Little Pan Emotional Beauty Series
Xiao Pan talks about love and signs the author original
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Love many people have experienced, but the feelings are different, some people feel that although the other party is with themselves, but the whole heart is not in their own place, in fact, it shows that the other party is not really moved.
Especially women, many men feel that it is not easy for women to guess women's minds, and it is even more worrying for men to determine whether women are really moved.
In fact, a woman's heart can be seen through many details, and she will become less concerned about physical needs and more concerned about several feelings.
Some men believe that if they want to grasp a woman's heart and make a woman move her heart, you can close the distance with women by having intimate contact with women, such as hugging, kissing, and getting closer to women.
If you really understand the woman's book, men will know that in fact, compared to those superficial formal relationships, in fact, what women really want is spiritual communication and fit, and only by generating emotional resonance will women really be moved.
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Want a greater sense of security
What do women care about most? Maybe some men feel that it is the appearance of men, whether men are willing to spend money on her, in fact, women are more concerned about whether men can give her enough security.
If a man is handsome and rich, but if he is very abusive and gentle and caring to anyone, women will have no sense of security, will feel that they have not received the sincerity and preference of men, and naturally will not be moved by such men.
On the other hand, if a woman starts to ask more of men and wants to find a more secure sense of security from men, it means that she is beginning to be moved by this man.
Because of the heart, the possessiveness of men began to grow stronger, and they also wanted to get the favor of men more.
Xiaomeng is a very independent girl, before knowing Li Qiang, she never cared about other people's opinions, even if she had a boyfriend, but her attitude towards men was always lukewarm.
Men have heard that women want to be valued by men and hope to have a sense of security, so no matter where they go, they will report to Xiaomeng, hoping that Xiaomeng will not think wildly.
However, Xiao Meng did not care about these things, and even sometimes when men took the initiative to tell her who was with her when she went out to eat, Xiao Meng directly interrupted and changed the topic.
After a long time, the man felt that Xiaomeng was not concerned about himself, and he gave up the relationship.
However, after knowing Li Qiang, Xiao Meng changed, she cares about all things about Li Qiang, and she will also be jealous when Li Qiang has frequent contacts with other members of the opposite sex.
Once the two people quarreled because of a little misunderstanding, XiaoMeng cried bitterly that he was insecure in this relationship, so he would be jealous of Li Qiang's dealings with other women.
Li Qiangqi smiled, but he also knew from now on that Xiao Meng really loved him and was sincerely moved by him, so he would be insecure, because he cared.
If a woman does not care about this man at all, there is no wave in her heart, she does not care about the man's words and deeds, and she will not ask for the so-called security from the man.
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I would rather see the sense of ritual created by men
Some people will feel that the sense of ceremony is general, there is no practical significance, in real life, pragmatic is more important, compared to those who only want to flower romance, it is better to make a meal at home and eat more steadily.
But men should understand that when a woman begins to crave more to see the sense of ritual you have created for her, when you give her romance, she will be particularly happy, it means that she has moved her heart for you, and must grasp it, rather than feeling that she is making unnecessary demands.
For women, in fact, the sense of ceremony is a lot of definitions, some women feel that the sense of ceremony needs gifts, needs flowers, and even no matter what the festival, the sense of ceremony must prove men's love for themselves, otherwise men just don't love themselves.
But some women feel that the sense of ceremony can be big or small, it can be a hug before separation, a greeting when she is not around, it can be a sugar fried chestnut that she loves to eat, or it can be a bottle of yogurt that a man saves for her.
The sense of ceremony that can really touch a woman's heart is the man's sincerity, the man's concern for the woman, and the heartfelt payment is what the woman really wants.
When not in love, a woman's heart can also be cold, do not care about anything, even if the man forgets her birthday, forgets the anniversary between the two people, she will not care, because her heart is not loaded with men.
But after the woman moves her heart, it is different, she carefully manages the feelings that belong to two people, and when she sees a man paying for himself with his heart, he will be happy and moved from the bottom of his heart.
So, men have to understand that when a woman begins to crave the sense of ritual and romance you create for her, it means that she has treated you as a lover in the true sense of the word.
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Longing for a soul-to-soul fit
Soul mate is regarded by many people as the highest state in love, if you can find a soul mate, it is the happiest thing.
However, in real life, there are many people who are poor and have not been able to achieve their wishes in their lives, and finally can only live with their partners, in such a marriage, if it is bland, it is fine, but most of them still look at each other for a long time.
Of course, most women who manage love and marriage to such a point also do not have much hope for each other, because she does not care whether men have the same three views as themselves and whether they can talk to themselves.
But women are different when they are moved, after they are moved, women are running for a lifetime, they are eager to have endless topics with each other in the long life, have common three views, and have a similar attitude towards the world.
You know, if you can get such a person who fits your soul, the happiness index of women in love will be much higher.
When encountering differences, two people will quickly communicate well, rather than blaming each other, shirking responsibility, and not talking to each other.
Even if you are questioned by many people, but that person must understand and support yourself, you will have a sense of peace of mind.
Such a beautiful feeling is what a woman is very eager for after moving her heart, moving her heart, and she hopes to go further with this man, then the soul fit is what women care more about, after all, if it is not the same channel of people, then women will not use so much thought.
Truly lasting love requires two people to manage with their hearts, rather than relying solely on one person's efforts, which will only make love meaningless.
Therefore, men must be able to read the real needs of women in their emotions, so that they can do more with less when they pay.
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