Just saw an article: what is more terrible than the discord between the three views is the difference in cognition.
A few years ago (before room rates soared) chatted with an out-of-town neighbor at a smoking hotel.
Neighbors: In recent years, business has not been easy to do, there are many places that need to spend money, and I have a lot of headaches. Children need money to make up classes, pay pension insurance, want to buy a house, and want to buy a car.
Me: Then which is important to do first.
Neighbor: It's important to buy a car.
Me: Ahhh... Jaw dropped in shock
The topic did not continue. (Cognition is different)
Children's make-up school fees must be paid, pension insurance must also be paid, not to mention, for buying a house and buying a car, these two costs are small witches, negligible. Depending on which car or house was more important to him, he chose the car. For him, buying a car twice a year to return to his hometown can no longer use large bags to catch the train, you can also show the villagers that they have worked hard outside successfully, and their parents' faces have light.
However, that car is not a luxury car, it is more than 100,000, that is, a scooter. And the car is a consumable not to mention, you just put it there and don't open it every year will also depreciate significantly. Now this car is estimated to be worth tens of thousands of dollars. The house is different, the second-hand house price at that time was also five or six thousand, if the loan to buy a house at that time, now the house price has doubled, and in recent years, there is no need to pay rent to the landlord.
Another time I heard mother and daughter talking on the road.
What incident is not clear, only to hear the daughter say: it is the person who robbed people is not right, how can you blame the girl for coming out at night. What should be condemned is the person who snatched the money, how can he say that it is the girl's fault.
I also dropped my jaw in shock.
This girl is too ignorant of the sky's the limit. The person who does bad things is definitely not right, he will be punished by the law, but as a girl, you should not try to avoid going out alone at night, especially in more remote places. Although the security in our country is very good, there are always those outlaws waiting for opportunities to commit crimes, otherwise how can there be police, courts, and prisons. The mother never spoke, and I guess I was also shocked by my daughter's remarks and did not know how to respond.
Cognition is different this day is really no way to talk about it.
But for me, who also has a daughter, if I am the mother, I will definitely talk to my daughter on this topic seriously, and I must change this perception of my daughter, this kind of cognition is too terrible.