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Today is the 2815th day of intensive reading to accompany you throughout your life
Pak Fu Mei Ge Ge lived in the rich area.
She is a psychologist who has helped many people out of the predicament of marriage.
Successful career, happy family, and a hugely rich father.
The husband was a well-known pediatric oncologist, a gentleman and respected.
The husband is also a conscientious father who cares about his son.
When the son said that the violin teacher felt that he was not talented, he would seriously encourage him.
The phone wallpapers are all photos of my son.
He is also a thoughtful husband, who has been married for many years and confesses to his wife every day, seizing the opportunity to give fancy praise.
The sons of the two are also particularly excellent. Enrolled in an elite school of the nobility, he began practicing the violin at an early age.
Such a family is comparable to a Versailles template.
Until one day, sexy Nana came into her life.
Gege found that his life of being envied by others was actually his own fantasy.
The husband had already come together with Nana and had a daughter.
His perfect husband was unemployed and used her name to cheat her dad out of a fortune.
When friends and father showed her cards, the first reaction was to resist accepting the truth.
She can't accept her husband's betrayal, so she has been cheating on herself.
Constructed a soap bubble dream for myself.
Illusion may be a great way to protect us.
However, if its existence affects our normal life, it is time to face it.
Today's movie, "Memories Trilogy", is to poke through some of the soap bubbles in life that we are accustomed to.
01
Story One:Her Story.
This is a cosmic version of the story of the Siren, and the heroine is a very good opera singer.
Before meeting a lover, have their own most glorious opera era.
Later, she was willing to give up her career for her lover, and found that her lover had betrayed her, so she used a computer to create an immortal memory, an illusion.
Here it will constantly attract new people into her memory and live with her for a long time.
This time, she met two astronauts.
An astronaut is very young, with fantasies of love and beauty, and soon immerses himself in the illusion.
Another astronaut, a middle-aged man, had a 10-year-old daughter.
The daughter must have died accidentally, so the illusion took advantage of him to let his daughter live in the illusion to lure him into the illusion.
But in the final stages, the middle-aged man stepped out of the illusion. Because he understands that even if the illusion is beautiful, he needs to go out and see the truth, rather than immerse himself in false beauty.
At the end of the story, in the ruins lies the remains of a lady who has become a skeleton.
Her memory remains forever in the illusion, the most beautiful part.
But the heartache and heartbreak she once had spread uncontrollably could not be relieved.
When we stay in the illusion, trying to cover up the truth through beautiful illusions, we often get immersed in the illusion and cannot extricate ourselves, and the longer we stay, the more we will lose the courage and strength to face the truth.
02
Story two is very interesting, called "The Stinkiest Weapon".
A small clerk at an institute had a cold and worked overtime with illness.
He was so sick that his colleagues advised him to take a newly developed cold medicine.
Didn't expect him to take the wrong medicine.
Ate the chemical weapons that the Institute researched for the government.
All the people in the house fell, leaving only the small clerk alone.
At this time, he received an order from a superior, who asked him to escort the sample of the batch of drugs secretly to the Headquarters in Tokyo.
In order to deliver the drugs to Tokyo, the small staff members walked through the siege of missile tanks and fighters, loyally carrying out their mission.
But everywhere he went, there was a stench everywhere, and all the creatures had fallen, and only the plants were growing more and more luxuriant.
He didn't know that he was the source of all this disaster.
He didn't know that the army he had used as a rescuer was there to destroy him.
It is ironic that a small clerk riding his own little electric donkey has escaped so much modern technology.
Ironically, as a conscientious and loyal employee, loyalty may not matter to that society.
Whether what is done is useful and valuable can truly determine a person's social value.
But at the same time, society is cultivating and creating obedient loyal executors and social screws.
So there's a layer of illusion here that we overlook, which means that the world we live in may not be what we see.
Therefore, if we want to live like a fish, we must be flexible and fast enough to respond to changes, and discovering the truth is the ability we need to master.
For example, continuous mastery of cognition, continuous self-awareness, and self-reflection can enhance this ability.
03
The third story is called Cannon Street.
This animation has a lot of "1984" implications.
It tells the daily life of a family of three.
The father is an artilleryman, the mother is an employee of the artillery factory, and the children study at the artillery school, learning how to calculate a better way and angle to fight the enemy.
The goal of everyone here is to fire shells and make cannons.
The place where I lived was all mechanically related (very punk) and there was no trace of life.
All of them had dark circles and a tired look.
The child's dream is to be a commander and direct the firing of artillery shells.
The paintings he painted were also of a cannon and a commander.
There is a strange sense of desolation in the whole Cannon Street, as if living in the desert.
Like the king in García Márquez's book, he was so lonely that he didn't even have a single enemy left.
The people of Cannon Street just fired shells, and every day they listened to the news that several shells hit the enemy.
But people never know who the real enemy is.
And does this enemy exist?
It's also a huge illusion.
Sometimes the enemies we imagine don't exist because we think they should exist and they continue to exist.
And there is more and more power in existence, because we will give them power.
04
The illusion is actually a very beautiful way to let us live in reality more harmoniously.
But the premise is that we are willing to dream awake.
There are some magical beings in Douban, such as the Douban group that "pretends we live in the magical world".
The friends here will seriously pretend to be a very capable wizard, lurking in the human world.
It's a super fun way to live that increases people's interest and enthusiasm for life.
You can also use this way to remember the past and make up for your past shortcomings.
If it is such an illusion, why not?
As long as we are willing to be a fun person, unleash our creativity.
Completely combine our imagination to create new worlds.
Then, that false, depraved illusion loses its appeal.