A while ago, I attended a class reunion, the banquet was dispersed, and an old classmate privately asked me to break up
Mainly because he had a loan relationship with another classmate
I know about them, and after two or three years, his many requests have still come to no avail
This is not about to celebrate the holiday, during the party he also asked the borrower, the answer is "pay back at the end of the year"
Again and again in arrears, who encounters such a thing without making a fuss?
From his occasionally excessive words, it seems that the idea of "one slap and two eyes" with the other party has arisen
Dogs will jump the wall when they are anxious, and people will be really forced to be anxious, and they may not be able to do something
Listening to his complaints, I couldn't help but think back to the clip of "Endless"
The movie is very old, just look at the name has a unique charm, it is worth our careful taste
I have to say that Director Feng's films will always have a little black humor and irony, of course, this one will not be less
An honest taxi driver (played by Uncle Ge), he works hard every day and charters a car for the boss to use all year round, but the cost is not paid
Is this a typical example of "not giving money"?
In order to treat the sister lying on the hospital bed, he repeatedly asked the boss for no results, and in the case of no way, he "kidnapped" the boss's girlfriend
Invisibly become a "bad guy", but still can't get the desired results, because he meets a boss who values money more than life
With superb acting skills, Uncle Ge in the film reveals full of helplessness and bitterness
Is it a reflection of every ordinary person in reality who runs for life?
Diligent and earnest work, hard work to earn money, some people for life, and even more for survival, if you still encounter such unscrupulous people, will you lament the "unfair fate"?
There is no word "easy" in the adult world, this kind of thing is not in the minority, you are reading the article you may be experiencing such "endless"
Once upon a time, a natural thing became more difficult than ascending to heaven, and the ideological transformation could not be studied
When I borrow money from you, my respect overflows with words, I nod my head like a "grandson", and I sincerely pat my chest and stand up
When you want him to pay him back, he becomes his own promise, and he becomes the "great uncle" who is high up in the air, with a face of impatience and evasion
If Yang Bailao and Huang Shiren were alive now, it is estimated that the landlord would have been killed by anger
In the old social form of the past, the peasants were always forced to the side of the dead end, now what? It's all the other way around
The most exaggerated statement is: "Why should I repay the money I borrowed by my ability?" ”
At first, this was an online slang, but it has more or less begun to be implanted in the thinking form of some people, so the deviation of values is very frightening
Once the idea is deeply rooted, it will only breed more "old lai" now and in the future.
Now life is not easy, everyone has their own difficulties, can help people, save people from water and fire, the original intention is very good, but most of the results we have seen are very helpless
A few days ago, I inadvertently brushed up a piece of news that a certain creditor in Gansu wanted the life of a couple for more than two thousand yuan
When you see the headline, your first reaction must be an uproar: for a mere two thousand yuan, you want someone's life?
This is certainly not worth it, but if people are forced to be anxious, they will really do some unexpected things, which is not alarmist
Slightly subjectively ponder the underlying psychological logic of both borrowers and lenders
First, the threshold for credit is too low
"Lao Lai" may not want to rely at the beginning, and it is really difficult to be helpless to default, but after a long time, he will slowly feel "taken for granted" in his heart, and he will not be eager to return it, and he will open the mode of "playing Lai"
Second, the bottom line of the account is too soft
It is said that it is "grandson" who wants the account, but in fact, it is not, but many people invisibly lower their posture when they first pursue, so that it is easier to induce the "rogue" consciousness of the debtor
Blindly low three down four in exchange for not real money and silver, but the other party's bottom of the heart to determine "you can't take me"
When I encounter such a "lao lai", I and I will also have the impulse to "give him two slaps", is there really no way to take these people?
Fortunately, the state and various localities have now introduced many policies and measures for "untrustworthy" people, which can greatly protect the legitimate rights and interests of the majority of "creditors"
In any case, seeking legal help is the most effective way
Instead of spending a lot of time and energy on the road of recovery, it is better to leave it to the law to solve, to do things that should be done, to make money to earn money, after all, we have to continue to live is not it?
Hope for it
In the days to come, as people's moral quality improves, such "endless" will become less and less...