golden Retriever and so on. Usually, in addition to work, it is to accompany the puppy. Walking the dog became Deng Jinjie's favorite thing to do before he was alive, and it was also his most relaxed thing.
For Deng Jinjie's focus on raising dogs, everyone in the village knows it.
At first, Deng Jinjie's family did not agree with his high-profile dog raising, which in the eyes of the people in the village was not doing the right thing. Moreover, Deng Jinjie's dog breeding is also not profitable, and the family has also advanced a lot of money for him.
However, with Deng Jinjie's insistence, the family finally stopped opposing it. "Later, I also had a dog to accompany me when I went out, and I felt good and safe." This is what Deng Jinjie's mother said.
In addition to being like this to dogs, Deng Jinjie is also loving to other small animals.
Deng Jinjie once raised yellow oriole birds and cats. According to his sister Deng Qiuqiong, once Deng Jinjie was paid a salary or his family gave him subsidies, the first thing he thought of was his pet. Even if you are hungry, you have to ensure the needs of these pets.
Seeing that the same village and Deng Jinjie were generally old, they were already married and had children, but Deng Jinjie was still alone.
Deng Jinjie's family members looked in their eyes and were anxious in their hearts. He has been advised to change careers and find a partner. But Deng Jinjie is very concerned about this Buddha, in his life, raising a dog is the top priority, for the girlfriend thing, he never insisted.
The hero saves people, and the accident appears
On the day of Deng Jinjie's outstanding event, the weather was sweltering, and Deng Jinjie's sister Deng Qiuqiong wanted to keep her brother at home. But Deng Jinjie is concerned about his dog, and he said that the environment of the place he rented is not very good, and he must go and take care of the dog.
I just didn't expect that Deng Jinjie would become the last time the two brothers and sisters would meet.
On the evening of July 3, 2012, Deng Jinjie went out to walk the dog as usual. The southern July evening was very hot, and Deng Jinjie led his two dogs for a walk in the Sunshui River in Louxing District. For him, it was the most enjoyable time of his day.
At this moment, Deng Jinjie, who was walking with his dog, suddenly heard a cry for help. It turned out that in order to cool off, the family entered the SunShui River and accidentally drowned.
When Deng Jinjie saw the situation, he didn't say a word, and he didn't even have time to take off his clothes and shoes and jump into the river to save people. Under his leadership, two other passers-by also joined the ranks of rescuers.
Friends who have common sense of first aid know that the physical exertion required to save drowning people is very serious. What's more, this time it was more than one person who was saved, including male adults.
Deng Jinjie, as the first rescuer to jump down, has begun to have some physical weakness. And the environment in the river is also intricate, of which aquatic weeds are the biggest potential danger.
After the original drowning people had been rescued from the shore, the crowd found that Deng Jinjie, the first to jump down to save people, did not appear at this time.
The people on the shore looked around for Deng Jinjie's figure, and his two dogs were also waiting on the shore for the return of their owners. However, there was no movement in the river, and at this time, everyone realized that the situation was not good, and Deng Jinjie may have had an accident.
The people on the shore began to act, some of them hit 110 and 120, and some of them were spontaneously transferred into the Sun Shui River to search. Everyone is looking forward to the civilian hero being safe and sound.
However, it backfired, and when the police and fire departments arrived, Deng Jinjie was discovered after a comprehensive salvage by all parties. It was only because of the long time in the past that Deng Jinjie had lost any breath at this time. Deng Jinjie, 27, lost his life.
When Deng Jinjie's life and death were uncertain and everyone was trying to find him, the most infuriating thing happened. The rescued family, after a short rest, did not say that it was the first time to find their benefactor, but the first time to drive away from the scene.
The people around them also noticed the family, and some people reminded them kindly that the rescued people had not yet come out, but they did not seem to want to stay in this place of horror, and they left in a hurry without stopping much.
"We saw them getting ready to go, so we stopped them." When he saw that the family that had been rescued ashore had the intention of leaving, he called them down and said to them, "If the rescuers have not yet come up, where are you going?" Unexpectedly, the woman in the family said, "What's the matter with us?" ”
The people around them were busy looking for Deng Jinjie at the moment, so even if they were angry, they couldn't open their bodies to find this family theory.
According to witnesses, "I heard someone shouting for help and ran over as soon as I could." Then I saw a young guy jump down to save people, but the river was very urgent, and the young man himself was choked several times, and when he rescued all those people, the boy himself could not do it. ”
Asked about the rescued family of three driving away, witnesses said: "They may be afraid of taking some responsibility for themselves." ”
The rescued disappeared, and the crowd lamented
Deng Jinjie's sudden death was a blow to the whole family, and a person who was still alive in the morning had no breath at this moment.
Sister Deng Qiuqiong was heartbroken after knowing that her brother was no longer there. When she arrived at the scene, saw her brother's body, and then heard that the rescued people had left without even saying a word of thanks, it was even more uncomfortable.
For Deng Jinjie's family, the loss of their son and brother made them sad, and after hearing that their son had saved people, they did not even say a word of thanks, which made them even more chilled.
For the people around them, the actions of the rescued family also made them angry. The masses said that the rescued family had no conscience and no humanity to speak of.
Deng Jinjie's matter was quickly known to the media, and the media interviewed the Loudi Municipal Public Security Bureau about the relevant situation. The Loudi Municipal Public Security Bureau said that the matter has attracted the attention of the leaders and has been handed over to the local police station for handling.
After Deng Jinjie's death, his good eldest brother Yan Jianwei was also sad.
Yan Jianwei is also a Loudi native, he is Deng Jinjie's boss, but for the two of them, the relationship between them is more like brotherhood. In Yan Jianwei's eyes, Deng Jinjie is a person who is honest with people, has love for animals, and works steadily.
Yan Jianwei couldn't imagine that this good employee of his, his good brother, was gone. What made him even more unwilling to believe was that the rescued family left without saying anything.
After waiting for the family's thanks and apologies, Yan Jianwei could not sit still, and he persuaded himself that the other party may only have a temporary emergency or did not know that Deng Jinjie had died. He paid out of his own pocket and took out ten thousand yuan to offer a reward to the family in society in order to get the news of the family.
Deng Jinjie is also a little famous in the dog breeding circle in Loudi City. The people in the circle knew about him, and after hearing that Yan Jianwei had issued a reward, they also responded and joined the army of people looking for people. But nothing was found.
Yan Jianwei said that he had communicated with the Deng family, and for the Deng family, they did not have the luxury of being able to obtain material things such as compensation, they only hoped that the rescued family could say "thank you" to Deng Jinjie personally, at least so that Deng Jinjie could not save people in vain and leave in vain.
The power of the web
Deng Jinjie's affair soon caused a huge reaction on the Internet. Many lament such a young civilian hero they have never met.
For the rescued family, netizens have also expressed their incomprehension, why can they turn around and leave like that, Deng Jinjie is the life-saving benefactor of this family, so for the life-saving benefactor, will the conscience not hurt?
Netizens said that if this matter is not taken seriously and the hero is sacrificed in this way, there will be people who will do good deeds in the future, and will there be people who will stand up when others encounter difficulties?
Major websites and platforms have also vigorously publicized Deng Jinjie's heroic deeds.
On the one hand, this is to let more people know that there is such a civilian hero, so that everyone can better learn this spirit; on the other hand, it is also to find out the rescued family through the network big data platform, hoping that they can find out in conscience.
The crowd spontaneously mourned Deng Jinjie
After Deng Jinjie's death, all walks of life have paid tribute to this grassroots hero in their own way. They expressed deep resentment towards the young hero, either online or in reality.
Loudi City Telecom suggested that the Sunshui River be renamed Jinjie River to commemorate Deng Jinjie's deeds. Netizens also set up a memorial hall for Deng Jinjie on the Internet to commemorate him.
The government also commended Deng Jinjie's heroic deeds, and the two levels of government in Loudi City praised Deng Jinjie as a good young man in the new era and called on contemporary young people to learn from Deng Jinjie's spirit of helping others.
The Louxing District Party Committee and the District Government issued a certificate of "Seeing Righteousness and Courage" to Deng Jinjie and gave him certain rewards.
At Deng Jinjie's memorial service, the government leaders and staff of Loudi City came to mourn and expressed their deep condolences to Deng Jinjie's family. Many netizens who know about this matter have also gone to the funeral home to send the hero of Loudi City, Deng Jinjie, on his last journey.
The memorial service lasted for nearly an hour, and those who came to mourn felt sorry for such a young man who was in the midst of a good old age. The whole memorial service scene cried incessantly, and they and Deng Jinjie's family accompanied Deng Jinjie through the last part of the road.
The Loudi city police and the relevant departments at the site of the incident have also always attached great importance to this matter, calling on residents to actively provide clues, and also hope that the rescued family can appear as soon as possible and thank the hero who saved them.
After the final investigation by the police, it was confirmed that Deng Jinjie's behavior was finally determined to be an act of helping others. Official announcements came, but the thanks of the rescued families were delayed.
After a government blanket search, the family was finally found. At this time, people found that it was not only a family of three who had been rescued that day, but also the child's aunt.
On the night of Deng Jinjie's first seven days, the rescued family finally appeared. Regarding what happened that day, the rescued claimed: "At that time, I did not know that the rescuer was in distress. "And, in their hearts, they feel like victims too, and they also need to be comforted."
However, for these, netizens do not buy it, under the pressure of huge public opinion, the family decided to come out to thank Deng Jinjie.
The people who came were the rescued couple and the child's aunt, and the three of them kept prostrating their heads in front of Deng Jinjie's portrait to apologize. Say sorry to Deng Jinjie to comfort Deng Jinjie's spirit in heaven. The three also handed over a condolence money to Deng Jinjie's parents, which can also be regarded as a compensation for the Deng family.
Whether or not the gratitude came from the heart, the family really realized their mistake. But for Deng Jinjie and his family, they also waited for a thank you from the rescued. It's just that people can't be resurrected from the dead, and Deng Jinjie's life has stopped forever at the age of 27.
The name of the hero
Although what Deng Jinjie has done has passed, and the "thanks" that his family wants has come, the Loudi city and district governments are still very concerned about the next life of the hero's parents.
On July 11, the secretary of the municipal party committee personally went to Deng Jinjie's home to visit Deng Jinjie's parents, and when he learned that the second elder's health had been bad, he immediately asked the relevant departments to do a good job in medical security and other measures, so that the civil affairs department could properly arrange their lives.
On the afternoon of July 12, the staff of Zhuhai Hongfan Holding Group and Loudi Hongfan Aluminum Co., Ltd. went to Deng Jinjie's home to visit his family and donated 300,000 yuan in cash to express their respect for the hero and their condolences to the hero's family.
At 10:00 p.m. on the 12th, the reporter learned through the propaganda department of Loudi City that the Loudi civil affairs department was collecting relevant information and actively applying for the title of martyr for the hero Deng Jinjie.
All this is the last consolation to Deng Jinjie, and it is also the biggest praise for Deng Jinjie, but it is a pity that he cannot see all this with his own eyes.
Jiang Cheng'ai, Peng Weibing, and Zhong Xiong, who accompanied Deng Jinjie to the river to save people, were also awarded the certificate of "seeing righteousness and courage.". This is the greatest encouragement to these heroes.
Although the grassroots hero Deng Jinjie is no longer there, his spirit is worth learning from each and every one of us.
Regardless of their attitude toward the families of the rescued, whether they have any unspeakable secrets, their escape after the death of the life-saver should not be. Such an approach has chilled the hearts of the families of the rescuers and the whole society. It also has a bad impact on society.
The help of the government, netizens, and people from all walks of life to Deng Jinjie's family has solved the living difficulties of Deng Jinjie's family and made the hero have no worries. The family of the rescued was finally able to stand up and express their gratitude to Deng Jinjie, and also allowed Deng Jinjie's spirit in heaven to rest in peace.
I also hope that the hero can rest in peace and go all the way. Deng Jinjie's spirit is worth learning from each and every one of us. For those who have helped us, we must express our gratitude in time and not let the helpers chill. Let the society be full of love, let the world always be warm!