When I was a child, I didn't understand why I wanted to study, I didn't understand the meaning of going to class every day, brushing up questions, and taking a good school, and I didn't understand what the teacher forced me to study, write homework, and take exams for.
Even if the teacher emphasizes bitterly and the parents try their best to persuade them, they still do not understand and cannot empathize.
Such a thing should be experienced by oneself to realize it.
We try to fight for an outcome, is it for that outcome, or for that process?
Many people say that the results are the most important. Who doesn't want to care what you went through in the process.
Exams, only care about how many points you score, interviews, only care about whether you have been admitted, reading, only care about whether you are admitted.
As for what you actually gave and what you went through, it doesn't matter.
But even without that result, we have really paid for it, we have gained, we are not nothing, those invisible efforts are invisibly turned into our treasures, only we can see it, feel it.
Others can easily negate your efforts, but you can't. You know, what your efforts have made you gain, made you different from before, different from others. Isn't the point of hard work to make yourself better?
Qualitative change caused by quantitative change is the most simple truth, your accumulated knowledge may not explode at the moment when you want to succeed, but it will definitely accumulate at a certain moment and amaze everyone.
You don't have to be in a hurry to deny yourself, you don't have to be discouraged because of a certain unsatisfactory time, you don't have to give up every subsequent time because you fail once.
Failure may be to see ourselves better, and through this mirror we can better adjust ourselves and start again.
We know that effort will one day succeed because it makes us better, and as long as we are better than our past selves, we are successful.