Liang Jingru, who has been divorced for a year, has recently had a new dynamic.
She was photographed by a reporter kissing a man passionately on the beach.
Subsequently, Liang Jingru admitted to the relationship.
"It's great to be in love." She laughed a lot.
And praised the new boyfriend in disguise: "I think he should be very handsome, should be very tall, should be very knowledgeable, should be very humorous." ”
Four shoulds in a row.
When she said this, 42-year-old Liang Jingru, with a peach blossom on her face, had a happy face.
Seeing such a love song after the queen, compared to last year, she is really much more happy.
A year has passed, and I have become more comfortable and comfortable.
It's also atmospheric and mature.
A large part of the reason is also because she has grown up in her relationship.
In the past, Liang Jingru has always been hidden from love.
Never face the outside world.
There is no mention of love history.
In 2004, as a diva of love songs, she was rumored to be in love with Martha.
Martha is a Bassist on Mayday.
They belong to the same company. All under the banner of Li Zongsheng.
Many of Liang Jingru's songs were made and played by Martha herself.
The two of them were once known as the Golden Boy.
But Liang Jingru always avoided this love affair.
Xiao S is notoriously blunt and spicy, but the guests who go to "Kangxi Lai" are either oiled or forced to ask for privacy.
Liang Jingru once went to visit, and it was no exception.
Xiao S forced Liang Jingru to ask, "Are you really with Martha?" ”
She gritted her teeth and looked around at him.
When pressed to the end, both sides were embarrassed.
At this time, Liang Jingru spat out a sentence: "Then you ask Martha next time." ”
"Kangxi Is Coming" really invited Martha.
Not long after, Xiao S invited Martha to the stage among a group of big-name guests.
Keep pressing him.
One question is more spicy than the other.
"Are you two together?"
Martha, like Liang Jingru, refused to admit it.
Cai Kangyong, who was beside him, was anxious and asked, "Why do you pretend not to know what the whole world knows?" ”
Martha still denies it.
But the little s is the little s, and here comes another fatal question: Do you not want to admit that it is because you climb her high?
Martha then relaxed slightly and said, "Yes! ”
From these two words, we can guess that they are indeed together.
However, Liang Jingru did not recognize it.
Martha has been covering.
But too many signs have made this love more and more intense.
On Valentine's Day 2006, Liang Jingru held a concert in Shanghai.
Martha also arrived.
Liang Jingru sang "Since you have feelings for me, why don't you be braver", and she turned her head to look at Martha.
Martha took advantage of the situation and hugged Liang Jingru tightly.
The exclamations from the audience continued.
Later, at the Mayday concert.
Liang Jingru was not there.
Before playing, Masha shouted into the microphone, "I love you." ”
The fans knew it and all shouted in unison, "Jingru! ”
I love you, Jingru.
This is the fact of how many fans want to hear.
But none of them ever took another step.
Don't dare to be honest.
Later, Liang Jingru did not wait.
She met Zhao Yuantong.
That's her ex-husband.
Knowing Zhao Yuantong, Liang Jingru was unexpected.
Because this man did not fit her imagination.
Zhao Yuantong did not have Martha's talent.
Nor is there his freedom.
The appearance is also not prominent.
But Liang Jingru still likes to be with him.
In 2007, Liang Jingru held a celebration banquet in Shanghai.
Zhao Yuantong was invited to attend because he was a friend of Liang Jingru's boss.
He doesn't like to listen to love songs.
Before listening to Liang Jingru's concert, I fell asleep several times.
Liang Jingru also complained, saying that he had only heard one of his songs, "Worship", but listened to two sentences and slept again.
But these were not important to Liang Jingru at that time.
What she cared about was not the difference, but the same.
The first time I met Zhao Yuantong, Liang Jingru did not have a good feeling for him, so she spoke very freely and never hid it.
The two chatted with their mobile phones, and Liang Jingru didn't care.
But at this time, she found that she and Zhao Yuantong had many similarities.
Zhao Yuantong came to Taiwan in 1997 to work hard.
Liang Jingru also came to Taiwan this year.
Zhao Yuantong is a red wine merchant.
Liang Jingru loves to taste red wine.
Zhao Yuantong loves travel and food.
Liang Jingru likes to go all over the world when she rests.
What is even more surprising is that although Zhao Yuantong does not like to listen to love songs, he frantically chases Diana Crane.
Liang Jingru's idol is Diana.
They have too many common interests.
And these interests guided Liang Jingru step by step to Zhao Yuantong's heart.
Because of the first meeting, Liang Jingru relaxed her posture.
So after getting along, she didn't hide her true self anymore.
They ate street food together.
Take a walk together in the moonlight.
Talk about the past and the future together.
Liang Jingru enjoyed this state.
This comfort is something she and Martha can't feel together.
Many times, Zhao Yuantong will say to her: "No matter what you do, I will support you, this is very easy, very good, let the fans see you the most real look." ”
Liao Yimei said that everyone is lonely. In our lifetime, encountering love, encountering sex, is not rare, it is rare to encounter understanding.
Liang Jingru was touched to the bone.
Three years later, she married Zhao Yuantong.
The two were married in the Philippines.
That year, Liang Jingru was 31 years old.
On the same day, Li Zongsheng took Liang Jingru's hand and watched this grown up little girl get married.
At the wedding, Liang Jingru said with tears: "Thank you for letting me grow into a better person." ”
Zhao Yuantong responded: "Thank you for being my other half and letting me complete my life." ”
To be honest, that was the time I saw Liang Jingru's tears flow the most.
She seems to be relieved of the past, but also sighing about the present.
She finally had a belonging.
A few years later, Liang Jingru was 35 years old and gave birth to a son.
Mother and child are safe.
Everything was just right.
But no one noticed that on Liang Jingru's big day, Martha had been crying.
He said he had not received a wedding invitation.
Also said that it will not go.
At that time, fans could not watch it, and discouraged Mayday from helping Martha grab the marriage.
Martha didn't.
Only that year, he was still stabbed in the heart.
When Liang Jingru got married, Martha went to Rene Liu's concert as a guest.
The two are iron brothers and speak frankly.
There is a scene where Rene Liu and Martha hate each other.
Martha was playing, and Rene Liu casually sang "Worship".
It is Liang Jingru's song.
After singing two sentences, she covered her face and smiled embarrassedly.
Then came the following sentence: "It is not a good thing to sprinkle hydrochloric acid on the wound." ”
This is obvious.
In allusions to him and Liang Jingru.
Martha also let go and immediately played Chen Sheng's famous song.
Rene Liu exploded, stared at Martha and said, "But the problem is that there is a difference, you have really been in contact, and I have not." ”
Martha laughed awkwardly.
Some people can only be the past.
Some emotions, and thinking about it, are all wounds.
A year after Liang Jingru gave birth to a child, the unmarried Martha also got married.
The other person is a designer.
The witness is still Li Zongsheng.
Martha said to her wife, "I know that the hand that has been held is already tight, and we will not let go, and I hope that we can hold hands and go to another stage of life together." ”
Liang Jingru responded.
"Congratulations, find your own happiness."
Later, such a small video came out on the Internet.
Martha stood in front of Liang Jingru's son and gently taught the baby to pluck the strings.
Love, Martha passed it on to the next generation.
However, he and Liang Jingru missed it in the end.
After getting married, Liang Jingru became very low-key.
In the company of Zhao Yuantong, she slowly let go of herself.
Transition from singer to actor.
In "First Love Red Bean Ice", Liang Jingru played a girl who fell in love.
This play makes her aware of her true self.
She said: "A lot of things in the heart have been suppressed and now released. ”
Even the staff who had been following Liang Jingru said: "She can let go of her heart." ”
Later, Liang Jingru slowly moved away from the stage and away from the camera.
Focus only on life.
Once, Yu Ji caught her and asked her: What are you doing without singing?
"Live a life." Liang Jingru answered very loudly.
But 9 years later, her marriage was still broken.
Zhao Yuantong was rumored to have taken a photo with the hot girl, and was also pulled out of his ambiguous relationship with Internet celebrities.
Soon after, they divorced.
That year, Zhao Yuantong sent a picture very strangely: death.
Later, the two never shared the stage.
Going around, Liang Jingru was still alone.
She became the lonely woman in her songs.
What is the cause that causes such an effect?
If you look closely, there are traces of everything.
Liang Jingru was very dependent on her father.
When she was young, her father asked her to sing, and she embarked on the path of being a singer.
But at the age of 18, my father was gone.
Liang Jingru lost her dependence.
In order to realize her dream and survive, she gave up reading and went out to sing to make money.
As an underage person, she entered adult society prematurely, and Liang Jingru became introverted, inferior, and very unconfident.
Gradually, she kept attacking herself.
Later, even if she went to Li Zongsheng's banner, because she couldn't sing well, she cried at home all night.
While crying, he blamed himself.
How desperate she was, to have a dependency.
A father-like harbor.
Therefore, Liang Jingru's requirements for her partner are only one: reliable.
"Tall, not too tall, not handsome, cute can be... It is the kind of boy who bears the responsibility, which is more gentle..."
That's why she couldn't get to the end with Martha.
Because Martha is romantic, but can't control it.
She finally chose Zhao Yuantong, who was not handsome, famous, but careful and easy to grasp.
As she has always emphasized, "Because down-to-earth." ”
But girl, what a dangerous thing it is for one person to be too dependent on another.
Feelings are metaphysics.
Many variables.
Unreliable and more.
What is really worth relying on is yourself.
Constantly strive to break through the shackles, and constantly become stronger yourself.
Just like Zhang Liangying, who has never felt her father's love, after getting rid of Feng Ke's control, she lives out the appearance of the big heroine step by step.
There is also Huang Yi, who was ruined by his marriage, and after leaving Huang Yiqing, he has been running in the sun now.
In the world of Psychic, only self-transit is the strength and dependence of a lifetime.
And now, Liang Jingru has also found new happiness.
This happiness has nothing to do with others, but with the inner fullness of oneself and the peace of the soul.
I also believe that she will get better and better.
Author: Chi Jinwen