Recently, an old photo has caused countless people to sigh:
The girl in the photo, the smooth forehead, the clear eyes, the curved soft face of a smile, with a girlish feeling that the black and white photos can't hide.
The girl in the photo is named Zhang Anzhong, the eldest daughter of the famous pharmacologist Professor Zhang Changshao.
Seemingly beautiful and weak, she has great achievements: professor at Fudan University, neuropharmacologist, and pharmacologist who has been commended by the Chinese Pharmacological Society as a pharmacologist who has made "outstanding contributions to the development of Chinese medicine".
On December 10, the famous movie star Chen Chong sent a text to mourn the death of his mother.
Seeing the photo, people suddenly realized that Chen Chong was Zhang Anzhong's daughter.
In the last photo before his death, Zhang Anzhong's face is already haggard, but his smile can still faintly see the rhyme of that year.
If there are poems and books hidden in the heart, the years will never defeat the beauty.
Life in the world, the face will age, life also has a withered day, but the inner cultivation and talent will never be taken away by the years, but at any time the light will precipitate and inherit, and nourish the next generation.
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Education is not about telling children what to do
It's about letting your child see what you believe
Zhang Anzhong was born in Shanghai in 1932, his father Zhang Changshao was the founder of pharmacology, and his mother Shi Yifan was a well-known sociologist.
Zhang Changshao
Silvain never indulged his daughter because she was young.
In chen chong's words: "If you want to mingle with your grandmother, there is a threshold." ”
Silfan's bedroom was cramped, with bookshelves against the left and right walls, piled high with books.
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Whenever Zhang Anzhong reads a book and talks to his mother about the story in the book, her mother will chat with her with interest or joke with her with the plot of the book.
When Zhang Anzhong was 6 years old, his father went to the United States for further study.
Unwilling to be separated from her husband, Shi Yifan took Zhang Anzhong to the photo studio to take a group photo, and then said to her: "When you think of your mother, look at this picture." ”
The next day, Zhang Moved into his grandfather's house, and his mother flew across the Pacific Ocean to meet his father, and has since sent her weekly letters.
Later, when it came to this matter, Zhang Anzhong did not feel that her mother did not hurt herself, but felt that she was "very free, even if she became a mother, she still dared to pursue happiness."
In 1941, the Japanese army occupied Shanghai. Shi Yifan and her husband immediately gave up half of their studies at Harvard and rushed back to China to return to Zhang Anzhong's side.
After returning to China, Zhang Changshao was appointed associate professor of pharmacology by Shanghai Medical College. At that time, the Shanghai Medical College had moved to Chongqing, and Zhang Anzhong followed his parents to Gele Mountain in Chongqing.
In Shanghai, they are large families, living in spacious and comfortable houses. When they arrived at Gele Mountain, they lived in a low house covered with bamboo and mud, and every winter, the corners of the wall "whistled" and poured cold wind.
The parents' attitude towards life has not changed at all, every day after work, they will go into the leaky study to check the paper, the two of them wearing cotton clothes, stepping on the carbon stove, sitting opposite each other with a swaying oil lamp, the picture is deeply imprinted in Zhang Anzhong's mind.
Zhang Anzhong inherited her father's business at the age of 20 and entered Shanghai Medical University, while in terms of educating her children, she perfectly inherited her mother.
In 1961, Zhang Anzhong's daughter was born.
In Zhang Changshao's heart, the appearance of the daughter is the most beautiful appearance of the girl, and it is expected that the granddaughter can become the same person.
Therefore, he named his granddaughter "Chen Chong", which means "the second A Zhong (Zhang Anzhong's nickname)".
Zhang Anzhong does not teach the so-called rules of everyone's bridesmaid show, but lets her daughter play by herself, and occasionally encourages her daughter to read more books.
In her opinion, "It is much more important for a girl to read well than to marry well." ”
Once, Wu Zhilin, president of the Shanghai Newspaper Association, took Chen Chong to Beijing to participate in a program. When Chen Chong was sent home, the family did not surround the child to ask for warmth as he thought, but did their own thing.
He couldn't help but sigh: "This family, in the whole of Shanghai, is more special, from the old to the small, has an independent temperament." ”
Education is not to instill various precepts in children in order to expect them to achieve certain goals, but to internalize those things that they believe in into their own words and deeds, and imperceptibly infect children.
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Let the child choose his own life
It is the greatest fulfillment
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Parenthood is first of all to be yourself
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Write at the end
*Source: Web