Author: Ge Jian
(1) Why doesn't Tanchun remember Daiyu's birthday?
The relationship between Tanchun and Daiyu, many readers think that it is general, a book to find, the two did not see any private exchanges, public gatherings do not show affection, the most obvious example is that Tanchun in the details of the birthday of the people, even can not remember that Daiyu's birthday is February.
At this time, Daiyu had lived in Jia Province for seven or eight years, and when Jia Lian and Sister Feng were discussing the birthday feast of Baochao and Zhenzhi, they had proposed to refer to Daiyu's standards, which showed that the Jia family had given Daiyu a birthday, although there was no great fanfare, but it was more solemn than a few girls in their own family, and Tanchun's birthday was roughly like this:
Change dresses and go everywhere to perform rituals, entertain relatives and filial piety in front of grandmothers and mothers, and the family has birthday ceremonies, and does not put on wine and singing.
As a male, Baoyu should be more solemn: worship the ancestors of heaven and earth, worship Jia Mu, Jia Zheng, Madame Wang, etc., and all those who are older than him must perform rituals.
Dai Yu's birthday, roughly also to the elders and peers than her older room to perform the ceremony, Tan Chun's age is slightly less than Dai Yu, Dai Yu does not have to go to see Tan Chun when she celebrates her birthday, and the Jia family later weakened The treatment of Dai Yu's birthday, after all, this day is the day of the mother's difficulty, so that Dai Yu is touched by the scene, Jia Mu can't bear it.
These are the reasons why Tanchun is not deeply impressed by Daiyu's birthday.
There is also a reason that Dai Yu is exploring the bottom of Chun's heart and is a person who does not have to be deliberately maintained.
The birthdays of several people that Tanchun remembered were Zhaoji Taizu of rongguofu, Jia Mu, who was of high status, Yuan Chun, the maintainer of the current scenery, Jia Lian, who took care of household chores, and Lady Wang, who was actually in power, and her relative Xue Baochao.
Almost all of them are key figures related to the fate of the Jia family.
Tanchun is one of the few people in the Jia family's exquisite hedonistic and exquisite and depraved atmosphere with a sense of crisis and a sense of distress. She wants to innovate and eliminate shortcomings and revitalize her family's voice, but she is helplessly a marginal person who does not control resources, so the first task of Tanchun's life is to actively approach the core figures of the family and gain the affirmation and support of the leadership. Remembering the birthdays of the core characters and winning favors for yourself is one of the methods used by Tanchun.
As for Daiyu, she is the most harmless person in Tanchun's heart, and she does not need to worry about making a stumbling block, and it is natural to ignore it. Just like a warrior charging forward, he will not care about the back of his body, because he knows that behind him is the robe.
(2) Exploring spring in Daiyu's eyes: I see how feminine Qingshan is
The first time Dai Yu saw Tanchun, she sensed the excellence of Tanchun:
...... I saw three grandmothers and five or six squirrels, surrounded by three sisters. The first skin is slightly plump, the body is in shape, the cheeks are condensed, the nose is greasy, the gentle silence is pleasant. The second shoulder is thin waist, long figure, duck egg face, handsome eyes and eyebrows, Gu Pan Shenfei, literary essence, see the vulgar. The third body is not enough, described as small.
Ying and Xi Erchun showed in front of Daiyu's eyes was a general body shape and appearance, but Tanchun was straight to the soul of "Gu Pan Shen Fei, the essence of literary brilliance, and the oblivion of seeing". In the years since then, Dai Yu has more contacts and visits to Tanchun.
In the Jia family, Dai Yu is a hermit and a bystander. Being in it and staying out of the matter gave her time and distance to observe and think about the current situation and the way forward for the Jia family. The inaction and success of the management, the personal interests and people of the next person, and the continuous inverted funnel state of income and expenditure all make Dai Yu realize that the Jia family is in the middle of a landslide, and someone must come out to cook in time before the process of collapse may be delayed.
Exploring the Chun Li family, Dai Yu is in favor, appreciative and supportive.
One of them is strong and rational, the other is weak and emotional, but the two also have a big picture view, a forward-looking consciousness, the same selflessness and breadth of the heart, and are willing to make sacrifices for the future of the family.
Undoubtedly, if the Lin family's housework in Yangzhou is wasted and full of drawbacks, Dai Yu will definitely stand up like Tanchun and try to turn the tide.
Tanchun and Baochao have some small fun in discussing eating an oil and salt fried goji berry buds, but her peers can only be Daiyu, and only Daiyu and Tanchun are highly consistent in cognition, philosophy, feelings, and discipline.
Dai Yu looks at Tan Chun because I see how feminine Qingshan is, and Tan Chun is the same as Dai Yu in fighting for her own right to speak, maintaining her dignity before evil slaves, and being cautious when being authorized to exercise management duties. Exploring spring is like spring breeze green trees, Daiyu is like a beautiful day and flowers, the ecological niches are different, but they are all outstanding seedlings in the Grand View Garden, how can you not feel sorry for it?
(3) Concubine Xiaoxiang is Tanchun's highest praise for Daiyu
How does Tanchun view Daiyu?
When the poetry society was founded, Tanchun gave Daiyu a number: Xiaoxiang Concubine.
This is one of the highest praises for Daiyu.
Who is Concubine Xiaoxiang? Yao's daughter, Shun's wife, the water god in literary hymns and traditional values, the embodiment of nobility, fidelity, purity, and affection.
Compared with this title, birthdays are not worth mentioning.
Daiyu, who lives in poetry, and Tanchun, who lives in the world, have a consistent value system and spiritual coordinates.
Tanchun is a man who admires loyalty.
Qin Keqing's bedroom is a lazy and feminine, lustful "Begonia Spring Sleep Map".
In Tanchun's bedroom is the works of Yan Lugong, who is praised for his "outstanding public loyalty" and "firm and honest one-minded".
Everyone's living environment is a projection of her inner interests, so Xiaoxiangguan has many bamboo, Qiu Shuangzhai zhitong, and Xue Baochao's wuyuan are all vines that climb up and rely on mountain stones.
Understanding this, you will understand how beautiful and respectable Dai Yu is in Tanchun's mind.
Concubine Xiao Xiang, but not because on the surface can say that Xiao Xiang Hall and love to cry can be visited by The Spring Eye.
In the Grand View Garden, Tanchun's residence and Daiyu's recent, do you know that it is not a deliberate choice of Tanchun?
Tang Chun, who was entangled in household chores, Tan Chun, who was balanced by the mediocre master mother, and Tan Chun, who was implicated by the evil birth mother, finally left herself a pure land of poetry in her heart: she initiated the organization of the poetry club in the Grand View Garden, and she gave the most beautiful title to the poetry god in her heart.
The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water. The one who was deliberate and prepared the Persian state plaything instrument and the like early on to please the birthday star was the eight-faced exquisite person like Wang Xifeng, and there was no need between Dai Yu and Tan Chun.
Jun did not see Lin Daiyu rebuilding the Peach Blossom Society in March, she said, forgetting that these two days were her (Tanchun)'s birthday. I don't even pretend to remember.
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