Hello everyone, when surfing the Internet two days ago, I found a word called "easy to get down the head physique", probably to say that there is a type of person who is easy to get on the head and easy to get down, and a little thing will change their minds. After watching it, I was shot.
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As a person who is very picky about the opposite sex, sometimes even I feel that "I am so harsh".
For example, if I look good, I'll change my hairstyle because a person's hands aren't slender enough, or spray perfume I don't like and wear shoes that I think are ugly.
When looking at each other's personalities, I am also very double-standard. I like boys to take the initiative but not too active, too much talk I will lose interest for a second, less words and I think this person will not chat. (Don't scold me, I know it's bad, but I can't control it)
Others pick objects to see the appearance of personality, others can follow up with the run-in. I had to make everything just right, or I wouldn't get to the point where we were going to be together.
Some details are not shortcomings in the eyes of other girls, and they are fatal injuries in the eyes of those of us who are prone to the constitution of the head.
Talking to the sisters around them who are also easy to get down talked about the scene of suddenly losing interest in men is also varied, which is really hilarious.
Some people because the other party when dating stretched a lazy waist, saw the other party exposed the body hair on the small belly suddenly felt so disgusting, originally agreed to finish eating to watch a movie, but half of the eating found an excuse to flee in a hurry.
Some people talk to the handsome guy Date, because the handsome guy laughs too low, I don't know why I don't feel handsome in an instant, and I don't like it.
There are even people who have always liked each other when chatting online, and when they meet, they meet their expectations, and when they get home and then open the dialog box, they suddenly don't feel it, for no reason, but they just can't like it.
People who are easy to get off the head physique are really desperate, one second still like it, and the next second a unsatisfactory one is eager to immediately block and delete, without any hesitation.
Some time ago, I read a book about dopamine recommended by Spicy spicy and found that some people's easy-to-head physique is actually innate.
The book says that there is a kind of high dopamine that is engraved in the genes, this kind of person will be extremely creative, the personality will be particularly sentimental, like the new and tired of the old, and it will be difficult to deal with interpersonal relationships.
Put into love, it is easy to get up and down. Because dopamine drives people to want more, people with high dopamine will not be able to control themselves to pursue new stimuli and will also feel disgusted with what is known.
In addition to the innate high dopamine, there are also some people's easy-to-head physique, which is the "love perfectionism" caused by the acquired environment.
Some people are very picky about finding objects, but also because they have really been loved. For example, I have a good partner and a father who can be called a male role model.
In addition, people who are very demanding of themselves will also want their partners to be perfect.
In general, the easy thing to get down is actually quite inexplicable.
From the perspective of others, you may think that you are too picky to be single, but from our point of view, feelings are uncontrollable, the next head is the next head, always can not lie to yourself or like each other.
People who are "prone to head physique" seem to have difficulty maintaining ambiguous and intimate relationships.
But what I've learned recently is to take a long-term view, as if I've seen a phrase that is probably "a man is the sum of all his actions."
The top and bottom are too instantaneous, and if you want to have a long-term relationship, you must learn to combine all his good and bad and then judge.
Even the best person will have a time to let you down, but that doesn't mean that he is still a person worthy of your liking as a whole. As long as one person can make you agree with this, you can get along.
It is impossible for a person to behave perfectly all the time, but love may be to recognize his shortcomings, but still can't help but like other parts of him.
In fact, if you talk about it for a few more paragraphs, you will find that no matter how good people look on the surface, there will be some parts that make you go down.
It's good that one person can keep you on top > below as a whole. Unfortunately, intimacy is probably such an existence that cannot be perfect.
If you are bent on finding someone who is not flawed, I am afraid that it only exists in fantasy.
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