Are you single?
Maybe this problem will hurt a lot of "single dogs" in front of the screen.
Recently, the 2018 Civil Affairs Development Statistical Bulletin shows that in 2018, China registered 10.139 million marriages according to law, with a marriage rate of 7.3%, a new low since 2008, and there are currently more than 200 million single adults in China, of which 77 million are adults living alone.
This big data looks like nothing, but the more people walking on the street are pulling more and more is a single shadow, not a double in and out, maybe this is a problem worth exploring, there will also be people who say "I am single by strength"
In fact, there are many reasons why everyone is single, but the most important thing is that the person who deserves to be loved does not appear
<h1>"Koyoshi, Koma, Sawako"</h1>
This is a Japanese movie released in 2013, with a Douban score of 7.8
The film tells the story of three good friends who have been dating for ten years, Yoshiko Morimoto (Yuki Shibasaki), Asako Okamura (Yoko Maki), and Kazuko Hayashi (Shinobu Terajima), who often go out for picnics and enjoy pure friendships and happy times, but have their own troubles in real life.
What all three people have in common is that they are older, single, and young women
<h1>Yoshiko Morimoto</h1>
Xiao Hao is a staff member of a small restaurant, likes to cook, usually cooks more by herself, has always insisted on taking the pastry chef as a profession, is a person with obsessive-compulsive disorder, so in the face of various small things in life, she will worry more than others, but she also does not want to bring trouble to others because of her habits, just like when queuing for coffee, Xiao Hao will warn herself in her heart that ordering things must be ordered at one time, do not cause trouble to the clerks and people behind them.
Colleagues in the store because the nails are too long to be criticized by the store manager, even if this matter has nothing to do with themselves, Xiao Hao also has to go forward to comfort the critics of the temporary worker sister, in fact, there are many such people in life, they always try not to trouble others, but also do not forget to use warmth to help the people around them.
There are only five people in the restaurant where Xiaohao works and temporary workers, and the three female clerks, including her, all have a good feeling for the male manager, but the male manager seems to prefer Xiaohao.
However, even if there is a good feeling, it is not enough to take the initiative, under the active pursuit of female colleagues, the male manager is taken away by others in this way, and the little good who has not been in love for five years still retains the shyness of the girl, but it is not the way to go on like this, and I do not know who can save this elderly young woman who is pure love.
<h1>Mako Okamura</h1>
She is a typical working woman, sales performance is the most important goal in her life, a grassroots small leader, 34-year-old Mako is also a small achievement, there is a detail at the beginning of the movie, Mazi quickly pressed the closing button after entering the elevator, even if she saw the person running over and pretended not to see it, she enjoyed the feeling of taking the elevator alone, in this private space, Mazi would murmur "I pretended not to notice again, forgive me"
I believe that many office workers have such a feeling, the time to commute, the time to eat, in the face of super crowded elevators, many people will be crazy, in the face of the elevator that will not come to the left and right, most people will not share the elevator with those who just happen to feel it, which is a kind of jealousy, jealousy of others' good luck of "coming early is not as good as coming by chance".
Xiao Ma's personality is destined to be emotionally unsatisfactory, more than 30 years old, single-mindedly devoted to her career, but in fact, she has a secret lover, that person is a husband with a wife, the two have always maintained a lover relationship, but the other party always has their own excuses to perfunctory Mazi. The pressures at work and the troubles of age make her anxious to know what the other person thinks.
But in the end, she still found someone to marry, like the years of compromise, to give herself to another life.
<h1>Sawako Hayashi</h1>
Kazuko is a freelancer, a well-deserved literary and artistic young woman, usually will design illustrations for the website, she lives with her grandmother and mother who are paralyzed in bed, usually such a life is difficult to meet the other half, after all, Kazuko's life trajectory in addition to the family is to have dinner with girlfriends.
However, when ordering takeout, she came into contact with the elementary school classmate who took over her father's restaurant, and the two planned to get married as soon as they came and went, but the man wanted her to go to the hospital to issue a fertility certificate, and Kazuko asked the other party to open a health certificate, so the only chance to marry herself was gone.
Back to the state of three women relying on each other, and worried that after she got married, the mother and grandmother who had no one to take care of her were also the reasons for confining her son, and the family brought invisible bondage to her in her youth.
<h1>Small fresh but not pretentious</h1>
The lens is almost completed in the way of narration, the state shown by these three old unmarried young women of different occupations is the most real, the stories of the three people are delicate and euphemistic, the clouds are light and the wind is light, the three good girlfriends are simple and real, such a movie always inadvertently gives the people who have seen it a sense of substitution, it accurately grasps the pressure and state of urban single women in the face of loneliness and marriageable age, inadvertently like a spiritual journey.
<h1>But those who choose to be single are not "poor."</h1>
In Japan, the average age of marriage is as high as 29, and thirty percent of women are not married by the age of 30, while eighteen percent remain single by the age of 39, and the other fifteen percent are permanently single.
The 2019 "Single Economy Special Topic Analysis Report" shows
Young people living alone are not bad for money, and the proportion of single men and women with a monthly income of more than 6,000 yuan is 68% and 54% respectively.
Nearly a hundred years ago, the British writer Virginia Woolf wrote in "A Room of Her Own" that "if a woman wants to write a novel, she must have money and add a room of her own."
Today, owning your own house is not new to single women.
This society has long distinguished "single" and "lonely", single men and women not only do not drag down the society, but also bring more vitality and motivation to the economy, can call takeout and never cook, a person's entertainment can watch movies, sing K, raise pets than talk about love and save trouble... Now this society has entered a "single society"
Therefore, you who are single can also live your own wonderful
<h1>Being single is not an excuse</h1>
Of course, single, living alone does not mean refusing to communicate, closed to the self, now this society is closely connected between people, in order to let people living alone better understand themselves, it is precisely because of the current single, a person can better understand the importance of personality independence, more cherish the company of future partners!
Whether you want to feel lonely, does not depend on whether you are single, filling yourself from the heart is the best way, one person has a way to be happy, two people together also have two people happy way, no matter what stage, I hope that everyone can feel life well, feel fun.
People in their thirties have filtered out most of the passions of youth
No matter what kind of woman you were before, please be sure to be a happy woman in the future!
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