We were married on June 18, 2019. After getting married, we lived separately from our parents, and in addition to work, the two of us ate, drank, and slept at home every Sunday. Winter and summer vacation is to go out to travel, no matter where to travel and play there is also to find food everywhere, two bites of that is really worthy of the name of food. I had to weigh less than half a year from 160 directly soared from 160 to 188, my daughter-in-law needless to say, every day carefree and happy like a child, the meat whirring I think the thief is cute.
During the winter vacation of 2020, I accompanied my daughter-in-law back to my mother's house for a few days. Because every time she came to menstruation I remembered, that time was postponed for two or three days, at that time, in fact, we were both very excited, guessing that it was possible to get pregnant, we went out together and spent fifty cents to buy test paper, and came back to test it vaguely as if it was, because it was only postponed for two or three days, and it was not too obvious. Oops, this made me very excited, and she was actually very happy, pretending to be calm, and told me not to be happy too soon.
My mother-in-law's family stayed for three or five days, and on January 20th, we left for home, and the first thing I did when I got home was to buy a pregnancy test stick for five dollars. We were all excited because we were mom and dad.
January 25 is the Chinese New Year's Eve. Parents are very happy every day, laughing and closing their mouths, doing what work is particularly energetic, what work is not allowed to do the second daughter-in-law, the sister-in-law is the person who came over, he contracted all the work of cleaning the house, Chinese New Year's Eve meal is also the sister-in-law and mother are busy.
On February 9, 2020, we went home, at this time the daughter-in-law began to have morning sickness, not too bad, but saw some meals do not want to eat, every day is particularly tired feeling, not spirit, I see some heartache, the idea of trying to do something she wants to eat. Chicken cutlets, chutney, etc. Because it is the new crown epidemic that does not cause trouble to the country, it is difficult to buy without going out.
By February 21, the daughter-in-law's morning sickness was very severe, every morning when she got up, she must vomit, there was nothing in her stomach, she spit out that bile was yellow, and she was particularly bitter, and after vomiting, she sweated, and her soft body was weak. I was really sad to be by my side, and there was no way to do it. After vomiting, I have to cook quickly, otherwise I am prone to hypoglycemia. My daughter-in-law belongs to the kind of person who has particularly severe morning sickness, and she has morning sickness on time all day, which is really vomiting enough to make you doubt your life. Sometimes she would sit on the floor with the toilet and vomit, and she could sit for an hour or two. By March 3rd, my daughter-in-law really had no spirit, couldn't eat anything, and vomited after eating, so I gave some milk every day, and then ate some dry steamed buns, and then ate slowly. Mom is not easy, this is just the beginning,
On March 10th, when I took her out for a walk, I finally bought some of the things I liked to eat, and when I came home, I was happy to think like a child, and I was afraid that I would share food with her. But in the end, I ate it, because morning sickness made her prohibitive from eating anything delicious. During this time, my daughter-in-law was really hard and hard, and I was really distressed, but in the end I seemed to get used to this [teeth] [teeth] unconsciously The days after that also survived.
After surviving morning sickness, we all started working, because we worked together, so every day I could still take care of my daughter-in-law and children, go to the school playground together after work, go to the park, and feel good every day. However, when the month is older, although there is no morning sickness, it is even more dare not eat casually on eating, because it will affect the growth and development of the fetus.
Every cycle to regular checks, fetal heart monitoring, to see if the fetal position is right or not, I am honored and proud that I did not fall once, every time I went with my daughter-in-law, I was particularly nervous, and I was very happy after the examination. Here I also want to tell the soon-to-be fathers that I try to accompany my wife every time I check, because they really need their husbands to be around. Many people and squeezed a stomach, inconvenient not to say that upstairs and downstairs channeling, registration ~ pay money ~ find a doctor ~ do an examination ~ wait for the end ~ and then go to the doctor to see the results, from time to time hungry and thirsty also need to be taken care of.
June 18th is the birthday of our daughter-in-law, we all planned it, because morning sickness is basically gone, so we have to eat something good together. During that time, my daughter-in-law always wanted to eat spicy, so I took her to a Sichuan restaurant, and the two of them stupidly ordered a table of dishes, a table of red Ah really, after eating there was a small episode in the evening. Because of the spicy food, it was originally uncomfortable stomach and stomach discomfort, the two people were scared tossed to the second half of the night, things were ready, thought they were going to be born, ready to go to the battlefield. Still not at ease to call my second sister, explain the specific situation was criticized by the family, nothing happened, and finally went to sleep with the heart hanging on.
I feel that time passes very slowly, but in the blink of an eye, it is almost the due date, and we still keep looking for something to do in those days, taking a few pregnant women's photos of our daughter-in-law at home, which is still quite meaningful. Every few days, see what else is not ready, such as a mattress pad, a maternity sanitary napkin, disposable panties, toilet paper straw cups, fetal heartbeat monitoring tape, a blanket after the baby is born, and so on. You have to be prepared for that. Otherwise, it will be a mess. There are also some things that the hospital will also give, and I will not say what is specific.
My baby was born on September 14, two days earlier than the due date, because my baby was in the hip position, so it was a maternity. I remember that morning, the doctor called me into the office and filled in a lot of my names, this book and that paper, I was the most nervous and scared time in my life. I suddenly felt that I had a daughter-in-law, how difficult it was for that little girl, how much pain she had to endure, and it was really difficult to be a mother. Coming out of the office just happened to see her with a urinary catheter and her mother standing in the hallway, the moment I saw it, my eyes were red, I almost cried out, and the stupid daughter-in-law kept asking me what was wrong with your eyes? The nurse said he was much more nervous than you.