Idle on the weekend, watched a new movie recommended by a friend, the Oscar-winning short film "Neighbor's Window", and had some insights.
The short story tells the story of a middle-aged couple who take care of 3 children every day and the various tosses of chai rice oil and salt in their lives, and their lives are as bland and boring as boiled water. The two men fell into depression and complained to each other because of their lifeless lives. The middle-aged couple inadvertently saw a young couple living in the opposite building through the window, and they could clearly see the newlywed and happy life of the young couple. Compared with the bland life of middle-aged couples, the life of young couples is so passionate, and as soon as middle-aged couples have time, they will take a telescope to observe the enthusiastic interaction of young couples opposite as a daily pastime.
So many months passed, and one day the young couple on the other side began to become depressed, the young husband lay on the bed with bald hair, he seemed to have some serious illness, and eventually his condition deteriorated and died. When the man's body was pulled away, the middle-aged wife who saw all this through the telescope went downstairs in disbelief to verify. The young wife recognizes the middle-aged wife and tells her that she often peeks through the window to see the happy life of the middle-aged couple's family. During the period when her husband was seriously ill, every time he saw the plain and comfortable life of the middle-aged couple of 5 people, he was very envious. It turned out that the middle-aged couple observed the neighbors through the window, and the neighbors also observed themselves through the window. I envy the passion of others, and others are also envious of my own blandness.
"You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, the people who look at the scenery are looking at you, the bright moon decorates you, you decorate the dreams of others." After watching the movie, I have some experience, the life of young couples has the nostalgia of middle-aged couples for the past, and the life of middle-aged couples is the vision of young couples for the future. Life is always full of unsatisfactory things, and we are always attached to those lost and missed, but we turn a blind eye to the beauty around us. Life is a siege, we all envy each other, we want to escape the life may be the luxury of others, and we always use the habit of having, and we can not let go of the loss for a long time. In fact, happiness is more of a mentality, do not envy others, what we have is the best.
Whenever you rest alone at home, from time to time you will calm down and think about some questions, why some people will always smile at you, why do some people always look at you coldly, is it that you do the wrong thing, but why do you do the same thing to get different results, is it not that you do things in the wrong way? In fact, there is only one reason, what you do to others, what others do to you. Life is not easy, do not be angry with people for some annoying trifles, we still calm down to see the world, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day, do a simple, frank, sunny you, a little good for others is actually good for yourself, why not enjoy it!
If you are cold to people, others will also be indifferent to you; if you always put on a stinky face, others will not give you a good face. If you have no one in sight and are on top, then your friendship, affection, and love will no longer exist.
If you want to make a sincere friend, you must first be sincere with your friend, and then you will find that your friend will also be sincere to you; if you want to be happy, then bring happiness to others, and soon you will find yourself happier and happier.
When you bring joy to others, you will get joy; when you bring blessings to others, you will get blessings from others; when you often praise others, soon you will also hear someone praising you, if you want to be loved, you must first love people; you expect to be cared for, you must first care for others; if you want others to be good to you, you must first be good to others.
Even if life is full of unsatisfactory everywhere, we should not complain, because in our complaints, blindly amplifying shortcomings, turning a blind eye to the happiness in our hands, calculating, and throwing the happiness mentality farther and farther away.
Be tolerant and learn to be grateful. Thank others for their help, and try to repay the favors they have given; Many people think that the help and love of loved ones is taken for granted, or that gratitude to those close to them is difficult to express, but we need to understand that these people are more worthy of gratitude. When we were very young, we were naughty and ignorant, and it was my parents who worked tirelessly to raise us, so I want to thank my parents; when I was in school, it was the amiable teachers who selflessly instilled in us knowledge and spurred me to chase my dreams, so I want to thank my mentors; when I entered the society and started working, it was my colleagues who helped me grow and accompany me to continuously improve, so I want to thank my colleagues...
Be grateful for setbacks, because they make us learn to grow; Be grateful for the dangers and obstacles, because they make us learn to be unyielding; Be thankful for evil, because they make us yearn for truth, goodness, and beauty...
Everywhere in life you need a grateful heart, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish. Always be grateful and have no regrets in your life. Turning the calendar, the pages of a new life will become more brilliant because of our gratitude.
Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand.