There is a difference between high and low character. Those who treat each other with sincerity are left and right; humble and low-key people, simple and noble.
People, victory in sincerity, nobility in tolerance, virtue in humility.
Only by retaining the good heart and keeping the bottom line of integrity can we blossom the most brilliant flower of life.
[01] There is no need for much hypocrisy and flattery
In the early years, there was an old artist with both virtue and art, although he had retreated behind the scenes for many years, but because of his high reputation, people who came to the door to seek cooperation were always endless.
Whoever comes to the door is humble and courteous, and receives guests with courtesy. However, the people who were eventually selected by him as the partners were very rare.
The reason is that most people don't have a good time talking, they just want to go through the back door, quietly stuff bank cards, bitter meat, play public welfare signs, and so on.
Those who get the opportunity to cooperate are dressed plainly and have empty sleeves.
Heine said: "Life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies. ”
People, precious in a sincere heart, do not deceive others, upright people, do their duty.
In life, the smarter people are, the more they will pay attention to integrity. Because they know that people are not sincere and do not stand, and karma is not sincere and unhappy. With good credit, there is a foundation for standing in the world.
Only by retaining the good heart and keeping the bottom line of integrity can we blossom the most brilliant flower of life.
Some people think that they are "smart" and "skilled", but they do not know that the cornerstone of people's interaction and cooperation lies in mutual trust.
Trust is like a mirror, once broken, no matter how difficult it is to repair, reputation will also be defeated.
Instead of thinking hard for the sake of temporary profits, it is better to live in the world with a sincere heart, be kind to people, work seriously, and accumulate a good reputation for yourself.
[02] True tolerance is to give people some decency
A friend working in a hotel once witnessed this scene:
Just after the hotel had finished its wedding feast, an old man dressed in shabby clothes walked in, took a plastic bag from his pants pocket, and poured the dish into it.
The hotel manager happened to be here to inspect and saw the old man in the corner. The waiter who was with him also saw it and wanted to drive the old man away, but the manager stopped him and waited with the waiter for the old man to leave on his own.
Later, the waiter asked the reason, and the manager said: "According to the hotel regulations, we can let her leave immediately, but if it is not the embarrassment of the family, how can someone secretly come to load the dishes at this time?" Definitely didn't want others to see it. Going in now will only embarrass her. ”
Tolerant people have a compassionate heart. They can tolerate the shortcomings and inadequacies of others, and they can also understand the difficulties and difficulties of others; they can share the sufferings of others and the joys of others.
The ancients said: Self-discipline should bring the autumn wind, and the affairs should bring the spring wind.
The higher the level of people, the more they know how to treat others from the heart, tolerate others, and get along with people feel like a spring breeze.
[03] Humility is the most moving gesture
The evaluation of a person cannot only be based on the rich and poor of his origin and the level of learning, but also on his true character.
Get along with humble people, like a spring breeze. Their simplicity makes people kind; their pattern makes people admire; their cultivation makes people admire.
Humility is the most moving gesture in the world.
Humble people live the most transparently. They hide their achievements in the ordinary, use modesty to cover up their sharp edges, keep a high purity in the turbidity of the world, they insist on a calm and calm interest, and face the unpredictable life with a peaceful and optimistic attitude.