Happiness is to choose a good attitude when encountering things, and to discover the joys of life with a positive and optimistic attitude, rather than measuring the land of life with pessimistic eyes.
A young woman went home and confided in her mother that the marriage was very bad, that her husband did not have a lot of money or a good career, and that life was always cyclical and boring. The mother smiled and asked, "How much time have you spent together?" The daughter said, "Too much." The mother said: "When your father went to the battlefield, what I hoped for every day was that he would be able to triumph from the battlefield as soon as possible and fight with him all day, but unfortunately, he died in a battle and never came back. The old tears of the mother's vicissitudes fell one by one, and gradually, the daughter seemed to understand something.
A group of young men talked about their wives at the dinner table, saying that they were always too strictly disciplined and almost lost their freedom, and while talking, they were the awe-inspiring righteousness of their husbands, and threatened to fight with their wives to the end when they returned home. An old man at the next table listened silently, stood up to toast them, and asked, "Are your ladies all human beings?" The young men nodded. The old man sighed and said, "My lover was too dead for me at that time, I was indignantly divorced, and then she was depressed, if there is a chance, I hope to apologize to her in person, ask her to watch over me all the time, young man, cherish the fate!" The young men looked at the gloomy old man, silent, as if they had realized something.
Where is happiness? With such a question, all sentient beings, vast seas of people, we are trying to find answers. In fact, happiness is a diversified proposition, we are pursuing happiness, happiness is always with us. However, many times, we are in the mountains of happiness, and what we see from the perspective of near and far is always the happiness scenery of others, but we often do not carefully feel the happy world we have.