One day, I happened to meet a classmate from a teacher training time on the street. At that time, she was a big beauty in my eyes, watery and smart. But twenty years later, I was on the street, and if she hadn't stopped me, I wouldn't have recognized her. She wore a faded red cotton jacket, a long gray scarf woven with wool, her hair was messy and pale, and she was a middle-aged figure.
After a few small talks, I learned that she was almost alone, taking care of her sick grandmother for many years until her death. Grandma was seriously ill and paralyzed in bed, and all the daily care was done by her alone. I can't help but admire her perseverance and persistence.
When people reach middle age, they find that there are many similarities between old and small. For example, at the youngest age and the oldest time, it is necessary for relatives to take care of food and living. If the baby's three meals and bowel movements can be taken care of properly, it has been successful for the most part. When the old man gets to the bedroom, he is the same as a baby, relying on people to take care of everything, and there are thoughts, there will be such and such requirements, and it is not easy to take care of than children.
There was a friend whose daughter was admitted to Yale University in the United States, and then stayed in the United States to find a husband who also studied in the United States to stay in the United States forever. When I expressed my envy, this friend said with a solemn face, don't envy me, oh, it is better for the children to stay by my side. My daughter is contributing to society. She was worried about the desolation of being childless in her old age.
Once, in the hospital, a seriously ill elderly man was pointed at the nose by an adult female nurse who scolded a dog blood sprinkler. Why? Because the old man was incontinent, the nurse changed his clean clothes for him, and he lost urine again. The old man curled up on the bed, listening to the nurse's accusations with a sneering expression. Because his son is in the United States, and his family is in the United States, he is sick, he can only ask the nurse to take care of him, the money is not worried, the son is a high income, and he sends a lot of money to see his father. It was then that I understood how important the company and care of my loved ones were.
Growing up with a baby requires a lot of time and energy, and Erbao's colleagues have calculated that it will take at least five years to be relaxed. Caring for an old man to go up the mountain is even more of an unpredictable task. Stepping into it is considered to be middle-aged. Both the small and the old must explore the rules in the care and find the best way. Do your part to help them through a joyful childhood and old age.