Every woman wants to marry a man who pampers herself, and for this, she is willing to give everything and change to someone who truly loves herself.
But love is always encounterable and unattainable, and even if it is asked, women can never judge whether this person really loves her.
In fact, whether he loves you or not is never a lip service, but a performance in actual action, especially in the process of chatting, you can judge one or two.
If he really loves you, he will worry about your feelings when chatting, and will not always grab words by himself, let alone only talk about the content he is interested in.
If he only cares about himself and does not care about your thoughts, then you don't think that his character is like this, but it is likely that he does not love you, and he will feel indifferent.
Love will make people be careful, it is because of the fear of loss, I want to pay attention to every detail, so as not to let you have any misunderstanding.
So, you have to understand that men love you or not, "chat" together a few times, you will understand!
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When chatting, only talk about what he likes
Most people are very expressive, when chatting, but also only think about themselves, talk about the topic of interest to themselves, if it is a general friend, may not care too much, but if it is a lover, somewhat unhappy.
Think about it, if in the scene where you are chatting, he is the only one who talks endlessly, chatting about the topics he likes, and you don't understand anything, or are not interested in these things, and can only foolishly accompany him to have fun, such a situation is also very embarrassing.
And as long as it is a person who truly loves you, it will not let you fall into this embarrassing situation, at least he will think about you and will also worry about your feelings.
If he wants to talk about a topic he likes, he can find friends of the same frequency, instead of pulling his girlfriend to chat non-stop, and it doesn't matter whether she likes it or not, whether she wants to listen or not.
A person who only thinks about himself is definitely selfish, he has never cared only about his own mood, as for what the other party is, it is not his scope of consideration, how can such a person really love you?
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When chatting, always grab something to say
There are also some men, in order to show their erudition, always preemptively say everything he knows before you finish speaking, but after you finish speaking, you find that what you want to talk about is not this topic.
Even so, he will still keep talking, always feeling that this can highlight him, make him feel superior, and if you don't let him, he will turn his face with you.
Such men are usually arrogant, but also inferior, it is precisely because of inferiority, will repeatedly prove themselves in this way, and the really confident person, do not need to prove by grabbing words, usually he casually says a word, can make others convinced.
When he often does this to you, you should also understand that he does not love you so much, he thinks more about himself, and you are just dispensable.
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Very rude when chatting
If a person loves you very much, he must be attentive and patient in the process of chatting, he will find it difficult to chat with you, and he wants such a quiet time.
In this process, he will definitely put down the mobile phone, chat with you wholeheartedly, and the two people will feel very happy when they talk about a topic that resonates.
He never felt that such a time was boring or meaningless, but would treat chatting with you as an important thing.
The person who does not love you, in the process of chatting, always holds the mobile phone, is busy playing games for a while, and is busy chatting with people for a while, which is a manifestation of disrespect for people.
When he has this kind of performance, it can only show that he does not love you, and he will feel that you are not as important as the game, you are not as important as others, then he will naturally not chat with you well.
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Conclusion
Feelings are hidden in every detail, chat is also one of them, the man who loves you, will treat every chat with you well, he will feel that this is very important, people who do not love you, will only feel that it does not matter whether to talk or not, anyway, every day to meet.
Want to know if he loves you or not, just look at how he treats him in the process of chatting, don't think that chatting is a small thing, can not explain what the problem, but it is precisely these small things that reflect a person's importance to you.
If he can even do a good job in the small matter of chatting, he is willing to take it seriously, then presumably other things will not be done too badly, such a man, it is worth cherishing!