In any relationship, using emotional kidnapping as a chip is an unhealthy relationship! !️
Beware of this formula: ⚠️ "Criticism + Suggestion + Self-Promotion"
#情感绑架 there are also relatives| friends| colleagues who use the above formula to chat with you... Yes ❓
⚠️ Especially newcomers in the workplace, often denied, belittled ❗️❗️, and even feel guilty, self-blamed, uncomfortable for their own behavior, willing to listen to various unreasonable instructions, maybe you have been PUA #pua
"Your performance is not optimistic"
"You should try more other work to discover your strengths"
"Listen to me so you won't be unemployed"
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#不健全的关系 In any relationship, when you feel uncomfortable, there must be a rift. This sentence applies to all relationships!
There are long-term and comfortable relationships between people, relying on commonality and attraction, not on