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In order to attract the attention of men, many women are showing their charm with great fanfare, afraid that they will lose their sense of existence as soon as they calm down.
But if you think about it, is the sense of existence really brushed out in a big show?
One cannot just find the value of one's own existence in the midst of noise, but should calm down and think about the meaning of one's existence. Being quiet is the most courageous and enviable state of life.
As it is said in the book "There is a beautiful flower, to the late incense": "Sometimes, the power of quiet is far greater than the noise." ”
Although the world is noisy, people should be quiet. Only by finding inner peace in silence can we release our inner charm.
It is not only a woman who is moving like a rabbit to attract the attention of others, in fact, a woman who is still in the water can also attract countless admiring eyes. If you have to choose one or the other, a quiet woman is better.
Canoe once said, "I think a quiet gesture is the most beautiful." ”
A quiet woman, like a lotus flower blooming quietly in a lotus pond, never competes with anyone, but always attracts everyone to stop.
A quiet woman, so quietly releasing her beauty, even if she is motionless, it is still fascinating.
The attraction that comes with quietness is something that no one can ignore, and it turns out that quiet women of the opposite sex are even more fascinating.
Quiet woman steady and not impetuous
Bai Luomei wrote in "All Encounters in the World Are Reunions after a Long Absence":
"Life must be able to withstand loneliness, there is always too much prosperity in the world, stirring up our already peaceful state of mind." If you are impetuous or tired, there will be a quiet teahouse that will take you and me in. ”
Only a quiet atmosphere can create a quiet heart; only a quiet life can sweep away the impetuousness of the heart. Quiet women are often quiet and stable without impetuousness.
Women's hearts are too impetuous, will give birth to a lot of incidents and troubles, no man is willing to spend the rest of his life hand in hand with a woman who has too much trouble, women can only wash away impetuousness in silence, in order to become a man's favorite.
Quiet brings women not only inner peace, but also peace of life. Living in peace and tranquility, women will be more stable and charming.
Inner impetuosity will cover up a woman's beauty; and inner peace will add to a woman's charm. Be a steady and not impetuous woman, so that you can attract the attention of men more.
Quiet women are low-key and unobtrusive
We all know that we have to be low-key, but what does low-key look like?
Someone once said: "In a sense, keeping silent is indeed a low-key virtue." ”
It can be seen that low-key and quiet are equivalent to some extent, and quiet women are often low-key and unobtrusive.
Women are too publicity, although they can meet a lot of people and let themselves get a lot of attention, but they can't increase their charm. If you go too far, you will be hated.
Quiet women are just the opposite, quiet, although not to bring too much attention to women, but give women more time to explore their own charm. The charm that stands out from the silence is often the most charming.
Quiet women are low-key and unassuming, even if they learn to be rich and have a lot of money, they never show off in front of others. Quiet women are not frivolous, and even if there are countless people who praise themselves, they are not arrogant.
Because of this, quiet women have become the white moonlight in men's hearts, and men prefer quiet women when choosing a life partner.
Quiet women are not superficial
A good-looking vase can never be compared to other vessels with rich connotations, and so are people, and superficial women can never be compared to women with cultivation.
A woman's cultivation does not need to be publicized, just sit quietly on the side, you can let people find her beauty. The woman's nurturing is hidden in her quietness, and the quieter the woman, the more nurturing and charming.
Many women use the flashiness of appearance to cover up their inner emptiness, thinking that by publicizing their own goodness, they can completely change other people's views on themselves.
A truly nurturing woman doesn't need to go around promoting herself. A truly nurturing woman, even if she just stays quietly, can win everyone's applause.
Quiet women are mostly cultivated and not superficial, this kind of woman has always paid attention to inner cultivation, so she has let herself be favored by many men.
Xiaojing emotional message:
I remember that Zhou Guoping wrote such a sentence in "The Distance of Watching":
I only wish to maintain the true color of a life, a purity that can quietly listen to other lives, and make other beings willing to listen quietly, and the happiness in this is far from being comparable to the name of flashy merit.
The beauty that does not exist in the world is perceived in silence and listened to in silence. Compared with the flashy name, being quiet is the wisest way to live.
If you also want to be the focus of the crowd, you may wish to quiet yourself, talk to your heart in silence, and find inner charm in silence.
One day you will find that a quiet lifestyle always makes countless people yearn for, and a quiet woman always makes countless people like. With the opposite sex, quiet women are often the most fascinating.