Family affection never needs any flowery words, and being with them is already a long confession.
Stills from Jiang Wenli's movie "We See You in Heaven"
In 2009, the famous actress Jiang Wenli made a very personal film "We See You in Heaven".
The film depicts a time when she and her grandfather were dependent on each other in the late 1970s. At that time, her parents were sent to the frontier, and she lived with her grandfather. Grandpa's small courtyard was like the most free world in her childhood, and Grandpa regarded her as the whole of her life. She grew up day by day. Grandpa is getting older day by day. When Grandpa finally passed away, she reluctantly accepted this fact, and then she knew that Grandpa was a good man, and he would definitely go to heaven after death. So, one day, they'll see each other in heaven. That day was the day they were reunited.
Stills from Yu Feihong's movie "Love Has an Afterlife"
In 2009, the famous actor Yu Feihong also made her only film in this life, "Love has an Afterlife". At the beginning of the movie, it is written "I would like to dedicate this film to Pan Yunhui's classmates in heaven."
Pan Yunhui was a good friend of Yu Feihong's high school days. One summer vacation at the university, Yu Feihong went to the Hangzhou Railway Station to pick up Zhang Yang, an alumnus of the Beijing Film Academy who was traveling to Hangzhou, and saw Pan Yunhui who was about to cross the road in the distance. At that time, across the street, the time was rushing, Yu Feihong did not stop the old classmate. Soon after, she actually got the news that Pan Yunhui had died of leukemia. It was the first person beside her to die: "The old people in my family are very long-lived, like my grandfather died when he was a hundred years old." For the first time, Pan Yunhui gave me a real contact with death. ”
Later, when Yu Feihong saw a novel called "Ginkgo, Ginkgo", the feeling of life and death of losing her friend resurfaced, and when she finally expressed everything through the movie "Love has an afterlife", her first thought was to dedicate this film to Pan Yunhui.
Therefore, from an instinctive point of view, people will be willing to believe that those relatives, friends, and lovers who have left are all back in heaven.
It's a good wish.
A few days ago, I suddenly saw a short article posted on the Internet by a middle-aged man who was not too old, remembering his father who died and his mood after he left.
Deeply moved, and full of emotions. I forwarded it on my own headline number, and I didn't expect it to become a tree hole. There are many people who come to talk about the helplessness of their loved ones after they die. They can't extricate themselves from their grief and don't know how to move on to their lives.
These comments make the subject of this short article seem very heavy, but they also make people get warnings and inspirations from it. Looking at the message below the post in the past few days, I feel that thousands of emotions have never left.
The following is a screenshot of some netizens' messages ——
After reading these messages, I feel that people still have to pay attention to their own health, to be less entangled in small things, to argue with people less, and to improve more in the inner pattern. To ensure that you create value in the limited time of life, but also to ensure that you can meet every sunrise and send away every sunset in a healthy and peaceful way.
Cangyang Gyatso said: The affairs of the world, except life and death, are idle things.
Every time I think of this sentence, I feel in my heart the transparency and understanding of Cangyang Gyatso. That's why I like him.
Death is the ultimate. Everyone can't escape death. And whatever happens in life, wait and see. Do not rejoice in things, do not grieve with yourself. Simple and clean.
Before the departure of a loved one, do your best to accompany. The so-called parents are not far away, after reading these messages, there are more profound feelings.
Life is life. Meaning comes to meaning.
Take care of yourself and take care of your family. Calm with everything.
well.